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I am coming right now from my last evening in Patong on the island of Phuket here in Thailand. So let's get it on!
Week 4 - night 2 (29.08.2019)
The three core tasks of this week, eye contact and wink, saying "Hey Cutie" over your shoulder and tap the lady on her shoulder while passing by went more or less smooth tonight. I did most of the approaches on the Bangla road because of the high traffic of other people passing by. I feel now way more comfortable with the tasks than the nights before.
The creeper challenge with wiping your wet finger on the arm of lady is still hard to to for me. The one lady tonight was so shocked, so that I went back later to her to tell her that I am not crazy and just wanted to see her reaction. In addition I did the creeper challenge a second time again because I smiled to much while doing it the first time. But I think it is still ok also with the smile in your face while doing it.
At the end of the night, I also said goodbye to my favorite bartender during my holiday. He was almost every night involved in my tasks while doing the program, at the end we became somewhat good buddies, it was just awesome.
Side note about the beginning of the night:
Before doing the taks for today, I had an date with a lady, which gave me her number the previous night. We spent around an hour together until it was time to bring her to my hotel room. But at this point she made clear, that she wants money before we have sex together. So I told her, that I will not pay for sex and that was it then basically with her. If you plan to go to Thailand for holidays, you have to understand, that almost every Thai girl wants a trade off in exchange for spending time together. This starts with paying drinks in the bar, paying possibly also for dinner and finally for the sex itself. Looking back now I have to say, that I was more or less lucky with my two lays without payment here on Phuket. I did not payed for the sex itself and only spend a dinner with one of the ladies in exchange for driving me over the island with her scooter.
Back in Zurich, Switzerland from my Thailand holidays in Patong, Phuket Island, i continued with the program last night still suffering a bit from the jet lag.
Week 4 - night 3 (31.08.2019)
It was now the first time for me to stand still in the middle of a dance floor for 10 minutes, because the nights before I did that drill exercise on the Bangla Road in Patong. It was creepy as hell for me, but it seemed like that most of the people were busy with themselves dancing or drinking. So at the end I survived it. The same with the creeper challenge. It worked now more easier for me than the nights before, because I got used to it.
In general I had the impression last night, that it is more difficult to make eye contact here in Switzerland than in Thailand. Maybe it is a cultural thing, because it took me much longer time to establish a good eye contact with the girls yesterday. Also saying to the girl "Hey Cutie" while passing them by seemed not so efficient like it was in Thailand. But the move with tapping on the shoulder of a girl is still as powerful as it was in Thailand.
Interesting side note:
Arriving at the airport yesterday and driving back home with the train, I got the chance to make eye contact with several girls in the train. One of them got offended by that, especially when I winked at her after she did not break the eye contact with me. She then asked me in an angry condition why I am looking at her in that kinky way. It was a bit uncomfortable situation for me because other people became aware of the situation by her action. I tried to stay calm and said, that I am just watching and do not need any explanation for this behavior. It was almost like a Fame battle between us, because I still kept the eye contact until she gave up. I was very nervous inside during this interaction, but I tried my best to hold my CEO frame here, because i did nothing illegal and were not aggressive at all. The lady was not European by origin, she looked rather like a girl from Latin America or somewhere from Asia. But she was infiltrated by feminism and "me too" bullshit for sure. I am very glad now while writing this, that she could not discourage me by her aggressive behavior.
Hi volks, today I started with the second month the program, respective week 5. So coming back right now and writing down what happened, let's get started.
Month 2 - week 5 - night 1 (03.09.2019)
I got interesting reactions for the first task leaning at the bar and say Hi to anyone who walks up next to me. Some of them ignored me completely or were confused, but some others reacted very friendly. Overall it was a new good experience.
The Highfives went also pretty well, one guy started a conversation with me about the party season opening again in this specific bar with an additional dance floor. it was a cool small talk.
And one more time again, I realized that the move with touching the girls works much better for me than saying the phrase Hey Cutie while passing the girl. The results are also comparable with the one's from Thailand last week.
The task of taking a picture of you by a girl using your mobile phone led also to a nice small talk with that lady at the end. But I did not took her number, because I was not so fascinated by her. The number I took from another lady before I left the venue. It was a sexy Latina from Venezuela. She said, that she is here in Zurich for some weeks to work and enjoy holidays. We will see what the future brings, maybe the lady means with working a kind of prostitution, who knows.
This weeks creeper challenge takes the cake for sure. I sad down in the bar area and thought, that I will not survive this for more than one minute. But surprisingly nothing happened first. I sad down on the floor and watched the people. Most of the people reacted emotionless and were not really offended by my action. Even the bartenders looked at me and nothing happened. So I decided that I will sit here for a maximum of ten minutes and then I will stand up again. In the meanwhile one guy came to me and asked if I am meditating, another guys asked a bit later if I feel sick or so. Finally after around 9 minutes, a security came into the bar from the other area around the dance floor and told me to stand up now. I did it and it was ok for the bouncer. It has a good ending. But I have to say, that minute by minute sitting there on the floor I got more nervous and was happy that he ended it after almost 10 minutes. It is a tough creeper challenge but worth to do it. I feel really good at the moment looking back to it. It is really about going out of your comfort zone. But I will do it only one time per bar/club this week, because I want to go to that venues in the near future again without any problems.
