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Have you tried getting laid after finishing each night's drills?
I think you are more than ready to do normal approaches by now.
I just started going out at night again after like 2 years or more and I couldn't do half of the things you are already doing, but I can approach girls and already took one home (altough I didn't sleep with her)
Since I am in the game, I was always more a daygamer than a nightgamer. I generated a standard lay normally by getting a number on daytime and had sex with the lady after a maximum of three dates afterwards.
In the nighttime I did not celebrate that much success so far, it is for me not possible at the moment to pull a girl during the night that leads to a same night lay. Even my two lays in Thailand 4 weeks before resulted out of dates on the next days after the initial approach.
So I think it is already a big success for you to take a girl home to your place in the nighttime. You can be proud of it. It means that the lady trusted you and felt comfortable around you. This is a good fundament on which you can build on in your game.
At the moment I will follow the program of Chris without doing any serious try of a normal approach. But just by doing the program in the last weeks I generated some numbers, which led to sex on another day. I hope that the program will improve my nightgame so that I am able to have sex on the same night I approached a lady. But you are right, so far the program gave me more confidence and joy going out in the night. Already that was worth it to push through the program so far.
The circumstances to pass the 15 group approaches tonight were not that good than in the night before, because this time I was in two bars with integrated dance floors, which means that it was very loud in both venues. But it was still possible to start the interactions. In addition, tonight I was not that nervous on my way to the bars and it was much easier to start with the drills in general. Chris is right, you can acclimate this nighttime mindset with little baby steps night by night, it is really amazing.
To pass the drills, again I approached all kind of possible groups, only girls or only boys or mixed groups. In my opinion, it makes sense to start a conversation especially directly at the bar or at the edge of the dance floor, so that the people are not too extracted by dancing or other stuff. Some of the talks lasted really long again, but most of them were in general much shorter that in the night before because of the noise. But again nobody got angry or mad by my approaches. And if you feel not really comfortable during an interaction, you have always the control by leaving the group when the people are not really receptive towards you or you think the people are not very likable. The key here is, that you should not overcomplicate the approaches, just try to have a nice conversation with some random people. Nice side effects of doing the program tonight were, that iI got a solid number from a lady and in addition a business card from a guy, who is also working in a bank in Zurich, to make a bit business networking in the future.
While doing the drills yesterday I got a number from a lady. Before doing the program today, I had a date with the girl in the afternoon. After a first drink in the city, I took her home to my place where we finally had sex after around an hour hanging around there. After she left, I was not completely motivated to go out, but I finally did it to fulfill the last week of the second month.
It was funny tonight, because I approached two times the same group of girls in one bar. Of course the changes are very high open the same group while doing 15 times the same drill in one venue. One of the ladies was not really amused by the second approach. The interesting fact here was, that she told me that she was observing me doing the approach also on other groups. She said that it is shit what I am doing here, but I did not really care about her concerns.
In my opinion, this weeks drill exercise is a very powerful tool to socialize with people, when you are alone in a bar or club. Again I had in general no negative conversations, the talks were partly really funny and entertaining tonight. Chris is right to say, that it is quite possible, that some of the groups you approach with this technique will have the most exciting time on that evening while talking with you.
This weeks drills only involve ladies or groups of ladies, but after all the drills of the weeks before it felt that I am ready now to dive deeper in the land of the woman, so let's go.
The drill of opening a girl with the saying that she is not allowed to text on her mobile phone here, is really funny. In the beginning, alle ladies were confused, but the smart ones then answered something like "No, you are wrong, I am doing google maps" or something, when they realized that I was more or less joking. So in general it seems a pretty awesome task to come in a good and funny mood when starting the bar game.
I adapted a bit the drill with approaching a girl by saying that she reminds me of my ex-girlfriend by telling to the girl, that she reminds me of the girlfriend of my older brother. Regarding to Chris, you can say to her what you want in that context. It worked perfectly and at the end I could even take a picture with her, so "that I can show it to my brother".
