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Yeah good advice. Actually I typically drink vodka or just smoke weed also to get me feeling social which works. I can do approaches just not that many in any given night. It gets scarier when you see the same people again too.
I've only gone out a few times but i start with the typical opener to this one chick and her friend( she turned out to be married, just my luck) but I handled it well. Also I'm noticing people responding to my presence without needing to talk to them. This one dude came over and started talking to me, and then called over his girl buddies who came in (really cute chicks) so I feel like I give off a cool vibe mostly when I go out. Right now I just want to be able to talk to like 15+ chicks every time wherever. Just trying to get the anxiety down and basically screen my way to success.
Yeah thats bizarre, if your looks or style haven't decayed, then you may just be going on a cold streak which really sucks. But I assume you just have to keep pushing and make yourself better, since many things are not in your control.
This was hard to get started, but didn't end up being too bad. I was pretty slow doing these though. I did these all on girls walking towards me and stopped them then went for the double high five. Pretty much every girl gave me a double high five. There was one that said no thanks, then I was persistent and at least got a single high five out of her.
So I've been doing these drills now for about 6 weeks. I'm glad I've been sticking to it even when I feel like I don't want to do the drills or they feel hard. There's been a lot of days where I've just felt really down and unmotivated and lonely, but I've gotten off my ass to make progress on this program. I've taken too many days off though mainly due to traveling. I don't have any more travel plans so this shouldnt be a problem anymore. From looking at all the logs started in this forum, hardly anyone that starts actually sticks to the program and makes it this far. So I'm doing pretty well over all. I just need to keep at it.
The hardest drill day for me was probably the ABC drill. I actually went out to do the drill once or twice and went home without doing any reps of it. I had a harder time getting going on that drill than any other and it made me feel retarded when I did it. I cared a lot less what people thought of me by the end of it and every time after I thought a drill was hard I told myself it couldn't be any worse than the ABC one. I also had a hard time getting started with the tapping on the shoulder drills, though they weren't hard otherwise.
I think I have a much easier time approaching girls now than I did when I started this. At first I had some resistance to just asking girls for the time or stopping them to ask anything. I feel way less resistance to doing that now. I still feel like each day of drills there's a lot of resistance to getting started, but by the time I finish it feels like no big deal anymore. I think if I redo a day the next day there would still be some resistance to starting but it would be considerably less than the first.
I'm looking forward to actually moving on to more useful approaches where I complement a girl or show some interest. I think those are what will really give me some practical experience and start to make me feel confident at approaching girls I'm interested in. On to week 5!
Time, Directions, Non-Sexual Compliment (I like your shoes/shirt), Leave. x 18
I thought I was passed asking for the time to stop someone haha. So I did this drill today and yesterday. It's super easy and I have no problem giving anyone a complement. I felt very unmotivated to do this though so I went rather slow. I don't know if it's because I'm feeling sick or what but my motivation just feels really low right now. I gave every single girl a complement though even if I just asked for the time.
I've been bad about complementing people my whole life. I almost never do it and I realized that a few years ago and I've been trying to do it more. It doesn't make me feel anxious or anything I just don't think about doing it. Going forward I'm going to try to make more of an effort to complement people regularly.
I'm going to try to go out alone tonight and talk to some girls if I don't feel too sick.
Directions, Hopefully I can get there I just fell down a few minutes ago, Non-Sexual Compliment, I need to be a little more careful, Leave
It's been a few days since I've done any drills and I had a hard time getting going again. I definitely lose momentum by missing days, and my motivation to get out there and do it still feels low especially after a weekend of partying. Overall this day was pretty easy. Usually by the time I give a complement the girl is already walking away and I have to try to yell the last part at them. One girl responded to my complement with "I like your face". Just like the previous day I have no problem with giving non sexual complements to girls. I might do some more of these again tomorrow before I move on to the banana phone drill depending on how I feel.