Hey guys, todays challenges's night was interrupted by a girl, that I already met in a bar in the first week of the program. I also mentioned it in the corresponding post of that night, that the number seemed pretty solid. Before I went to my holidays in Thailand, I had a first date with her, which was more or less sexual, but did not lead to sex. Now this evening I met her again at a Sushi restaurant and afterwards we went home to my place, where we had finally sex. It is pretty amazing how helpful the program was so far for me, thank you very much Chris!
Month 2 - week 5 - night 2 (05.09.2019)
Today it was funny, because I got the advice of one girl, that instead of saying "Hi Cutie", I should try it with a German phrase, maybe something like "Hey Süsse". I tried it afterwards, the results did not improve that much, but at least I can do now variations depending on the cultural background of the girl.
Interesting to see today was in addition, that some girls refused to make a high five with me. Asking them why, the response was, that they don't like it. Ok fair enough, it teached me, that you can not force a lady to her luck, as we say in Germany, You have to accept this decisions of the girls and let the situation go.
The saying Hi to everybody at the bar was fun again like the last time. Some people ignored me completely. but others started directly with a handshake like they knew me or years. It is a pretty cool exercise.
This time the creeper challenge lasted for about 1 and a half minute until a bar keeper let me know, that I have to stand up now. Until then many people watched me again sitting on the ground, but it never had any harsh consequences. So do what you want and don't give a damn about what people think about you, that is what you learn here with that creeper challenge.
Hi, before doing the program today, I had a terrible date with a lady, that I met on the street parade in Zurich some weeks ago. In the beginning we had a really nice conversation, but finally it endet up in a feminist nightmare with a lady that acted and talked like a man. She destroyed our good mood with her behavior and I did not see any female energy in her at the end, it was really disgusting. I was glad, that she left voluntarily the date and blocked me on WhatsApp right after it. So at least I will not waste any more time with her, which is very good.
Month 2 - week 5 - night 3 (06.09.2019)
Today the people at the bar were not really friendly. Almost nobody reacted on me, when I tried to say Hi to them or nodded with my head trying to start a conversation while leaning at the bar. But the high five challenge made fun and all people participated and had a good mood. So always make the best out of each situation, even when the conditions are really bad.
With the creeper challenge, I had an extraordinary experience tonight. I placed myself on the floor directly at the dance floor next to the bar. It did not take more than 30 seconds until a bouncer appeared and asked what is going on here. I recognized the guy from the weeks before asking for his name and other stuff related to the program's tasks. Maybe he also recognized me from those former actions, because he offered me help to bring me outside the bar to take fresh air after I told him that I feel not very well as a excuse for my behavior. While I was sitting outside, he even brought me some juice for getting some sugar into the blood. So he acted very friendly, I was really surprised by it. In conclusion, the creeper challenge this week was the hardest so far, Chris is right saying that you need balls for this exercise. But it is worth to do it, it brought me massively forward in my development. And the consequences were never really negative.
Tonight was a fun night for me with the new tasks of week 6 of the program. I was very curious how the girls will react, when a guy in his thirties asks the ladies to buy a drink for him because he is only 17. In Germany and Switzerland you can get drinks already with the age of 18 in contrary to the Unites States. I was really surprised, that two out of three ladies answered directly with a yes although I do not really look like a teenager anymore in my opinion. Anyways, all three interactions led to funny talks with the girls, it was just awesome.
The creeper challenge was fun as well. In a discrete way I asked a guy for a condom in the bar so that I would be able to "fuck with some broads". The guy reacted in a humorous way, that he forgot his condoms in the car, and that I should try it without a condom, because that would make much more fun. After that, he even involved his buddy in the talk, who offered me the same option about using condoms or not. We laughed all hard about this talk.
The combination of walking beside a girl, touch her arm and say "Hey Cutie" was a really powerful tool tonight for me. 4 out of 5 girls reacted positively. Later, one of the 5 ladies even showed up at my side on the dance floor and we had a nice talk. At the end of the evening I also took her number then. I think the key with this task is, that you just leave the scenery after saying "Hey Cutie" to the girls. With this action you show that you like them but on the other hand that you will not run after them. So you are acting with this move always from a position of power and will not give that power away to her.
The task of asking a lady buying me a drink because of my age caused more negative reactions this time in contrary to the first night of this week. Instead of being amused, one of the ladies started a discussion of how I should approach girls instead. But it was the usual bullshit of respecting and listening to the girls, that will not bring us forward in our development. Beware of such ladies, that try to confuse and manipulate us men, because a fish will never tell a fisherman how to fish them.