This weeks creeper challenge was completely insane tonight. I approached two girls by asking if they know the Kegel exercises for ladies. After I explained the exercise in more details and asked the ladies if it is true, that It will make their vaginas tighter, I thought theses two ladies will kill me now. One of them was really shocked, but the other one seemed really interested in that topic. We had a open talk about the technique and that she heard about it from other ladies, who were pregnant and wanted a tighter pussy after the born of their child. This creeper challenge is a pretty amazing experience so far for me, because before doing it I almost shit again in my pants, because I was not used to it to bring such delicate topics in a talk with completely unknown people.
Yes the creeper challenges are really the shit of this program. I highly recommend to pass all of them together with the regular drills. You push yourself really to the limit with them, it will blow your mind for sure.
Month 3 - week 9 - night 2 (03.10.2019)
I had a pretty solid evening going out alone. An interesting situation happened while I approached a lady with asking how much she loves living here in Zurich. After two minutes or so another dude came over and she introduced him to me as her boyfriend. I reacted very friendly by shaking his hand and spoke another 30 seconds afterwards with the girl. It was pretty astonishing, that she was still concentrated on me while her boyfriend was really passive next to her. At the end she gave me a big smile and a handshake. I understand now, how it is possible, that you can create something with a lady that is hanging around with her partner at the moment of the approach. When the situation is positive and the girl likes you, many things are possible. I remember a pick up friend form Germany told me a story, that he got a number from a girl in a club, while her partner was standing next to her. After tonight I think this is a very realistic scenario, that everybody could create with solid experience in the game.
Tonight I had again a really good experience with saying to a girl, that I am working here and it is not allowed to text anymore. After some moments they reacted all with humor to it, no negative reaction at all. In addition it was the begin of some interesting small talks. One lady told me that I am right with it, because everybody is just focused on the mobile phone instead of making normal social interactions in day and night time. She added to the discussion, that she has even one day per week without using the mobile phone. With another lady I build up a good vibe after I allowed her in a funny way to text again. At the end of the talk I could even generate a pretty solid number from her.
This night I became aware of what it means to show off with confidence and authority to a lady. While doing the drill to tell the girls that texting is not allowed here anymore, one of the girls really believed it in the beginning what I said until I started to smile. Of course I already read that so many times in pick up literature, but when you experience it by yourself it is really an eye opener.
With the same energy you can also open groups almost effortless, even with topics like the Kegel exercises to tighten the pussy. I could not believe it, again with one of the ladies of a group I could talk about this delicate topic really openly. There was no negative consequence. So that means, that even in this weird "Me Too" times nowadays, the ladies are still interested in improving their sexuality to be more attractive for men.
Also it happened today again, that I approached the same group of ladies again with the topic about the life quality here in Zurich. If you execute this program, you will also soon realize, that doing about 15 drills in one venue will bring you sooner or later to a person or group that you already approached the same evening already. It is always a bit embarrassing fo me and the ladies are not really amused about it. But at the end, we are doing a numbers game her as Chris said in his blogs, and therefore something like that can always happen. You should learn to deal with it. I normally try to visit at least two bars a night to avoid such situations.
After my approach on one of the ladies tonight, she told me that she was very happy, that a guy started a conversation with her. In many years it did not really happen to her here in Zurich. In her opinion I should continue with that way, because not many men are doing this. Yes she is right, as a man you have a massive advantage towards other guys when you use techniques like the stuff I learned so far in this program. Therefore I will continue with this way for sure.
Like the last week, this week only offers drills with girls, I like it. In addition Chris installed sexual components in some of the tasks. So this is getting really interesting now in the last month of the program.
The new drills walking up to a girl and say "I love you... I love you" and walk up to ladies you are not interested in and saying to them "You are sexy" are causing very mixed reactions. Some ladies completely ignored me and just left the interactions. With some others I had a nice conversation afterwards. From one girl I could generate also a number at the end of the evening.
