TOPIC: Gabo's Approach Anxiety Journal

Did Day 39 and part of Day 40 inthese days. I realized that I'm still seeking validation. I talk to hot girls because I want them to smile at me so I feel like I'm cute. I got obsessed with grooming and style, but at this point I feel like I'm trying to get validated, instead of using my looks to improve my chances to get laid. I really need to get over the "I'm too cool for this, normal people don't do this it's is weird" stage. Stop trying to be cool

I still have big fragile ego. I had 1 bad reaction and I psyched myself out, even though 80% of girls smiled and thanked me.

Feeling like you look good helps with AA. There was a guide that used to be pinned by Mr. Q who finished the AA program lightning fast. One of his recommendations is to dress well.

Just keep at it bro... might as well try to pull during the drills. I know for a fact men who have done this program and fucked well over 100 girls as a result...

He who succeeds is he who keeps pushing.

Crisp[AF] wrote: Just keep at it bro... might as well try to pull during the drills. I know for a fact men who have done this program and fucked well over 100 girls as a result...

He who succeeds is he who keeps pushing.

Thanks buddy... This is all I need to hear. I'm starting to want to keep talking at this girls

Finish Day 46, then start hitting on girls.

Bro just blast through it. You're so close. Get to Day 46 pronto... Hell, I still have AA. Just do it.

Reporting back. Basically, got to day 42 and then started losing consistency, although I semi consistently told girls that they were cute in my daily routine, and I had to move with my family to a way smaller city and I won't be able to do drills for now.

What happened was a mix of different issues, most of those are excuses tho. My mental health deteriorated and I became increasingly hipochondriac, I thought that I had an infection or heavy metal poisoning that was causing me fatigue, I made a lot of obsessive research in google and longevity forums, went to a ton of doctors, but I guess it was me just being neurotic. But some stuff I think is legit, I started mouth taping which improved my sleep tremendously, reduced IBS symptoms with dietary measures like stop eating insoluble fiber, histamic foods, nuts, dairy, drinking apple cider vinegar, etc. I'm also getting my jaw realigned with a mouth appliance that I use at night, I'm also mewing. This should improve my vagal tone (which should improve response, autonomous nervous system, etc) and my breathing.

In the meantime I did a keto diet and got leaner, went from 71kg to 66kg, I thought that I was lean before but I was probably at 14%, now I'm 10% bf (pic attached). I have 0 muscle and strength tho, I made a lot of mistakes in the process of getting leaner and I'm reviewing my fitness knowledge. Probably will start lean bulking and a strength program.

Also, the insoles FINALLY (after 3+ months and a lot of bureaucratic issues) arrived. Along with a military boots that I bought at Zara, they get me from 172cm to 180cm which as VERY good height here.

For the moment, I will start approaching a bare minimum of 2 girls. Hitting on girls for real and actually getting laid should keep my AA at minimum. When I go back to Buenos Aires I will crush the AA program once and for all. I will focus back on working on my drawing skills AND make money as a freelance illustrator/concept artist so I can reach financial independence. I prefer to live with my parents than to live a lone working a minimum wage soul draining, dead end job.

Cheers.

Edit: My face has also became much leaner, it really is a game changer, it improves your jawline a lot. My fashion sense has improved. I think that my looks are at a point where I should get results from cold approach.
I should mention that my regular fuckbuddy dumped me because she got into a relationship. So I havent been getting laid for a while (I totally deserve it thoigh, I didnt put much effort at all).

Gabo wrote: Did Day 39 and part of Day 40 inthese days. I realized that I'm still seeking validation. I talk to hot girls because I want them to smile at me so I feel like I'm cute. I got obsessed with grooming and style, but at this point I feel like I'm trying to get validated, instead of using my looks to improve my chances to get laid. I really need to get over the "I'm too cool for this, normal people don't do this it's is weird" stage. Stop trying to be cool

I still have big fragile ego. I had 1 bad reaction and I psyched myself out, even though 80% of girls smiled and thanked me.

Did you tell some girl she was cute and then her mom told you to fuck off?

NoStringsAttached wrote:

Gabo wrote: Did Day 39 and part of Day 40 inthese days. I realized that I'm still seeking validation. I talk to hot girls because I want them to smile at me so I feel like I'm cute. I got obsessed with grooming and style, but at this point I feel like I'm trying to get validated, instead of using my looks to improve my chances to get laid. I really need to get over the "I'm too cool for this, normal people don't do this it's is weird" stage. Stop trying to be cool

I still have big fragile ego. I had 1 bad reaction and I psyched myself out, even though 80% of girls smiled and thanked me.

Did you tell some girl she was cute and then her mom told you to fuck off?

Yeah, she was very disrepecful. The drill was sayingvyou are cute and then saying your name. She was with a friend (hoter than her of course) and she Said 'who cares if your name is Gabo!' That really hurt me. I would normally kept to myself but funnily enough that day specifically instructed to say whatever you want if a girl is rude to you. I felt better afterwards lol

Gabo wrote:

NoStringsAttached wrote:

Gabo wrote: Did Day 39 and part of Day 40 inthese days. I realized that I'm still seeking validation. I talk to hot girls because I want them to smile at me so I feel like I'm cute. I got obsessed with grooming and style, but at this point I feel like I'm trying to get validated, instead of using my looks to improve my chances to get laid. I really need to get over the "I'm too cool for this, normal people don't do this it's is weird" stage. Stop trying to be cool

I still have big fragile ego. I had 1 bad reaction and I psyched myself out, even though 80% of girls smiled and thanked me.

Did you tell some girl she was cute and then her mom told you to fuck off?

Yeah, she was very disrepecful. The drill was sayingvyou are cute and then saying your name. She was with a friend (hoter than her of course) and she Said 'who cares if your name is Gabo!' That really hurt me. I would normally kept to myself but funnily enough that day specifically instructed to say whatever you want if a girl is rude to you. I felt better afterwards lol

Haha wow she’s a bitch!

Keep at it. You’ll build thick skin as you go along.