TOPIC: Lets Beat AA for good

Hey all, its been a couple of months bit its good to be back on this site, as i always say this is by far the best website on Earth.

I have known about GLL for about 3 years now but i do not think i have really taken anything on board and to heart. Over this time i have attempted the AA Program several times but i always seem to fall away and quit. To be honest i do not think i have ever made it past week 2 in all my attempts.

I should probably just give it up because that would be the logical thing to do but at this moment in time and probably for my entire life i seem to give up when anything that gets tough or too difficult. So today i want to change and there is no better place to do it then right here.

In high school(never told anyone about this) i was kinda of like a weirdo and in my final year not many people liked me which sucked. I went to one party during my final year, it's hard to explain why but i think it was a mixture of not being interested in parties and i was shithouse when talking to people.

I have seen Chris' video where he talks about why getting laid fits in your 20's and i totally agree with everything he says. If you have not seen it on YouTube i recommend it. The weird thing is people might think your a douche bag or whatever but you only live once. For years on end my life has been based around trying to please others and get people to like me and this is the shittest way to go about it. I think someone should have slapped me in the face years ago.

I think this post is getting a bit long but the point of it is just be myself, improve of course but do it your way regardless of what others think.

So nomatter what happens i will not quit, i want to stay focused(like I've never said that before) and do this.

Everyone on this site is a winner, you get the W. I start AA drills tomorrow.

Finished day 4 and day 5 drills, i did good, i didn't approach some girls but thats okay for now, i think sometimes i need to speak louder because there were girls that couldn't hear me haha
Onto the next drills tomorrow.

Fuck this. i went out to do drills but i didn't deliver.

I really have no excuses, i mean everyone has AA on some level. To me all it comes down to is how much you want it. i just need to get super focused.
I'm not quitting but this is a good time to set some goals. I'm kinda pissed right now but if i really want it i'll go for it.

Just get in there and do it immediately on the first girl you see. The more time you spend walking around thinking about it the more in your head and anxious you will get. Once you get going it becomes easier.

Yeah dude for sure i gotta stop walking around, i mean at this point i'd take a stabbing to do the program all the way through to day 64.
Kinda weird it seems easy in your head but when your out there, well the results speak for themselves.
At the end of the day it's all just excuses.

It's days like this where i just love the AA Program. I know a complete contrast to yesterday. Yesterday i was like fuck this but today i am in loving it. What a strange week.

Anyway i finished day 6 drill. I was shitty at the start but then i told myself to chill and then i worked my way through it to the end.
More drills to come.

Yeah, good and bad days. Happens to the best of us, but here's what I suggest:

On one of those days where it just doesn't feel right, you would literally rather be anywhere except walking around doing AA drills, don't say it's a bad day and skip it. Go the wherever you go, and tell yourself you're gonna do at least one rep. Something. The point it to push through your negative feelings and do it anyways, which is the greatest feeling. When you start to convince yourself that you don't need to "feel it" to do it, you will really start to kick ass.

And this is with everything. If you're hitting the gym (hope you are), that one day when you're supposed to go do squats, and the thought of squatting heavy is making you cry? Go do it, even if just to get one rep in. Go accomplish something. Once you do that first rep, you'll probably think, "that wasn't so bad, I'm already here, might as well do another one", and see if you can actually finish your whole workout. You wanna turn that "today sucks" day around? Accomplish whatever you think the "bad feeling" will stop you from accomplishing. It will become one of the best days you can have.

Seek out the amazing high that results from hitting a goal despite not feeling like going for it. "I don't feel like it" is a story... it's words you're attaching to a situation or feeling or something, but those words are chosen by you. You can choose different words. You can even tell yourself, "man I'm socially starved today, I could really use some AA drills". You can't choose your feelings but you can choose what you think they mean.

Awesome your post yesterday sweatervest , great stuff.
I was just thinking, so most guys don't approach girls especially during the day. They only usually approach at night after they've had a few drinks or used drugs, or both.

Going through the AA Program, you approach more girls than most guys would ever do in their entire lifetime. It kinda makes sense because i never see guys hitting on girls like ever, it just doesn't happen.

It makes even less sense that their are guys who work out, are in shape but they don't try to bang random girls.

I think of all the times I've quit the program and i don't think it was the AA that made me leave the program in the past. I think i thought it was going to take a long time to get to where i wanted to go and i just decided it wasn't worth it, then i went back to watching porn.

