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I basically did this in one day because 1) I already have online dating 2) I was sick and tired of being a bitch and I wasn't gonna wait around 3 days to start the drills. I was excited to start.
first day of drills, and unfortunately it was harder than I expected. I thought it was gonna be super easy because I have already done 3 or 4 legit approaches before a few weeks ago (doing the basic guy game chris talks about) but apparently that wasnt the case lol. Took me a looongg time to do the first approach. The whole thing took me 26 minutes total. First girl I approached was a store employee, so I question whether or not that counts haha, but at least she was attractive. I tried to make it a point to only approach girls my age and that were at least somewhat cute, just to make it more realistic.
I went to a mall to do this and it was super dead, a lot harder to find people then I thought. The social momentum thing is real, every time I did one approach it seemed way easier to do it again, but I never could find another person to do it on in time so it went away quickly. Actually in total I did 8 approaches and 3 of them were groups of two girls. (still only asked for the time and left though) For the most part the reactions were good. I know im not supposed to focus on them but its hard not to. In fact an attractive one I spoke to gave me a very good response. The only bad response I got was from a group of 2 girls where one of them (looked like the typical blond popular slut) just ignored me, and her uglier friend gave me the time. That kinda put me out so I had to end on a good note and do another one.
I assume the reason for that response is either 1) she gets hit on a lot or 2) shes intimidated by me. im fine with either haha, I caught them looking at me earlier so they must think im attractive.
The reason for that response doesn't matter. Your only mission is to *do the drill* - don't analyse reactions, or think about what you could have done better, etc. No thinking at all - just do the drills.
Started out really confident and it went well. 3rd chick was mentally ill and actually walked past me and refused to give me the time. This was actually hilarious. I’m glad I thought it was funny but it did take me a second to regain my footing and do number 4. The first set took a total of 18 minutes almost exactly.
Second set a took a break and reminded myself why I was doing this in the first place and got motivation to go fucking do it even though set 1 was rough. Set 2 went extremely well and it only took me 9 minutes and 52 seconds, almost half the time.
Started out horribly badly, I went to the biggest university campus in my state to do the drills. Took me forever to do even the first approach, I just got in my own head. After a few though it started to go much better, but I didn’t have enough time to finish all 5 sets due to me having to go to work.
Did 8 approaches in total which was a little over half, and I probably did 5 of those in the last 15 minutes of the time, the other 3 taking me like 45 minutes. Once I finally got going though, it wasn’t too bad as I pretty much just went from girl to girl for the last few minutes, I just didn’t have enough time to finish cuz I didn’t think I would pussy out for so long.
So obviously I’ll have to repeat this day tomorrow, which is fine.
Took a break from the AA program on saturday the 13th because I was going to a bar crawl with the boys, so I figured I'd just hit on girls there and see where things go. Obviously my AA is still there, but when youre with your boys and alcohol is involved it largely disappears, so I decided to make use of this opportunity.
So started off shitty, tried to hit on a few girls at the bar area where you get a drink and they were pretty neutral, they also left pretty quick so that went no where. It was getting toward the end of the night and I was feeling pretty disappointed, until I saw this super cute chick in a red shirt on the dance floor.
I was debating approaching her and starting to dance with her when she literally beckoned me over to come join her, so that was an obvious no brainer. we danced for awhile and I discovered a few things, she had two sisters that were both there, and also that she had a boyfriend. However, not only was she cool with me touching her, but one of her sisters was available. So I met the other sister and she was probably like a 7, whereas the red shirt chick was a 9 minimum.
Since I had no other leads though I wasnt just gonna not try. So I danced with both of them and at some point I grabbed the other girls hand, said follow me and lead her away (thanks Chris) which worked extremely well. We talked for awhile and I got her snapchat, then we went back to her sister because both of our partys were going to switch bars. Also, the red shirt girls boyfriend was there and wtf he was like a fat 35 year old dude, 100% opposite of good looking which made me pissed.
No one was committing to anything so I decided to take charge and I took the red shirt girls hand and her sister's hand and led them away to the other bar, and everyone followed (lol her bf did nothing to stop me) So at the other bar I was basically hitting on the both of them and touching both of them at the same time (not sexually, just around the waist and close to the butt and sometimes the thighs) what blew my mind about this is that the bf did literally nothing and said nothing. She was into it too, im 99% certain that both of them were dtf (maybe even threesome?) actually 100% but they both had to work at 5:00 am or some bullshit, so they left at like 10:30. Also even if not idk how I would've pulled that off, I didn't have any sort of good logistical situation going.
So I ended up with some numbers, so at the end of the day nothing crazy but actually kinda cool, I havent heard of anyone doing that to two girls at once (although Im sure it happens) and as I am pretty new at this, I'm going to take it as a small win, as Chris would say, cant be too hard on myself because at the end of the day it was a pretty fun/good night, and I didnt even go into it with getting laid as a goal.
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