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Glad to see that you are back. I also had my issues with day 15. Back then I read your log while checking all the info I can find for this day. Didn’t feel that good to see all your commitment for this day and then finally your log ending there. Hope that you kill it this time.
Thanks dude, yeah that day would be easy if you just did it during the night, but I wanted to be comfortable with doing it in the day. I expected to just breeze through this, but it was a bit of a shock to me that it was that tough. Doing this with friends makes it that much easier. But that's not allowed. Man, if I did this with a friend I could probably do this entire thing in less than a month.
Yesterday I was not feeling too well but I attempted to do day 11, managed to do a few sets. I was really horny as well and I was going to see my FB later that night, so that didn't help much. Will attempt Day 11 and Day 12. Wasn't able to do the drills on 3 days this week, not too happy about that... I allow myself 2 days a week that I can miss.
Went out, did a few approaches but then I got really conscious because there are literally cell phone kiosks everywhere in the mall and when I spotted a girl I wanted to approach, it's usually within a few steps of a kiosk. I got in my head about this and decided to go to the biggest university here. Bad mistake, there was barely anyone around and I was feeling really sluggish so I didn't even approach anyone. I had gotten laid yesterday, and I fapped this morning, that didn't help my case. I also realized I could've modified my approach slightly while I was at the mall by asking which store they recommended... But I didn't think of that until I left, that kind of pissed me off. Wasted so much time.
I will do nofap for as long as possible, and I won't cum next time I have sex. This is so fucking hard!
When I think about looking at porn or fapping, I'll just get off my computer for a few minutes and give myself a break.
I had planned to do Day 12 today so I'm a bit behind schedule.
Didn't go approach today, I had other things that were more priority unfortunately. Reading through some of Chris's stuff on dealing with AA, he mentioned that it best to do this full-time while holding down a part time job. Not happening. Not even close. My program at school requires me to do my internship full-time, and my program is one of the tougher programs in school. On top of this, I have a host of other health problems that take up my time which I don't want to disclose.
My goal originally was to do all 8 weeks by going out at LEAST 5 times a week, but I think I'll have to cut it down to 7 weeks and be more flexible with how often I go out. If I'm not able to do this program, I just might simply go out and approach once or twice a day which is more doable for me than this massive AA program.
Didn't have much time or energy to go out but I forced myself and made it happen. Had 1.5 hours to do this in a mall that doesn't have much going on and I managed to do 4 sets. 1 more to go.
I tripped up twice on my last set. The two different girls I approached looked like they were about to leave so I didn't finish those last two lines. They were also really hot. I shouldn't have tried to gauge their reaction and just kept going. I will try to get to day 14 by the end of Saturday. I am going to have to find some time to redo my POF account and perhaps restart my Tinder. I don't have much time or energy, but I have to make the best with the cards I'm dealt.
EDIT: Also, I noticed that even though I did the same drill the exact same way to different girls. Some will make the drills fun, some will just snub you. It's like even if I say the dumbest shit that doesn't make sense, some girls will just play along and laugh it off, whereas others will try to get rid of you.
Went out to finish my set. I noticed that I didn't approach every single hot girl that I could've I must've passed on 3 - 5 girls to do the drills on. I guess this goes away with more practice. I challenged myself a bit and approached a set of 2 hotties, since I usually approach single girls.
Right after finishing up, I spent the rest of my allotted time to set up my POF profile again. Will start hitting girls up on there soon.
Will try to do day 12, and 13 over the weekend. We'll see.
Tried my hand at POF yesterday but the site wasn't working so I went out, I had 10 mins to spare for this so I did some of the drill, specifically just one approach.
Although it seems like a waste of time to drive somewhere to do one approach, I think cultivating the mindset of "I gotta do everything I possibly can" is worth the effort. Nowadays, I have less hesitation when I need to go out but I don't "feel" like it. This used to be a problem, but I've made it a habit to just follow through on everything I need to do in the day -even if it feels like a waste of time. This really helps, it feels like you're on autopilot!
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