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Lets Beat AA for good 03 Feb 2019 03:09 #313671

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Day 31(Reflect) - No drills today

Which single drill was the hardest for you?
Hands down it has to be day 14(high fives). I haven't struggled as much with any of the other drills as i have with this one. This must be some sort of bogey drill for me because i remember really struggling will this drill, it was difficult to beat it out.

How are things going so far?
It's a weird one because i have restarted the program several times over the last few years. On every attempt bar this one, i never made it past week 2 of the AA Program. Now i have completed week 4 of the AA Program.

The difference between day 0 and now is that at the beginning i would feel like such a creep and a weirdo doing drills. At the back of my mind i would always be thinking "what is someone i know sees me" and "fuck that was so awkward" and "that was so not smooth." Now i am more like "next girl, next girl" and "lets keep going" and "I'm not going home until this is done."

I haven't really thought about this, nor have i been keeping track but the i think the real difference is what i tell myself when i'm out there in the field. It really does help to tell yourself to keep going.

How does the future look?
Yesterday when i was out alone(thanks Chris) doing day 30 drill; i could start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I think i thought to myself your not far away now, look at all these girls around me, soon i could be bagging some of them. I also asked myself, what is it like to fuck a rich girl?

I still think i need to work on my eye contact, hit the gym more, eat, buy cool clothes, not care a fuck and more. If i just keep going i can achieve all my goals.
NEW GOALS:
Green= Done
Yellow=In process of completing
Red= Haven't started yet

1. Beat AA/ Finish the entire AA Program up to day 64
2. Fuck 50 girls
3. Get 2 fuckbuddies
4. Know that i can get laid
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Lets Beat AA for good 04 Feb 2019 10:49 #313726

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Finished day 32 drill(Mr Sunshine). I did 6 sets and my overall performance was ok. I didn't feel too good about this drill after i finished so i think i will do it again. Gotta keep pushing.
NEW GOALS:
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Yellow=In process of completing
Red= Haven't started yet

1. Beat AA/ Finish the entire AA Program up to day 64
2. Fuck 50 girls
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Lets Beat AA for good 05 Feb 2019 10:11 #313770

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Finished day 32 drill(Mr Sunshine). I did 6 sets and my overall performance was really good. So much better than yesterday. Lets keep pushing.
NEW GOALS:
Green= Done
Yellow=In process of completing
Red= Haven't started yet

1. Beat AA/ Finish the entire AA Program up to day 64
2. Fuck 50 girls
3. Get 2 fuckbuddies
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Lets Beat AA for good 05 Feb 2019 12:58 #313774

Keep pushing.
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Lets Beat AA for good 06 Feb 2019 10:06 #313820

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Attempted day 33 drill(Clumsy). I nearly managed to do 1 set. I also genuinely thought that i was going to steamroll this day but that didn't happen.

Instead of getting down like i normally do , i will instead see this as a good challenge, focus on how i can improve and beat this drill out better next time. Lets keep pushing.
NEW GOALS:
Green= Done
Yellow=In process of completing
Red= Haven't started yet

1. Beat AA/ Finish the entire AA Program up to day 64
2. Fuck 50 girls
3. Get 2 fuckbuddies
4. Know that i can get laid
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Lets Beat AA for good 06 Feb 2019 10:51 #313821

You're so fucking close to Day 46 (the day you're allowed to hit on girls for real).
You got this. You'll definitely be an underdog story - I know how hard you've struggled and how much you've had to push yourself.
Andy / 32yo / Australia
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Lets Beat AA for good 07 Feb 2019 10:16 #313866

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First of all thanks to killtheinnerloser for your post. I really like the underdog part.

There are a lot of days when you don't even want to do drills, you would rather do anything else, like go grocery shopping.
Leaving the house can also be a tall order, in that it is a massive effort to leave the house, you have no desire to put some decent clothes on and walk out the front door.

It does seem unbelievable that I've managed to get this far (not done yet). I think it's just hard to see yourself doing well at anything sometimes.

Whether your goal is to beat AA or something else, don't give up, there are plenty of people who have completely given up trying to improve their lives, which is kind of a shame. It only takes energy and effort, just keep pushing.
NEW GOALS:
Green= Done
Yellow=In process of completing
Red= Haven't started yet

1. Beat AA/ Finish the entire AA Program up to day 64
2. Fuck 50 girls
3. Get 2 fuckbuddies
4. Know that i can get laid
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Lets Beat AA for good 07 Feb 2019 10:22 #313867

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Attempted day 33 drill(Clumsy). I did 2 sets today. My performance was much better then yesterday. I just need to keep beating out this drill until i get the hang of it. This drill is proving to be some challenge. Lets keep pushing.
NEW GOALS:
Green= Done
Yellow=In process of completing
Red= Haven't started yet

1. Beat AA/ Finish the entire AA Program up to day 64
2. Fuck 50 girls
3. Get 2 fuckbuddies
4. Know that i can get laid
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Lets Beat AA for good 07 Feb 2019 10:56 #313869

I know what you mean mate. For the majority of the AA program, I used to have 1 hr showers before I left the house. Literally one hour, my fingers would get wrinkled, because I was so terrified of getting out of the shower - it meant I'd have to go do the drills.

Go go go. 13 more drills til day 46.

EDIT: If I remember correctly, aren't you from Melbourne? If so, I would have already offered this when you first signed up, but if you ever wanna grab a beer and shoot the shit, lemme know. I've got a few other mates in Melbourne who talk to girls, 2 of whom completed the AA program.
Andy / 32yo / Australia
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Lets Beat AA for good 11 Feb 2019 09:52 #314027

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Finished day 33 drill(Clumsy) today. I did 4 sets and my performance was outstanding. Let's keep pushing.
NEW GOALS:
Green= Done
Yellow=In process of completing
Red= Haven't started yet

1. Beat AA/ Finish the entire AA Program up to day 64
2. Fuck 50 girls
3. Get 2 fuckbuddies
4. Know that i can get laid
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Lets Beat AA for good 21 Feb 2019 09:37 #314330

Damn man, I don't know your story, but respect to anyone who has done the program and restarted it after several months; it means the idea to finish it never left your head.

Not to mention the kudos for those who have already finished the program–it is no walk in the park.
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Lets Beat AA for good 12 Aug 2019 07:08 #320218

What happened now man?

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