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*From now on, I'm putting all my vlogs in my vlog thread here:
What I did:
- Went to the same mall straight after work to do this.
- Some thug looking guy caught onto what I was doing and I got called out.
- How I felt, aftermath (took a break, hesitated for a while, but eventually finished)
- Now I'm the mall creeper and it feels liberating
- Gain in confidence knowing I can handle myself
- Coming to terms with being recognized
Some tips for newbies regarding the incident: When approaching a girl who's with a guy, probably not a good idea to approach as soon as he leaves, otherwise it seems really fishy. I personally wasn't really thinking it through at the time. These types of incidences can be a good thing, knowing that you can keep your shit cool when things like that escalate.
All this screening/creepy shit that we do is what separates us from normal underachieving people.
It's good to be back. Had to take some time off because performance at work was lacking, and I am only at this company for 6 months so I really need to build career capital, so I don't have problems finding a job once I graduate.
Man,it's cold as fuck now. Gets down to -15 here, so looks like only inside stores for me.
To sum up my vlog:
- I felt like I had AA again
- There wasn't that many people so I kept running into the same ones over and over again. I got in my head.
- If I had approached all the girls I saw I would've been done this drill by now
Success! I was able to talk to 15 girls in total! More than double the amount yesterday!
Unfortunately, I think it had more to do with the sheer amount of people at the place I went to. I wasn't able to rapid fire one after another. But I'm sure it's not something I'll be able to do overnight. But these past few days felt like getting back onto the bicycle.
For me I feel what's holding me back is intentionally looking like a retard/moron/whatever, but if you look at other AA programs, most if not all have the main premise of looking like a special needs kid.
Been pretty tough to keep up with this. Still getting the hang of my new job. But yesterday and the day before, I managed to sneak 1 set in for each day. I find it really tough to keep up with this, my job makes me feel drained afterwards and I don't have the same motivation to rip through this at times.
Alright day 10, I only managed to do 3 "sets". I spent a little more than 2 hours walking around the mall like a creep, and I burned some Kratom before but I didn't feel a difference... Well back on the wagon again, it always gets so hard when I haven't gone out in a while. FYI I was really sick for 2 weeks, and I had some drama regarding my health but it's all good for now...
Ok I tried day 10 again, and I was only able to ask what movie theatre. That was rough. I had only 1 hour to do this so instead I just asked people for the time, didn't keep count. Wasn't able to do one "set" unfortunately.
Looks like I'll have to go back to day 9 or day 8 because I've lost momentum and I'll probably progress faster if I just redo the previous days rather than banging my head against the wall over day 10.
I'll redo day 9 twice at most, if I'm not able to do it again.
I burned some kratom before doing this, and it didn't do jack shit... I didn't feel more social.
Kratom is hit or miss and trial and error. I bought some a long time ago and it didn't do anything for me no matter what I tried, so I didn't buy any more. Obviously it works really good for some people though. Anyway just try to be consistent with your effort. Failure and frustration is normal. You're not a weirdo, it happens to everyone. A little bit of effort each day adds up to a lot in a year's time.
Everybody wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to die.
Yesterday I got laid by one of my FWB's so that's my excuse for not going out. Today though, I managed to do one and a half sets but due to time constraints I couldn't really finish off the rest of it. However, unlike the past two times I went out where I felt really miserable doing the drills, and even felt like shit afterwards, this time I felt great during and after the drills today. What changed today was I looked at my previous successes leading up to now, and I looked at my mindset then. Looking back, my mindset was to: take nothing personal, focus on the process, and DON'T be smooth.
I think the change in focus and mindset can really make a difference but maybe it could be just that I'm just feeling good today, we'll see in my next outings.
Yesterday, I was so fucking tired I collapsed on my bed after work so pretty much a no go. After I woke up though, I just hit up some girls on POF since I didn't go out to drill. Today, I'm going to reset my tinder, and head out afterwards.
Went out for an hour and had to be somewhere, was looking at a few places to move to. In that hour though, I managed to do 3 full sets. I don't want to quit day 10 until I've done all the sets in one day. Since I am already pretty comfortable, I will give this one more shot and move on!
Yesterday I finally did all of day 10! Today I was too tired so I just fell asleep and chilled out. One thing I notice while I'm out is that I am still a bit worried that I might approach a girl with her boyfriend and get into shit, or maybe I might approach the same girl again. More scared of the former than the latter. I've never gotten into a fight just approaching girls before mind you, I've gotten a few dirty looks though.
Went on a date today, so I took pressure off myself to go do AA drills. Met up with date at a coffee shop, date didn't go very far, turns out the girl is only interested in meeting people as friends over tinder (lol), I asked her to come back to my place but she said she had to pick up her friend later.
Next time, to screen these girls out, I'll just invite them over to my house directly, BIB style, this way, no time wasted. Lesson learned.
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