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you are right, I developed now massively the skills to go out alone and approach girls. But as I wrote some weeks before, I am not really experienced in taking a lady home on the same evening/night. I will develop this skill after I finished the program next week.
Which resources and articles can you recommend here on the homepage of Chris in the context of taking a girl home on the same night? How did you learn this skills and how are you executing it in a practical way?
Month 3 - week 11 - night 2 (17.10.2019)
This nigh I visited a bar in Zurich, which was very crowded. The people there were all together in bigger groups and very self-absorbed. So therefore it was very hard to make eye contact with a lady and initiate to wave her over. Again I had not really control about the receptiveness of the ladies. In all the weeks before I could start the interaction actively by just walking over to them and get their attention by talking to them. With all the drills of week 11, you can only initiate it passively.
Over the session, I made eye contact and started to wave with 3 girls and 1 group of girls. The result was always negative. Some of them tried to wave me over to them instead. It was almost like a frame battle. But I always made clear that I will not come over and so the ladies did as well in response to me. But it was a good experience to keep your power by not giving up and staying where you are.
I struggeled again with fulfilling the 11 "wave over" tasks tonight. At the end I made around 5 approaches with the result that one lady came over. The rest reacted again like the girls in the previous nights, either totally ignoring or letting me know that I have to come over to them.
The one interaction was pretty good, the lady was from the states and is working here in Switzerland. Because I was not really interested sexually in her, I started a political discussion about Trump. She was fan of the Democrats so therefore the discussion was over after some more minutes because she wanted to smoke outside. This was ok for me.
I had an interesting situation with another lady, who watched me waving to several girls in the room to catch their attention. She told me that she thinks it is sad that I only wave to ladies and not to boys. I replied to her what kind of bullshit she is telling to me here. Is it that she would also wave to girls? It was a very weird lady. I made clear that I will not change my behavior for her. Afterwards she told me that she has a boyfriend and I just left with the words that I do not want to marry her.
At the end of the night I made another wave approach in another bar and after she told me that the man has to come over to her and in which world I would live, I told her that I live in my world with my rules. I had a nice interaction afterwards with her and at the end I took a solid number..
I´m not sure on any specific article, and I can't remember his specific advice from memory.
From my very small experience (three girls home, one bj and one lay from night time) I used pretenses to get them home, two of them I straight up told them to come home with me to have one more beer and listen to some music (which were the lay and the bj), and the other one I told her we were only going to cuddle.
Maybe a pretense is not even neccesary, but it can't hurt your chances.
Just tell a girl at closing time or earlier if you want: why don't we continue the converstation/ why don't we hangout with a beer/wine/whatever at my place, it is really nearby. If she is hestiant tell her it will be no more than 30 minutes only one drink.
thank you for your feedback, I will implement these tipps step by step after I finished the program. I already checked the blog of Chris and will go into more detail especially with his articles about looks, style, social freedom, Swag factor, sense of entitlement and the killer instinct.
Month 3 - week 11 - night 4 (19.10.2019)
I focused tonight on a bar with dance floor and made several wave over approaches. At the end of the day, one of them worked. I made eye contact to a lady on the other side of the bar. Then I started with waving her over to me. At the beginning, she was confused and double checked if I really meant her. I stayed cool and continued with waving her to me. After she discussed a bit with her group she walked over to me, it was pretty awesome. We had a nice talk and at the end I took her instagram after we decided to catch up for a coffee in the future.The only mystic I made wasI not arranging directly a date on a specific day with her.
Ok guys, time to finish the program next week with the final chapter of week 12. I am already excited what kind of drills were created by Chris for this final week.
Final week of the program guys, so let's get on with it! Basically this final week, you start all interactions by saying that the girl is cute, attractive or sexy. In addition, you have again control over all your interactions regarding the opening of it, not like last week, where the girl has to come to you voluntarily after waving her over.
The interactions went well, I got some really good reactions and some of them were more or less neutral, but no bad reaction at all. Even the creeper challenge was ok tonight saying to a girl "Can I get a kiss?". I did not get the kiss, but she was also not leaving. Overall I got two numbers tonight from ladies. With one of these ladies i was even capable to pull her out of the club to the fresh air where I also went for a kiss then. The lady refused it but I stayed cool and continued the interaction back inside of the venue. At the end it was a solid number close, I think I will see this girl again and try to kiss her another time.
The program was pure fun tonight with some solid interactions based on the sexual openers of the this last week. I had mostly nice and friendly reactions of girls or groups of girls. A group of two ladies wanted to know in a funny way, how many groups of girls I told already, that they are the cutest in the bar. I acted like I had to think hard about it and finally answered "I am not sure, maybe around 7 or 8" with a wink. We all laughed hard afterwards.
A really interesting situation happened while executing the creeper challenge tonight asking the girl if I can get a kiss. The lady was very surprised and asked me back "You mean on the mouth?" and I answered yes of course. She refused it but asked me why I am doing this and I told her then that I find her attractive and introduced myself. We made a handshake and I remembered an article from Chris, where he mentioned to hold the handshake as long as possible. I could hold it in this situation for around a minute, it felt like an eternity to me, pretty awesome. We talked for a while and finally I left her because she told me that she has a boyfriend. Nevertheless it was a great experience for me.
In another bar I told a girl that she is the hottest one here in this venue. She was pretty impressed by it and we started a nice conversation. It turned out that she has birthday today and celebrating with two female friends. The girl was on her way back to her two friends in the moment of my approach and finally I released her. Thinking about it right now it seems like a mistake, because I had the impression that the lady wanted to stay in my presence or was close before to ask to come with her to her group. After I finished the rest of the tasks in and outside the bar I returned back to her to have a little small talk again. At the end of it. I took her number and we arranged to meet somewhere in the future. Now back home writing this lines here for you guys she answered me on my initial message. So the number seems pretty solid so far.
Before I began the final night of the program I had a date with a lady that I meet a week before in a bar. The date turned out to be a disaster for me. I left the scenery after around 15 minutes because the lad invited me into a bar, where she stayed with her two female friends. It was an awful venue with very loud music so I could not really talk with the girl there. After she made clear that she will not go home to my place I decided to leave her telling her that she can catch up with me another time when we can spend some time together in a quieter place.
The last night of the program was good, I spoke to two really hot ladies, from one I could even take the number. I had a handful other nice interactions with groups of girls and single ladies. I feel much more comfortable now to give a lady a compliment about her look than when I started with the program. In addition the program helps a lot to give you a structure in your nights going out. I had so much good experiences over the last three months, it is really astonishing. Therefore I highly recommend to execute this program by yourself.
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