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My issue wasn't even effort with online dating. It's just not enough options of girls I like that will also go out with me. I average like a few hot girls a month that I meet up with if I put in a small amount of effort. I'm pretty picky. I think most really hot girls aren't on there or get too much attention if they are. Also, I absolutely HATE going back and forth with some girl with no attention span over text.
Day 51 - Attractive, Annoying Stranger (reminds me of
"I know this random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi", "Aren't you going to tell me that I'm cute too?", "What did you say?" x3 (pretend like you didn't hear her), I'm [Name], Handshake, Leave.
This day didn't end up being too hard and was fun again. Some of the girls didn't exactly stop when I wanted them to usually because they were in a rush. I definitely had to walk with some girls a little bit or say hey wait to try to get them to stick around a bit. It took more than 15 girls to get 15 handshakes.
Responses today were quite a bit different than yesterday. I went for a few less attractive girls, which I rarely do, and they all sucked. All three of them said something like no or I'm not going to say that. All the hot girls were great. I got told I was pretty a lot today haha. This one girl said a different word each time I asked her what she said. She was like, you're pretty, you're handsome, you're cute, ok I'm not saying anymore. Some of these girls were so excited to meet me they screwed up the order of the drill and introduced themselves and then repeated their name when I was trying to get them to repeat the complement. I'm just sticking to hot girls for the rest of the drills.
I probably should've taken a couple numbers today. There were three girls that were really into it. This one girl was pretty sad I left and was telling me how much I made her day as I walked away. I've been good about separating the drills from approaches as long as I have to drive somewhere to do the drills. Walking around downtown, where I live, just makes me want to ask girls out.
"I know this random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi", I'm [Name], Handshake, I'm [Name], Handshake, I'm [Name], Handshake, I'm [Name], Handshake, Leave.
This drill wasn't too hard. Though I didn't really have fun with it like I did yesterday. I decided to go 0-100 and get in there and do the whole 4 introductions on the first hot girl I saw. My AA is starting to get pretty low. I didn't feel a lot of anxiety about doing these. The interactions felt weird though, it's like I took a potentially good interaction and intentionally made it weird and annoying for the girl. Surprisingly, most of the girls kept shaking my hand and gave me weird looks while I was doing this. I was expecting more to walk away quickly.
So I took next week off work. That means I have until Tuesday 5/29 to just do drills and finish this program off. I have 12 days of drills left to do. If I push myself I should be able to finish sooner than 12 days from now and then be able to work on real approaches with the rest of my free time.
I've got a date tonight with a girl I picked up on Sunday. I'm going to try to get my first real cold approach lay since starting this program.
Ya that date kinda sucked. That girl definitely was attracted to me, but looking for more of a boyfriend and we weren't really a good fit. I'm kind of annoyed that I looked at her facebook because she made a post that she was getting ready for her date tonight and then put in the comments it was the worst date ever. I know it doesn't really mean anything, but it's kind of fucking with my head right now. It's time to go out and talk to a bunch of randoms to get it off my mind.
LastTrain wrote: Hey bro, fuck that bitch for talking shit on facebook. That would piss me off too. Just one more girl closer now though!
People are weird. I almost want to post on her Facebook that her shit is public and I saw it, but I'm not going to bother. As a takeaway from that I think I need to be a bit more agreeable and just say I'm into certain things more than I am. I've gotten used to being brutally honest because I was looking for more of a relationship with girls I went out with in the past. Now I'm really just trying to hook up with lots of girls for a while. I've met a few girls recently that really didn't like that I'm not into super hero movies and shit. At least if I lie and say I'm into it I might be able to fuck them and tell them I lied later haha.
lol I hear you. It's pretty interesting. I'm still trying to find that balance for myself between being honest vs being agreeable. I think theres room for both depending on the situation. The "do what you want" principle has been powerful for me lately. Like yesterday when I was on the phone with the 20 y/o she asked me how old I was and I was honest. I could tell she was a little caught off guard. Later I was kinda second guessing myself and thinking I should have said I was younger. But then I said "fuck that. You did what you wanted" and it made me feel good to realize that. Like what if I told her I was 25 and she was disappointed I wasn't older... Yeah people are weird. You never know who will react to this or that. That's why I think it's important to just put your best foot forward and be open to a variety of outcomes. That pussy's coming!
Regarding the bad date: remember that it takes "two to tango". Sorry for the stupid saying, but I've learned that many girls just suck, and it's not your fault the date sucks as a result. This one sounds particularly sucky as a human being.
apit wrote: Regarding the bad date: remember that it takes "two to tango". Sorry for the stupid saying, but I've learned that many girls just suck, and it's not your fault the date sucks as a result. This one sounds particularly sucky as a human being.
I agree. It just kind of bothered me more than most dates. Though they don't usually go that poorly. Unfortunately I decided to party and drink a bunch all weekend after that and now I'm feeling like shit trying to do this day 53 drill, which is giving me more anxiety than any drills have so far.
Hey bro. My anxiety always builds up when I take time off too. Don't beat yourself up too much for partying. Have you hit the recommended 30 approaches since starting week 7? Also how's the no-fap going? Wanted you to know I really appreciate what you said to me about the dating stuff.
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