This is an opinion website that offers information of a general nature and none of the opinions should be construed as advice. Nothing contained within the site is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to Good Looking Loser. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals.
Affiliate Disclosure: At absolutely no expense to you, if you make a purchase, we may receive commissions from some links on this website. That is how our community supports itself. I don't recommend anything that I have not used personally or believe in. Thanks!
Day 3. Holy shit what a disaster. I made my POF profile. There were so many fake profiles it's insane. I got so many messages from fake ass people. I tried to find girls around my area and most of them were either far away or weren't that attractive to me. I hit up maybe 3 girls that I actually found attractive that were somewhat close to me. One of them viewed my profile and didn't message back so she's not interested. I'll check it when I get home to see if the other 2 respond.
I have to admit it does feel like a step in the right direction. I came out of my comfort zone for sure. I just don't think POF will work. I might try OKcupid or Tinder. I definitely need to update my photos. Out of the 3 I uploaded only one was decent and it wasn't the best. There's definitely a lot of girls looking for relationships. Single moms looking for their best friends lol. I'll keep looking on there and try to find a girl that's interested and near my area. I found a possible escort on there. Might get her number hahaha. Even if this online dating shit doesn't work it doesn't matter. I'm trying to beat AA. That's my main goal. I might be getting laid tomorrow. I sure could fucking use it.
Day 4 of my AA program. Damn it felt good to do this. I headed to my local Walmart and I started walking around looking. The first girl I really spotted was hot as fuck. At least an 8 or 9 out of 10. I felt like I was gonna have a heart attack. I physically could not ask her for the time. That made me realize how bad my approach anxiety is. I tried to calm down, but by the time I did I couldn't find her. I didn't want to look like a stalker. That's something I'm gonna have to work on. It got better as I progressed. She got away, but fuck was she hot.
The first girl I asked was some older woman who wasn't bad for her age, but wasn't really that attractive. Maybe if I was drunk. I asked her and she was pretty indifferent, told me the time and said nothing when I thanked her. The next girl I asked was pretty big, but I figured fuck it. I asked her and she was pretty indifferent as well. I went to the clothing section and found a woman in her 30s who had a great ass. I got so close to her to ask her for the time and then this big motherfucker came around the corner and she put some clothes in his cart. I pussed out on that one. I could've asked her, but that really threw me off. I found another woman in her 40s who was fine as fuck to me, but she was in the womens clothes and I tried to wait for her to move on to somewhere else. She actually looked at me and smiled, but I didn't ask her for the time. I felt like the employees were looking at me like I'm gonna steal something. I definitely need to work on that.
I bought some shit and then headed to the mall. That place is fucking dead. I couldn't believe how few people there were in there. It was a real struggle finding anyone. I found a girl who was working at a pretzel stand and as I was walking she bent over to get some pretzel dough and holy motherfuck that ass was looking good. I went up to her and asked her and she gave me the most positive reaction. She was very nice about it, not sure if that's because she was working, but she may have liked me. It didn't matter because I know to do the drill and get out. The next girl I found was outside. I had just walked out of a store and I spotted her. She was a little ahead of me, but I said excuse me. She kept walking and I actually got a little aggressive and said hey hold up and jogged up to her. She turned her head towards me, but kept walking. I asked her for the time and she actually stopped and gave it to me. That was the worst reaction I got, but she still gave me the time.
The last girl was working in a store as I was leaving and she gave me the time and was pretty indifferent. I got it done though. I had 3 indifferent reactions, one positive reaction, and one kinda bad reaction. Even with the bad reaction she still gave me the time. She was definitely trying to ignore me lol. She was kinda hot though. I'm glad I didn't get just positive reactions. It's the bad reactions that really help your AA. It made me realize that even though she was trying to ignore me and it was technically embarrassing, nothing changed. I'm the same person and literally nothing changed except I'm a step closer to curing my AA. Feels good man. I actually felt like shit before I did this, but I still did it. I'm proud of myself. I have a headache and my stomach is sore, but I still got my ass out there and got shit done. I think I'm good to move onto the next drills.