This community is proof that anyone can get good and great with women you just gotta know it. I have listened to too many podcasts and read too many posts to think otherwise. I mean i think i have even watched all of Chris' YouTube videos, several times over.

In one of the videos, Chris mentions that Scotty went out at least 5 days a week for 7 and a half years, i know it's kind of crazy but it makes me question my own commitment, when i'm out in the field am i really trying to beat AA or am i just going out hoping i do? Am i giving it everything i've got and more? Can i look myself in the mirror and honestly say that I've tried?

These are the questions i should be asking myself everyday, not just for beating AA and picking up girls but for everything i want to improve in. I only started thinking about it recently that you only have one life to live, why half ass it or even worse?

From now on i want to make an effort to give every single approach everything, because i really don't think i can look myself in the mirror anymore if i don't.

It's a realization i could have had 5 years, 10 years or even 15 years from now, i thought it might be worth posting. Most guys don't invest any time into trying to get laid.

That's why i will always come back to this site and say it is the best site on this Earth, because it's one of the only site that makes me even give a shit about improving myself.

What a dreadful day, it was raining, it was cold, it was windy, whats this got to do with AA, almost nothing!!

I really didn't want to do drills today, it wasn't even because of anxiety i would say it was 90% attitude and 10% AA.
For some reason i was just in a horrendous mood. Almost as if someone had just slapped me in the face.

I still approached anyway but my god it was pretty poor. I thought after what i posted yesterday i was going to come out like a house on fire and burn through the drills but today was actually the opposite.

Cool thing was that i saw a blonde girl sitting down smoking and she was so hot. It makes me just want to finish the AA Program as soon as possible.

This probably sounds stupid but i actually like that the AA Program is kind of challenging because it makes you fight your way to success over and over again. I bet there's no better feeling when you finish the program. More drills to come.

Keep your head up. I know how you feel. I had many days like this. Trust me thought it is worth it. When you complete certain days you will realize that talking to that hot blonde is a piece of cake. I don't wonna spoil it for you but you will see what I mean.

Your doing good though keep it up.

First of all awesome post by theprodigy2120 yeaterday.

Sweet jesus the shear weight and relief of finishing a drill is unlike any other. Finished day 7 drill and like yesterday i didn't really feel like doing it, and it was weird because i approached the first girl or one of the first girls i saw.

I was walking around a lot today but at some stage i just decided who cares lets just do this thing, i don't care how i feel or what the weather is like lets just do it and i did.

I got a little emotional on my way home but i guess i was just ecstatic. More drills to come.

It was a mistake to take multiple days off, i'll be the first person to put up my hand and say this. However there are a few things i need to address.

I am furious, i'm questioning again why the hell i haven't finished the AA Program. I mean i am not accepting any excuses. Excuses are scandalous.

But to the reason why i am writing this, there are 2 main reasons i believe that people quit goals:
Reason 1: At some point the individual decides the goal is too hard
Reason 2: The goal drags on and takes too long to accomplish

With reason 1, i don't think there are any easy drills but some are harder than others. For me it's so easy to decide something is too hard and then decide not to do it. I need to change this if want to complete the program all the way. I mean not to just level 7(day 50) but all the way through to day 64.

With reason 2, It's definitely not a good idea to take days off because for me you are adding time to your decisions. The decisions being; i am going to complete the AA Program or i am not going to complete the AA Program. Choose the later enough times and eventually you will find yourself deciding to stop because it is not worth it anymore. The goal has consumed so much time that it has become more of a job than an awesome mission.

I should have written this years ago, but i am really done with making fucking excuses. I mean you only live once, this isn't a video game where you get 2, 3, 10 or infinite amount of lives. Why use up most of your time making excuses. I think that out of all the things humans have created and made excuses has to be one of the worst things ever. I mean i really do think this is the difference between being mediocre and being winner.

I get it, things don't always go your way and things can get tough but for fucks sake don't turn to excuses. 9 times out of 10 you be fucked over in some way. I am still working on this so i imagine i will trip up sometimes.

Having said this, this post has no meaning, if i don't do fuck all about it.
So i have two main goals, finish the AA Program and get a job. Nothing more and nothing less. Thank you if you read all of this. Have a nice day.