On the other hand, I made a pretty amazing experience tonight. While doing the passing by move with touching and saying "Hey Cutie" one of the girls recognized me from the starting event in my new company on Monday of the previous week. I did not remember her because it was an event with more than hundred people. But she did, it was very funny. So we made a bit small talk and exchanged business contacts and will go for lunch soon in the company. The key here was, that you have to show up in the land of women first of all. Many surprises can happen with just taking action. Without doing it, this positive experience and all the other interactions with the girls would never have happened. So go out and approach the ladies, the rest will develop with growing experience.
Tonight I was in the bar, where the bouncer, who helped me last week going out of the club because I told him that I feel sick as a excuse of my creeper challenge sitting on the floor, recognized me again and asked if everything is ok. I thanked him for his support and entered the bar. It seems to me, that I had a really deep impact on the bouncer during all the tasks within the last weeks. It is really amazing, how powerful this program from Chris actually is.
Inside the bar i made a two-hand high five with a girl. Because she was part of a bigger birthday group I made also shake hand with the birthday kid afterwards. I got even something to eat from the group, it was just awesome.
Like in the other nights this week, I gave the cigarette back tonight, for which I asked smoking people around the bar. I did this, because I stopped smoking years before completely. But each time I had a nice little talk with the person, from whom I got the cigarette. So it seems right, that smokers are communicative people in general. But at the end of the day, it is just a harmful and dirty habit.
The creeper challenge lead again to a funny reaction of a guy, who looked a bit like a bodyguard or even a criminal. He said he has no condom with him. but I should try the sex without condom, because it makes more fun. It seems like people from Switzerland are really used to this condom difficulties.
Tonight I almost shit into my pants going out to alone, because all the tasks of this week in accumulated form are the hardest so far in my opinion. For me it feels like two creeper challenges with walking around with your arms in the air and walking backwards. In addition, I was afraid of lightly bump the ladies with my ass walking by.
Both creeper challenges got me much attention from the other guest of the bar, I felt really uncomfortable doing this stuff, but fortunately I survived them both at the end. Some guys asked me, who won in the soccer game because I was walking around with lifted arms, so it was quit funny at the end.
To touch the girl at the arm and telling her she looks sexy caused in general amazing reactions. Most of the girls were happy about my compliment and reacted very friendly in general. Also the task with touching the girls with my ass gave me better results than expected. Eihter the girl reacted completely dismissive or smiled back to me. One of the girls even started a conversation with me afterwards.
So I had a very good feeling at the end coming home now and writing this down. There is no other choice for me now then pushing this program through, because it give me such a good vibe and joy to go out to bars alone at the moment. I did not have such an experience with one of the other paid pick up programs or boot camps, that I attended so far. Thank you Chris!
Again like in the first night of this week, I was afraid of going out to fulfill the tasks, because for me it is the toughest week so far for sure. I was especially frightened again by both creeper challenges. Now coming back I am so happy, that I did it again. This hard tasks are pushing your really forward while executing them.
It felt again like a never ending story walking through the bar with hands up or walking backwards through the venue, but at least I was not that nervous like on the first night of the week. People asked me while passing them, if I lost a bet or something, so no negative reactions and no bouncer showed up, all good with this creeper challenges so far.
With the two approach tasks walking by and hit them with my ass and touching their arms and saying "Hey you are sexy", I got either a completely neutral reaction or nice reactions. These positive reactions in times of "me too" were pretty amazing. I thought, ladies will gonna kill me for doing this with them, instead of that, some of them seemed almost thankful, that there are still some guys out there, who show up like men and not like pussies.
The last night of this week began again with hesitation to go out. I was afraid of bad reactions if I do the creeper challenges again. And now afterwards I feel great again. So it seems necessary, that you push yourself through something, which your inner voice telling you to avoid. No pain no gain seems therefore also valid for picking up girls in the long run.
Chris is right to say, that the challenge with interrupting a crowd and asking them if the girl will be hurt tonight causes kind of predictable reactions after several tries. The tendency here is, that ladies are more confused than men and men reacted more reasonable in this situation. But it is amazing in general, how fast you can get the attention of a group when you interrupt them more or less authoritatively and say something semi-interesting. Another positive benefit of tis task is, that you can start with most of the groups a nice small talk afterwards.
Finally I can continue this week again with the program. I was very busy this week so far with the new job and the declaration of my taxes, but now it is all good again and I can rock the tasks again.
This weeks challenge is to start a conversation with groups 15 times per nigh by introducing yourself that you are new around and how the people like to live here in town on a scale of 1 to 10. Coming back home right now from my tour I have to say this task is really pretty amazing. I have to admit that I was again really nervous in the beginning and also during or after an interaction. But it went better with every approach and at the end it even made fun to open groups and get the attention from them when you enter the interactions with self confidence, a loud and clear voice and strong eye contact.
At the end, I had 15 nice conversations with mixed groups or only ladies or groups just with guys. Most of the interactions were great, some talks took very long and some I left after several minutes because the interaction got boring or there was not much feedback from the group. But all of them were very fruitful and positive, no negative reaction at all. Some people even asked me things back or started to introduce themselves to me by initiating the handshake, it was very astonishing. I am really looking forward to the next two nights to push this good experience more forward.
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