Hey man! Good job on completing day 1 of drills (day 4) I just did day 4 myself as well for the first time! Im gonna log about it soon.
Im glad to hear that im not the only one who found this a little harder than anticipated lol. it took me way too long to do the first approach. it was a store employee haha she was kinda cute. Also I went to the mall for the whole time and yea man ur right it was dead af. Half the time I was literally just trying to find a girl my age and halfway attractive lol, wasnt easy. I felt like a creeper as well haha and some people definitly noticed I was acting weird but I actually dont care haha.
Since were on the same day, lets try to hold each other accountable and see this bitch through! After today Im a little scared of the upcoming weeks haha because Ive read through the entire thing ik whats coming, but hey Im sure it will get easier as the days go by.
Hell yeah man we can definitely keep each other accountable. Tomorrow is the same shit only faster. I'm gonna head to a different city. It really is strange isn't it? I felt like the employees were thinking I was gonna steal some shit. Truth is they probably didn't give a single fuck. I did the same thing as you with reading ahead. It's terrifying to think of doing drills on further weeks right now, but once we get to them they'll probably be a lot easier. I'll check your log out when you post it. Good luck with day 5. We got this bitch.
Right on Andy. I'll post them tomorrow when I get the time. I'm so fucking tired right now man. I had a long ass day. Dude, POF is turning out to be disastrous. I hit up a lot of girls and I got 3 responses so far. One seemed legit, but she's like fucking 40 miles away. The other two seem to be fakes. They both had nothing in their about me section and both of their responses were Snapchat me. I didn't think they were fake because they weren't drop dead gorgeous or anything, but I guess they were. They were definitely on the thicker side, but that shit doesn't really bother me. Bitch had a fat fucking ass. Even if they're real the only thing I'll probably get from Snapchat is pics and not pussy. I hit more girls up and we'll see what happens. I'm probably gonna make a Tinder or some shit. Anyway, I'll link my profile tomorrow when I have the time and I definitely look forward to you ridiculing my lame ass pictures lol. They definitely need improving.
Here's my lame ass pictures. I definitely need some better ones. I need a better background for starters. I was working on getting in better shape, but I don't know if I can lift weights, cook food, eat calories and do the AA program all at the same time. That's probably too many goals, but goddamn I was really determined to get in shape. I might try to figure something out.
Today fucking sucked. I went to a different city today and headed to Walmart. It wasn't as packed as the other one, but I found some girls. The first girl I saw was some black girl on her phone. I should've asked her, but I pussed out. I thought she would just ignore me. The next girl I found was a girl who worked there and she was actually kinda attractive. I definitely felt less anxious about asking her. I asked her, she gave me the time, and then about a minute later I found a girl in her 30s with her kids and I asked her and she gave me the time. She actually kinda gave me a look like she might've been interested. I would've fucked her honestly. There was one more girl that I spotted and I had just walked by her, but when I turned around to ask her she was heading towards the womens clothes and I felt like it would be weird to follow her. There was a group of cute girls, but I didn't know if I should be asking groups yet. They were actually giving me some looks. Who knows? I found another girl, but she was with her boyfriend. Lucky fucker. She was pretty hot. I definitely need to get out of my comfort zone, but I did do it a little faster than yesterday.
I figured I'd head out and go somewhere else. I went to the dollar store beside it and there was nobody in there. Maybe a few old women, but that doesn't feel the same. I feel like asking an old woman for the time doesn't count. Maybe it does, but it just seems so different. I couldn't find any younger girls anywhere. It was kinda depressing honestly. I went to a few other stores and couldn't find any fucking girls. I actually had headed out late so I got a late start, but it got late and I needed to head back home so I could go to work. I stopped by one more store and still didn't find any girls. After that I went home and just called it quits. Pretty disappointing man. I could definitely do better.
