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So I went out today and started day 38. I hit up the college campus that I haven't been to in over a week since it was their spring break. I said hey so girls would look at me and then told them they were cute and kept walking. I wanted to make sure they knew I was talking to them especially since a ton of girls are wearing headphones or on their phone. I ended up doing that about 15 times before it started raining and the campus cleared out. I didn't end up doing the hey wait a second part yet. These drills actually make me feel a lot more vulnerable and nervous than the non-sexual complements. Those actually didn't phase me at all. I want to try to get all 40 of these reps done in one day. Hopefully tomorrow the weather is a bit better and I'll be a little more aggressive to get it knocked out.
I went out today and did the full 40 reps of day 38. It took me probably two and a half hours. 40 reps is a lot. I did the majority of them on the college campus I go to, and then some around downtown while walking to and from there. I started off feeling pretty anxious about doing these, but it eased up the more I did. I tried pretty hard to get in there on these and do the reps when I saw an opportunity. There's a ton of girls around wearing headphones so I tried doing some reps on them by waving to get their attention since I doubt they hear me most of the time. I also pushed myself to do some reps in more crowded areas where other people would hear me. I still need to work on approaching some groups of girls since I almost always go after girls that are alone.
Most of these girls don't really stop when I say "hey wait a minute". They'll usually just look at me and maybe slow down. I think I need to work on stopping them a bit better. I think when I get their attention a bit better and stop moving myself they will too. Most of the time I think I barely stop as well. I might need to be a bit louder, but I've been keeping my voice at more of a normal level because I've actually yelled at girls to get their attention on some of the other drills and startled them.
I loved it when any girl gave me a big smile after I told her she was cute. This is the best I've felt about a day in weeks and the most social momentum I've felt since doing the birthday drill 30 times in a day. I got really tired of the just messing with them drills. I'm glad I'm finally doing these drills that are more like hitting on girls. I'm pretty sure I would've pussied out trying to do this drill a couple months ago when I started.
I'm tired of the online dating shit with all the flakes and girls that don't respond. I really don't want to do it anymore. I'm going to put my effort more into finishing this program and dieting down for the summer.
I went out to the college campus to do day 39 today. The campus was way busier than it's been in a while, which is a good thing but made me feel a little more anxious. I was also feeling extra anxious when I woke up today for no reason. I did 10 of the hey wait a second you're cute drills. I got a lot more negative reactions than yesterday including a girl that said something like "i dont care". That pissed me off. Some of these girls are cunts. I decided to take a break and eat something before continuing and it started pouring outside and then turned into snow. I didn't even get to the part adding my name at the end. I called it quits for the day. I'll make more progress tomorrow. Ideally I'd like to knock out a full 40 reps in a day since that gets me a lot of social momentum and I could use the work on my delivery too.
"Hey, wait a second- you're cute." say your name and leave.
So I woke up with some random anxiety again today. This happens sometimes, but I'm not sure why. It could be hormonal or because of the antibiotics I've been on the last week. I don't think it's related to the drills. I decided to take a little phenibut before going out to drill today, which I never do. Usually I use it for going out at night or on dates. I'm also going to go out tonight to do drill 37 so fuck it why not.
I hit up the college campus again today and luckily the weather was pretty nice. I did all 40 of these in about 2 hours today. 40 girls feels like a ton and is a bit draining. I did well today and felt good about it. I generally had a smile on my face and was in a decent mood. Overall I got pretty positive reactions out of girls. I would say about 80-90% of girls told me their name back and were usually smiling. Not only did I do a better job about getting their attention, but the longer interaction seemed to get a better response and felt more natural to do. Stopping a girl to say you're cute and just walking away feels weird. I felt like I really stopped giving a fuck after about 25 of reps.
This is a really new thing for me. I've barely ever hit on girls in my life. I've just done a little in online dating, but it's usually just the first message and only some of the time. Once I meet a girl in person I never complement them or anything until I've already hooked up with them. I'm excited to continue adding to these interactions in later drills. I can really see how this stuff can become pretty easy when you do it a lot, and it's actually somewhat fun when the girls are into it.
Thanks man. I feel like I'm about to start a new chapter in my life too. AA has been an insecurity of mine for years. The fear of being alone and potentially not finding anyone I like for months has caused me to stay in shitty relationships way too long. I've let these issues cause way too many serious problems in my life for way too long. I'm also starting to feel like my younger years are being wasted. I should've fixed this in my early 20s. I knew I could work on this and fix this shit years ago and even tried the AA program back in 2013. This time I'm seeing it through and beating this shit no matter what.