I spent last weekend going out either with girls, friends, or by myself trying to talk to girls. I ended up hooking up with a girl I met off tinder, which ended a bit of a dry spell I was having. Unfortunately I was kind of drunk and couldn't keep it up like I wanted to. Hopefully she comes back another time when things are working better.
So today was a bit of a failure. I went out to do the banana phone drill and only got a few reps in. For some reason I feel really off saying the ring ring banana phone thing to get someone's attention. Doing this drill just feels retarded. I didn't really push through it today like I have some other days. I wanted to try some of these at the college campus instead of downtown but it's spring break this week and hardly anyone is there.
I decided to try to do the u mad bro drill instead so I didn't feel like a total failure today. So I got in a bunch of reps of that drill instead. I had trouble keeping a straight face doing this especially the u mad bro part. A lot of girls seem kind of pissed off or ignore me when I call them bro. Some thought I was joking around. I really like saying u mad bro when a girl gives me a shitty reaction haha. I need to redo both of these days though.
Ring... ring... ring... Banana Phone!, Hey there, do you hear a phone ringing?, Non-Sexual Compliment, I think it's your banana phone, Hey- I think your banana phone is ringing, Leave
This day was super weird. I had a lot of trouble starting it and the reactions I got to it were generally not great. I few girls laughed and most were not amused and wanted me to go away. It probably would've gone better if I enjoyed it and smiled though. That usually gets better reactions from girls even when things are weird. I really was only able to do the drill on girls that were standing or sitting around not wearing headphones. People don't stop for this drill like they do for some of the others. I probably looked a bit creepy walking around with pink eye too haha.
I want to go out alone a bit this weekend, but I'm feeling sick and have pink eye. I hope it clears up fast.
Hey Bro, Time, U Mad Bro?, Non-Sexual Compliment, U Mad Bro?, You really helped a Bro out, Leave
I did this over a couple days. I forgot to write this up yesterday after I was done. It kind of took me a while to do because girls don't usually stop on the street when I call them bro especially if there's any guys around. Most of the girls didn't really like being called bro or asking if they were mad. A few played a long and joked around with me. Overall this was kind of funny and I like saying U MAD BRO to bitchy girls.
Time, That's a nice shirt, Those are cool shoes, That's a cool haircut, That's an awesome purse (even if she isn't holding one), Leave
I went out and did this drill for a couple hours today. Yet again this drill works best on girls that aren't moving or are walking the same way as me. Even if I stop a girl for the time they start walking off right after they say it even though I keep giving them complements. Most girls said thank you after the complements. They usually got a little weirded out after more than two. One girls actually said to me, how many times are you going to make me say thank you haha. I don't think I did the full 4 complements enough times, probably only twice. I may end up doing some more of these tomorrow.
I also went out a couple times this weekend. I tried to do the day 37 drill, but ended up getting drunk and forgetting to do most of them after a few reps. I'll have to try again next Thursday or Friday and avoid drinking then. I think I've been drinking a bit too much recently. I actually have fun when I go out alone and drink. I talk to people a lot. It's unhealthy though and it makes me forget that I'm trying to actually get girls and not just make friends with people.
Keep up the good work dude. You're almost at Week 6, which is where you'll start really hitting on girls.
Banana phone was hardest for me in Week 5. Still I got some memorable results, one time a girl said right after I sang it, "Oh my God you did not just sing the banana phone song", then I said, "hey do you hear a phone ringing" and she laughed saying, "no I don't!"
I got some amusing interactions out of the U Mad? drill though too (i.e. girls "bro talking" back with me). But most girls I think didn't get it, they answered "U mad?" with "what?" or "no" with a confused tone.
Yeah, being social/making friends and getting laid are not the same goal, particularly when going out at night. They might be related in that both require talking to other humans and not being a wallflower, but they diverge after that. That's what a lot of other PUA places like RSD don't understand. They focus on being jesters/life of the party. Here we focus on getting girls to leave with us.
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