Besides not finishing the drills I had something different happen. I went to the post office to check my po box and I saw this woman who was kinda cute and she had her baby. She held the door open for me and I said thank you and then asked her how old her kid was. I would never do that. I mean ever. I just wouldn't feel like asking, but today I tried to talk more and I was able to get a little more comfortable and actually socialized more.
I'm gonna head to another city and head to Walmart. I swear there's nowhere else that's that busy. I'm thinking about heading to a local college campus or some shit. I might head to the nearest big ass city and start doing my drills there. I mean fuck it. I need to find more girls. Hopefully the city I'm going to tomorrow will be better. I'm not sure if I should count off the 2 girls I asked today or just try to ask a total of 10 girls tomorrow. Either way, I definitely need to redo that drill. I could've done better despite not seeing too many women. This POF shit sucks. I hit up some more girls. I got one response and we'll see where it goes, but most of the girls I hit up were kinda far away. I was able to find more girls around my area andI hit them up. Hopefully something comes out of it. I found this older woman who's in the same city as me and from what I saw I'd fuck her, but she had "requirements" and I fit all of them except for "have to have your own place." Fuck. I figured I'd hit her up anyway, but when I did it said she only takes messages from certain men. I think I'm gonna take better pictures and try another app or site. Goddamn man.
You legit look like a serial killer, standing alone in your dark home with moody lighting, wearing that same white shirt in all pics, not smiling at all, with no pics showing you leave the house or have friends or hobbies.
You don't need the world's best profile for online dating to work and for you to get laid
(mine isn't mind blowing)
. But right now if those pics are all you have, you're at about a 1 out of 10, if that. I'm impressed anyone responded to you at all.
First up, got a mate who can take some photos of you? Know anyone who has access to a DSLR?
Second, got any other clothes? What do you normally wear when you go out? Take a photo of your best outfits.
Third, fix that haircut. Walk in to any barber and say "I have no idea about haircuts dude, but can you please give me an in-style, current, modern look. Don't play it safe - make me look good"
No wonder I'm not having any luck lol. Yeah man I did say I was way uncomfortable when I took these pics and it definitely shows. I also took these pics in one day and rushed it so I could make the profile. I knew they were horrible. The sad truth is I really have no fucking life. I have friends, but they also do nothing in their spare time. It's really sad. I have a buddy that can take pics. What kind of pics would you suggest? I play guitar so maybe that would make a badass picture. I might have a DSLR camera, but I'm not entirely sure. It's fucking digital and that's all I know. I hope it still works. If all else fails can I not use a phone camera?
As far as clothes, I'm going out this weekend to buy some good shit. Got some style to recommend? I'll probably look on GLL's style page. I usually wear one of those white shirts and some pants with some red and black Nikes. I'm in need of some new clothes for real. As far as the haircut, I really don't know what would look good on me. If I'm being honest I have some acne scars on my forehead that girls would more than likely find unattractive. I mean, it's not horrible, but it definitely isn't attractive. I've always had my hair like that and I've been able to get laid with it. I've actually gotten compliments on it. Is the haircut an all or nothing thing? Maybe I could get it shaped up or some shit. I'm definitely coming out of my comfort zone and it's a lot for me to take in. Hey, the only direction I can go is up right?
I just looked into some hairstyles and I found the Fringe and French crop that could possibly work for me. Maybe you have some other ideas for me, but I'll definitely look into those more.
The GoodLookingLoser.com forum offers visitors the ability to exchange information and thoughts. Nothing contained within GoodLookingLoser.com forum is the advice, opinion or otherwise the view of any host, owner, server or other provider of services to GoodLookingLoser.com or of Goodlookingloser.com itself. Nothing stated shall be construed to serve as a replacement for competent advice from professionals. Visitors are to make their own independent inquiries before acting on any information contained within the website forum.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.