So I went tonight, Thursday night, and finished day 37. I took a bit of phenibut earlier today so I wasn't totally sober, but close to it. I did the first 10 around 11pm in 10-15 minutes. It felt like I did most of the girls that weren't in a corner or squeezed in the middle of the dance floor so tight I couldn't get there easily. I took a break and had a couple drinks. I wasn't planning on drinking, but being out with tons of drunk high energy people made me feel a little uneasy. Two drinks is almost nothing to me though, just enough to chill slightly and have a little more fun. I finished the rest of the reps up pretty easily and ended up doing some extras. I made sure to do these on the hottest girls I could find. Most reactions were really positive from the girls. I think the worst reactions the girls still said thank you to me. Pretty different from the day drills.
I live within a couple of blocks of the few most crowded places in Denver on a Thursday night. One of them is an edm club that charges a pretty hefty cover. As much as I like going there I really don't want to pay on a weeknight by myself. So I go to the other two places that play mostly hip hop and are packed to the walls with drunk chicks. Even on cold nights like tonight there's tons of girls out wearing very little and acting crazy.
I feel like I should've done better. The drill went great. I just feel like I should be more aggressive and bring these girls home. I need to push myself with this night time shit. My logitistics are really fucking good for bringing home randoms. I've even done it before, it's just more based on my mood and luck usually. I want to make this a consistent reproducible thing I can do. I actually got some attention from attractive girls I didn't even approach. I just need to train myself to be aggressive and make moves.
Also, listening to music on phenibut is the shit. I love that even after years of using it pretty consistently it still works for me. I can't say the same about most other drugs, other than alcohol.
So I went out to do day 40 on Friday, but the college campus I've been going to was kind of dead. I didn't realize they have way less classes on Fridays. I ended up doing 10 reps of the part of the drill with a high five before I decided to call it quits for the day. I was going way too long between girls and starting to get in my head a bit. I actually passed up a few girls that were giving me major eye contact and smiling, which ended up making me feel shitty after. I've been doing a few reps a day since, but I haven't had much time. I have family in town staying with me all week. I need to get my drills done fast this week because I won't have as much time.
I went out alone Friday night and did a few of the day 47 reps. A lot of the bouncers and bar tenders are starting to know who I am now.
I got together with a girl last nigh that I hooked up with a couple weeks ago. I took a ton of cialis before so I wouldn't have any trouble keeping it up. I can never get off with these new girls though, which sucks a lot. She kept telling me how big my dick was haha. She'll be back.
I've been doing these drills every day since last Friday, though most days I've only done a few reps. I've been a bit busy with family staying with me for the week and getting together with a couple girls. Today I went out and did 20 of the reps. I've definitely passed 40 now. I'm just doing all of these with the high fives. The only time I'm not getting a high five is when a girl is really booking it away from me and I can't get her to turn around. I get the majority of the girls to stop and high five me though. I'm trying to do these all on hot girls that I'd be interested in actually seeing again. If I've gone a while without doing one I might do it on a slightly less hot girl, but I'm not doing any that aren't fairly attractive. It's usually girls that most people would think are pretty hot, but they're asian or hispanic and I'm really only interested in white girls.
I'm still pretty slow to get going on these when I start and I'm not really getting in there on the harder ones until I've done a lot of reps and I'm really feeling the social momentum. I don't know if I want to keep doing this day more or try the next one.
Aside from the drills I hooked up with two different girls from tinder in the last week and neither of them seem to care to have a relationship or be needy at all. So that's a confidence booster I guess. I feel kind of dirty about the last one. I literally just went to her house to have sex and left haha.
Hey- you're cute, Time, Directions, High-five, High-five again, Leave
So I've been doing this drill a bit since last week, but only a few a day. I've had some what limited time recently and lost a bit of momentum so it's been harder to get going. I went out today and did the whole 20 reps in a couple hours. I really don't get enough exposure therapy on these unless I do a bunch in a day and really build up momentum. The days I do less than 10 reps feel mostly useless other than to keep some momentum going. This drill is pretty easy overall. Girls usually keep on walking or start walking again after I tell them they are cute, but then usually slow down when I ask about the time or directions. I'm kind of tired of asking time and directions haha. I don't mind high fiving at all. I do that shit for fun now when I talk to girls especially out at night.
I'm still spending way too long doing these drills and not really getting in there enough until I've built up some momentum. It's kind of a struggle to get started especially when the majority of my approaches are stopping girls walking the opposite way and wearing head phones most of the time. I'm going to keep moving along doing all the drills for this week, and then go back and repeat a bunch of days with a focus on really getting in there quickly and going after the more intimidating approaches. I might even try something like taking off a day from work and spending the whole day doing drills to really build up momentum and get a lot of exposure.
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