TOPIC: Time to become a MAN!!!

Jake da Dawg wrote:

what helped me care about them even less was realizing that these rude girls (or "non-positive" girls) are actually as straightforward as us, while we say "hey, I'm interested in you" they say "yeah, I'm not", this is actually a blessing in disguise (imo anyway) because you save a lot of time.

@Jake you are right and that’s a really healthy way to look at it, I´m just not there yet. There will come a time when I´ll want to screen unavailable girls out asap but now I would probably be happy with just 5 good interactions and having them go nowhere. Right now any positive reaction would probably make my day. I´ll look up your 1 approach a day thread, I can see the amazing benefits of sticking to it and it worked great for killtheinnerloser.

Yesterday
Couldn´t do shit, super busy, had some chances to approach throughout the day but I´m nowhere near going from 0 to 100 in a second and making approaches part of my everyday life.

Went out at night with my social circle and at the end of the night I worked up the courage to try to kiss this girl I had a chance with one night but I got drunk, she rejected me and laughed, so awkward. Last night I came home frustrated but today I feel good, I was super nervous and pushed my comfort zone, my killer instinct improved, even if just a little.

Today
Woke up late and didn´t want to go out but did it anyway. I was able to make one approach before something came up and I had to come home. It was shit, I had to repeat myself and as soon as she realized what I wanted she put her earbuds back on. I was like “nothing? 0 interest?”.

I feel that even if I came across an available girl I would get rejected, like I´m not even playing the numbers game, I´m just learning how to play. Things I need to change: I should be relaxed, talk confidently, not sound fake and rehearsed, smile in a cool way not in a creepy way, give off a good vibe, etc. Now, how the fuck do I do any of those things? how do I “not sound fake and rehearsed”?.

Just have to approach as much as I can and those things will sort themselves out I guess, then I´ll be able to really play the numbers game. Gotta keep pushing myself and try to gain as much experience as possible. I should probably start a new thead.

Vergil wrote:
Just have to approach as much as I can and those things will sort themselves out I guess, then I´ll be able to really play the numbers game. Gotta keep pushing myself and try to gain as much experience as possible. I should probably start a new thead.

Great milestone, approaching a girl sober during the day is something 98% of guys can't and won't ever do. So give yourself some credit just for that. And yea, you just gotta keep approaching. Eventually you will be more surprised when you don't approach a girl than when you do.