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Dico's Log 23 Jun 2018 20:46 #304737

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Day 10

Time, Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by)
Time, Do you know if there is a movie theater near here?, Leave
Time, Do you know if there is a movie theater near here?, Have you seen any good movies lately?, Leave

Repeat this 5 times today, you will speak to 15 girls in total.

Went easier and faster than previous drills. Most of the girls haven't seen any good movies lately...wtf

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Dico's Log 24 Jun 2018 15:38 #304778

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Day 11 a

Time, Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by)
Time, Is there a place that sells cell phones around here?, Leave
Time, Is there a place that sells cell phones around here?, What phone do you have?, Leave
Time, Is there a place that sells cell phones around here?, What phone do you have?, Do you like it? Leave

Repeat this 5 times today, you will speak to 20 girls in total

Could manage to do 3 sets. Couldn't get in there right away. It took some time but after the first girl it went quite ok. Chris mentioned in his audio that if the girls is available she will want to try and talk. And Chris is right, on the last rep, this one girl was talking like forever how she likes his Iphone. Hahaha I guess she was available.
Anyway, have to finish the rest tomorrow

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Dico's Log 25 Jun 2018 18:18 #304841

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Day 11 b

Did the last 2 sets. Was ok. Nothing specific that stood out.

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Dico's Log 27 Jun 2018 09:51 #304930

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At the moment I have alot of work to do and therefore I don't have that much free time for doing the drills. Eventhough I do so little, it is still better than doing no drills, IMO.

But you are totally right, I could have pushed myself to do more than just couple reps. I guess my AA is still high and holds me back of doing more reps in less time.
Will improve, to do more reps per day

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Day 12

Time, Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by)
Time, Random question-Do you know anywhere that sells nice candles?, Leave
Time, Random question-Do you know anywhere that sells nice candles?, I'm planning a candlelit dinner for my girlfriend, Leave
Time, Random question-Do you know anywhere that sells nice candles?, I'm planning a candlelit dinner for my girlfriend, I'm the sweetest guy ever, Leave

Yesterday, went to a campus near by and done the whole drill. Took some time but still managed to execute. Doing the drills at a campus felt easier. I guess, there are more opportunities than on a regular street.
I noticed, that I tried to walk less this time. Most of the time I waited in front of the library for opportunities to do the drill. Lazy me...

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Dico's Log 27 Jun 2018 11:36 #304935

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Not to highjack your log Dico - but how big is your campus, menery? And the one you use too, Dico? Just curious.
Good work on today's drill!
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Eames wrote: Not to highjack your log Dico - but how big is your campus, menery? And the one you use too, Dico? Just curious.
Good work on today's drill!


The campus has around 26.000 students.
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Dico's Log 27 Jun 2018 18:21 #304947

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menery wrote:

Eames wrote: Not to highjack your log Dico - but how big is your campus, menery? And the one you use too, Dico? Just curious.
Good work on today's drill!



I know why you ask this. You are worried that you might become "that guy" on your campus or that you approach multiple chicks at once.
Mine is about 45k students but I already approached multiple giirls multiple times. That is supposed to happen throughout this program tho.


To be honest, I am also worried about running into the same chicks again. But I guess nothing bad will happen... just stupid anxiety, which creates stupid worse scenarios

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Dico's Log 30 Jun 2018 08:45 #305073

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menery wrote: On day 16 I high5‘ d 2 seated girls and approached them 30 min later again at the same spot. Was so creepy but after that I was not worried at all anymore about that


I can imagine how awkward that was

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Day 13

Time, Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by)
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, Leave
Time, Random question- Do you know anywhere that sells good wine?, I got a promotion at work/Passed my test at school and I want to celebrate, What type do you recommend?, Leave
Repeat this 4 times today, you will speak to 16 girls in total.

had to split this day again and done the drills over 2 days. some girls couldn't recommend any type of wine and some could. Responses were quite friendly except this one older woman who kind of screamed that she has no time. That hurt a little bit...anyway onto Day 14. I am kind of nervous how that will turn out
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Day 14

Give 10 girls a high-five.
Guesstimate how long it took you and record it in your AA Log.
Repeat this 2 times today, you will high-five 20 girls in total.

Damnnnn that was freaking tough. I have started Day 14 on Saturday and I was so overwhelmed with the anxiety of giving high-fives, I failed, I couldn't do one single High5. I was so disappointment. Anyway, I tried on Sunday again and it took alot of willpower to do the first high5. Once I did it, I felt released. Still, it took 2 Days to finish the drill and with alot of rejections, which I haven't got so much before Day14.
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menery wrote: How specifically do you approach ? I barely got turned down on these days 20/22 complied.


In the beginning I did like a little bitch, with a weak voice and from the side. All of the girls (I guess the first seven girls) didn't give me a high5.
Once I did it more confidently and approached girls from the front and insisted to get a high-five, I barely got rejected.

It's all a confidence thing.
And I noticed, especially on this drill, I am still outcome dependent. .
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