Chris is doing it again, this weeks creeper challenge surpasses the one from last week with the Kegel exercises. This time I have to go to a girl and tell her that I just had another lady and that she should smell my hands now. I was really nervous to do this challenge because I never sad something like that before to a complete stranger. At the end I was shocked, because the lady reacted more or less normal and just answered without any anger, that I should go first to the toilet to wash my hands. I could not believe it, I thought she will totally freak out, but instead of that, she stayed calm and we had a nice talk afterwards. This program is just awesome, thank you Chris.
Both tools "I love you I love you" and "You are sexy" are really powerful tools that force the ladies to a fast reaction. The tools flank massively the concept of Chris with screening the ladies for their availability. One girl for example just said "wow" as a first reaction, another one answered, that she don't like my approach. After asking her why, she told me that "sex is not good". The lady seemed complete overwhelmed by this kind of approach, it was pretty amazing.
The task with asking the ladies to try to touch their elbows on their back caused completely different reactions tonight. One lady found it really funny while another one answered very harsch and unfriendly "Do you want to shit me or what?".
Like on the first night of this week, the creeper challenge shocked me again, because after telling a girl, that I had a lady this evening and I want her to smell my hands now, she just started to laugh. She took it not very seriously and was not getting aggressive and we had a nice short small talk afterwards.. I thought, I have to leave the place very fast to survive after this creep approach, but she stayed in a chilled mood, it was unbelievable. All my fear, that I created before the approach in my mind, that she would go directly to the bouncer to throw me out of the bar, was a completely illusion in my head.
Interesting developments happened tonight going out to the bars. After one approach of a lady a guy spoke to me asking if she is single or not. He was watching me while I did my drills and was obviously impressed by the stuff I was doing. It was a cool feedback for me.
Finally I also got a lady, that was really disgusted after I told her that she should smell my fingers after I had a lady close before. She pushed me away when I tried to touch her afterwards. I just answered then in a funny way, that it is maybe better when I wash my hands now and left the situation. Comparing to the first try doing the creeper challenge on Tuesday this week, I was more or less fearless now doing this approach with a lady.
The highlight of the evening was, that I had an interaction with a lady and then suddenly another girl passed by quickly and grabbed me in the crotch and left afterwards. I could not believe it. Maybe she saw me doing the drills all this evening and thought this guy got it. Or she was just drunk or on other drugs who knows. Too bad she was not my type to make more out of this situation, but it was a funny experience being approached by a lady in such a way.
This week is a very special one, because it includes only tasks waving to a girl to come over to you and then starting an interaction.At first it seems easier than the tasks in all the weeks before, but it is actually not. The main reason fo me is that you do not have it in your own hands because the girl has to make the decision to come over to you although you open the interaction technically.
Over this evening I made a total of 5 wave approaches with girls. The main reason for it was, that I did not wave to every girl one after one to avoid the impression that I do this with every lady around. Here are the results: 1 girl did not react at all, two ladies refused to come over to me and with two it was actually working. This was awesome to me. I could really feel the power that lies in this kind of move when you convince the girl to come over. Both ladies did not want to show up firstly and one of them tried to wave me to her place. But I stayed patient and entitled until they came over. With both ladies I had a nice talk and could generate a number at the end.
So the experience was very good with this moves, but I failed to pass all drills tonight for the first time of the program. The drills cost so much time until I created a positive eye contact to start a wave interaction. I think that was also the reason why Chris reduced the tasks from an original amount of 15 drills down to 11 + the creeper challenge. So 2 or 3 more nights this week to go. We will see if I can improve.
This means I really need your help now guys. How do you passed this week 11 of the program? How did you manage the wave drills in an efficient way to push you through the 11 + 1 drills? Can you give me some tips and tricks for this kind of approach in general?
In conclusion, can someone give me the valid link, that leads me to the video of Chris doing this wave drills? The link in the week 11 of the program is not valid anymore. I really wanna see Chris as a role model doing this exercises. Thank you for your support beforehand guys!
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