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I never did the program so I don't know if this is mentioned somewhere in it, but what I used to do was running the approach in my mind, I would picture everything, every little thing: a setting, a hot girl, me walking towards her, etc, basically it was an imaginary reenactment of an actual approach, it helped me a lot.
Another thing I would do was (physically) acting out an approach, I would walk around the house and pretend I had just seen a hot girl, then I would jog after this imaginary girl and voice out my line "hey, I know this is random but..."
Try it out with your drills if you haven't already.
"I was walking for 4 hours today doing nothing but being a chicken."
I've done this, so don't stress. Everything you're going through, plenty of us went through too. You're not alone.
"then I saw the hottest, most beautiful girl I have seen all week, standing by herself, doing something on her phone, in what was almost a perfect setting, I swear she was even wearing a red fucking dress."
LOL this happened to me last year. I was so fucking nervous at the time, I remember it vividly. I chickened out for like 2 minutes then finally said to myself "For fuck sakes, she's even wearing a red dress, I HAVE TO HIT ON HER"
Her name was Malgorzata, she was polish with the sexiest accent, ended up going on a date with her right there and then. Took her on another date later, fucked her, she was a solid fuckbuddy for a few months. After we stopped seeing each other, I've run into her a few times and had a quick chat, she's still super friendly. Really glad I met her.
The reason I'm telling you this is I very nearly didn't hit on her. And she turned out to be one of my favourite fuckbuddies of all time. Every girl that you let go past could have been an amazing fuckbuddy for you who'd give you amazing experiences, awesome sex, etc. Every time you pussy out, you're robbing yourself (and HER) of potentially months of amazing experiences.
Every time I chicken out, I immediately tell myself "Fuck, that girl could be the next Malgorzata" and I run after her and hit on her.
Requiescat in pace Day 17 (ABC´s).
After walking for an hour today and missing like 5 good chances (not moving lonely girls) I grew a pair and went up to a girl, no iso reps, I delivered the ENTIRE alphabet, fuck it feels good to be a man!! She was sitting, I walked past her and then stop like 20 feet away where she couldn’t see me. Spent like a minute trying to work up the courage to approach until I just started moving towards her “I´m fucking doing it this time, fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck”.
Said it just like in the audio example.
I DID IT, I fucking did it, and did the challenge on a milf, she didn´t say anything but she was pretty freaked out. I´m not quitting this shit, it took me 11 hours to complete this drill (10 to get started) but I fucking killed it.
I had to so I could be able to write here again and tell you guys how FUCKING AWESOME you all are and that I really really really appreciate the support.
@Jake rehearsing really helped, I said it to myself a few times before that first girl and got used to it but dude, even though I probably said it faster to her it felt SO much slower, fucking nerves.
@Schwifted you are fucking right man, I have to give myself some credit for that and just keep showing up and putting in the hours. Consistency is the name of the game muthafucka!!!!
@Andy that is some crazy shit, you hear stories about it but you never think it will actually happen, fucking badass, until that happens to me and I can use a girl of my own I´m totally stealing your "Fuck, that girl could be the next Malgorzata".
I´m gonna try work to improve the size of my balls, push myself to “JUST DO IT” more and more every day, if I can train myself to just act in the face of fear theoretically there would be no girl I wouldn´t be able to approach or drill I wouldn’t be able to do.
Fuck I saw so many girls today that I wanted to approach, like actually hit on, I HAVE to be able to hit on girls I´m attracted to or it´ll hunt me for life.
Day 19 (Justin Bieber)
I´m definitely gonna remember this day.
I laughed so much listening to Chris audio examples, the hardest part of this drill was just saying “Hey, how´s it going?” and then leaving.
I did the first set completely serious, I had fun, they didn´t really know what to do with the Justin Bieber line. Finished that set, okay, gay time.
I stopped the next girl I saw, it went like this:
-Hey, how´s it goooing? (totally gay)
-Fine? (looks at me expectantly)
-(Fuck, this girl is a lot hotter than I thought) Eh, do you know if there is a beauty salon around here?(Damn, I should´ve left)
-Yes! There is one in the corner, I´m heading there right now.
-(WTF?? What do I do?) Yeah, no, no, not that one, I mean another one, no that one is closed.
-It´s closed? Are you sure? (kinda disappointed)
-Yeah yeah it´s closed, anyway thanks. (I start walking)
-Oh wait!! There´s another one 2 blocks from here, then that one is closed?
-Yes, it´s closed.
-Well let´s go to that other one. (starts walking next to me)
-(WTF? WTF? What do I say?) ok (Fuck!!!)
I walked with her for what felt like 2 hours, she asked me all kinds of questions and making small talk, I wasn’t making eye contact, she was very fucking hot and I didn´t want her to remember me, my mind was racing “fuck, now I have to keep acting gay, how am I gonna get out of this, wtf I´m going to do if I see someone I know? Fuck, how´s it going? and LEAVE, why the fuck didn´t I leave? wtf I´m going to do when we get there? come to think of it, I could use a haircut.”
We got there and she entered first, I took that chance to get out of there as fast as I could. I was laughing for a while after that. I saw her again like an hour later and in a very masculine way I hid so she wouldn’t see me.
The rest of the drill was super easy and I completed Day 20 (Bathroom?) right after. It was even easier, all normal reactions.
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