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Maximizing my social freedom 05 Jul 2019 00:39 #318873

Kicking ass, mate. You're past the point most guys quit (Day 21).

Consider posting pics of yourself (or a vlog) - you'll find it makes you hold yourself a lot more accountable, not to mention you'll feel more like part of the community (rather than just a faceless stranger on the internet).
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Maximizing my social freedom 05 Jul 2019 17:11 #318889

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Thanks @KillTheInnerLoser! I'm planning to post Tinder pictures of myself after I take new ones so I can get some advice.

On another note, I've been super busy with work, freelancing, and events recently. These are all excuses though; if I had made drills my #1 priority, I would've gotten more done. I'm also going on a work trip for about 1.5 weeks this weekend and won't be able to do any drills. Thankfully, I had yesterday off and started day 24 and finished it up today.

Day 24

This was the birthday drill, asking "what do you want for your birthday" up to three times. After taking a break from drills getting started was tough. I warmed up by asking people what the time was. Then I had to psych myself up for 30 minutes before I did a single birthday drill. Afterward, I started rolling through the drills. I did the first 15 yesterday and finished the second 15 today. The best responses I got were: "financial stability," "my tuition paid off," "to be happy," and "my life back" (lol from an old woman).
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Maximizing my social freedom 05 Jul 2019 21:05 #318900

That was one of my favourite drills. Old woman's answer makes me sad.

I got "Beyonce", "A birthday card" and "My ex back in my life" as my best answers.
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Maximizing my social freedom 06 Jul 2019 20:05 #318933

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Day 25

Today was the lunch drill: "what's for lunch," "no seriously what's for lunch," "no for real what's for lunch," "I really need to know, what's for lunch." I did the drill mostly on girls who were standing/sitting, and a couple of groups. The reactions varied drastically. Some girls answered quickly, others glared at me the whole time, others laughed after the first line then ignored the rest. There was this one hot 30 ish year old woman who went from being super receptive to creeped out and asked "what is this for?!" lol. Anyway, I shouldn't focus on the reactions, and my performance was solid.
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Maximizing my social freedom 06 Aug 2019 04:29 #320041

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Good job fam keep it going!

my favorite responses to the birthday drills:
-I wanna be left alone
-a dildo
-peace
-an umbrella
-"I want a someone to say to the other people to let you alone" LMFAO
-family
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Maximizing my social freedom 16 Aug 2019 20:53 #320356

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Day 26 - Arnold Drill

FINALLY. This day took me literally 3 weeks. So many parts about this drill made it difficult:
- you have to say a long monologue before each question
- you have to repeat yourself twice (usually)
- you have to do an accent
- it's an outdated reference (which literally no one understood)
- people might think saying "who's your daddy" is rude

I had to pull out every stop to do this drill. For anyone reading, here are my tips:
- dress well (not edgy, but professionally)
- groom well
- start on girls who are alone and standing, you can move to walking girls or groups after (which I don't even think is necessary)
- if you fail this drill two days in a row, the next day do an easier drill. I went back to time + directions, and the day after I did high fives, then finally I did this day
- have the mentality of GET IN THERE and "I'm just fucking with you" - taking yourself too seriously is a recipe for disaster

About half the girls were confused (some with laughing), a couple were creeped out, and the rest actually answered within the first or second try.

Super excited to move on!

Also thanks @Fahad, I saw your post in Karlos's thread and it really motivated me to finish this day. You're an inspiration dawg!
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Maximizing my social freedom 18 Aug 2019 21:57 #320406

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Day 27

Today was tap on shoulder, "hey I have a question", "where's the beach", flex for 5/10 seconds. This day was a walk in the park compared to the Arnold drill. It took a bit of effort to force myself to tap girls on the shoulder and to flex, but after doing both one time, it was easy. Surprisingly, all girls responded positively to me touching them on the shoulder, some even flirtingly, which is more evidence that early physical contact is key. Lot of great reactions today. Let's keep pushing!

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Maximizing my social freedom 21 Aug 2019 16:25 #320499

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Day 28

Today was tap on shoulder, "hey I have a question", "do you know where I can get nerd glasses", "how cool are nerd glasses?", "pretty fucking cool huh." The only difficult part of today was tapping on the shoulder, and as always, after the first rep, it got much easier. Nothing else significant to report here. Onto the next day.
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Maximizing my social freedom 21 Aug 2019 17:08 #320501

Did you do the challenge for Day 28? That was one of the coolest challenges, right up there with the challenge where you have to tell girls, "I'm not a rapist."
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Maximizing my social freedom 21 Aug 2019 19:08 #320503

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Yeah man do the challenges, you will see that nothing happens, you wont get arrested, people will just look you like wtf or just laugh because they get it is a joke.

I feel you in the Arnold drill, it took me weeks, and I took another month to repeat it to get barely comfortable. But as always you have to trust that all the stuff in the program is tested and is safe to do, and for some reason a lot of girls have fun with this fucked up lines (even if they don't get the reference).
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I've only done a couple of the challenges (the cigarette one for high fives and saying bathroom instead of restroom). I guess my reasoning was that I don't want anything else to prevent me from doing the drills. Maybe for easy drills (like the nerd glasses one) in the future I'll make it a priority to do the challenges.
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Maximizing my social freedom 23 Aug 2019 02:28 #320553

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Day 29

Today was "super!", "super high five!", give double high five, "super!" Today I realized just how rare it is for girls to have both hands free. I mean, seriously, almost every girl had a starbucks cup, a purse, a phone, or some combination of these in their hands. I did the drill on them anyway at first, but I only got high fives (instead of the double), so I just stopped approaching them. That made this day drag on for way longer than it should have.

The actual drill was fun though. Almost every girl responded positively (except for a few that ignored me). To get started I did some normal high fives as warmup. It's funny to think, a few months ago, high fiving random girls was one of the hardest things I'd done; now it's warmup!

Edit: One funny thing to note is that sometimes girls would give me a single high five and I would say (two hands) and then they would give me the double. Not sure if that's cheating, but whatever.

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