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So been trying this one for a while. I dunno why it took me ages to do the last rep on the set. But eventually got it done. Hoping to finish this today going to strike early and get the rest of the sets done. I hoping now I've done one set I can finish the rest with ease.
Got 7 more approaches this day. I literally could wiz through the drills if I approached more but I'm still trying to figure out why I'm still hesitant. I'm guessing my approach anxiety is still there and that's the resistance I'm fighting ATM. aww wel that will come.
One approach I did today she was very receptive. I stopped her and she came right to my face like super close. Pretty Russian girl.
Will finish this day tomorrow just 5 approaches left. Light work
Next day felt so easy. Literally took 30 mins max to finish off the day. Happens every damn time I after you do a few set the drill is so easy. I need to push to complete the first set asap. Cause this slows me down
shift kinda fucked me up. But started hitting it again. This was by far the easiest drill this should have been with week 1 tbh. It seemed to natural to just ask someone the time and where the toilet is.
Only did 7 approaches cause the weather turned fucked up. But will finish tomorrow and head out tomorrow night solo!!!!
Shit didn't go to plan. Delayed it abit but got the day done. One girl in particular took me to a toilet lol had a nice chat along the way. Was nice.
Won't be going out till Friday so I'm gonna put day 21 off till Friday. And carry on with day 22 from tomorrow.
Took a few days to get over some bs anxiety. Always hard at first then seems like it's nothing.
Will finish this tomorrow. Really need to be completing these drills in one day. Because I stretch these too much. Like one day of drills will take me four days. I think my days off I will commit to complete whole days. And do half days when I have work due to time restrictions.
Today was a game changer. I just felt good I don't know why, I kept it in my mind that I'm going to stand tall, smile and have playful eyes. Also speak with a loud voice. Never had better interactions with these drills ever! I took my jacket off cause I got hot and cause I've been hitting the gym recently I felt so ducking sexy. Did 6 approaches in the space of 15 mins and for me that's quick!!
One girl literally got so nervous I think she fancied me lol. When I said my mum said I would look good in a pair of suspenders. She says yeah I bet you would. I was fucking amazed, just by doing those things I felt so fucking good! Every interaction was effortless and a success. I felt so confident I started the next day and wasn't planning to go out tonight but now cause I feel so good I am to do day 21.
If you approach any woman like a creep with bad posture, looking like shit, whispering so she can barely hear you, with shit eye contact and a depressed look on your face, do you really think she is going to be receptive to you??
I can't believe it took me this long to realise but without this program I probably wouldn't have.
Approach with a smile, playful eyes, good body language, dress well and with a loud voice. Why in the hell would she not be receptive? You seem like a confident and attractive man rather than a creep! And for real if you do that it doesn't even matter what you say.
***Got my ass out the house, went to the club sober as shit. Dropped my coat off in the cloak room and realised the club is fucking dead. This is a big venue and the just have the reception open. All other rooms were shut! There were quite a few girls but I felt anxious as a motherfucker. Security watching my every move, hardly any people. So I went toilet and left. Fuck it at least I went out. I was hoping for a packed club where I won't be watched. This is a big venue and I only wanna do the drills there rather than smaller venues. Will redo later on in the month.
Cause I felt so good after finishing day 22 I started today. I think I will do this in future, once completing a day start the next one because your already socially warmed up it'll be easier to approach. And then the next day won't feel so scary.
Did 5 approaches. Very easy drill
One woman laughed so much. The rest thought I was on about a real place lol.
I did the drill, she smiled and said like the TV show, I said no the real street. She was laughing so much it was funny
Been a little I'll do been resting for a few days. Headed out today and got 5 approaches. Could have got way more but just wanted to do a little by rather than rest at home all day.
One girl got her phone out and searched for it. Then she took me to the uni help desk while we chatted along the way. Would have been easy to grab her number. Or at least ask for it. But this anxiety program is great no word of a lie.
It's taken me way longer but i don't give a fuck. I know I'm challenging my anxiety everyday. Until the point where I can approach beautiful girls and ask for thei numbers. I will complete this program. Maybe not any time soon but I will definitely complete it.
Went out and jumped straight in, the first girl that went past I was just about to let her pass then I said fuck it. Ended up doing 14 approaches pretty decent for me. I did 12 with one of my normal laps and 2 later on. Jumping from interaction to interaction is the best. Second girl I went to was pretty hot, she smiled as I stopped her cause I think she thought I was gonna pick her up. Just asking were Sesame Street is biatch. When I asked her smile dropped and a woman nearby gave me a weird look. Who gives a shit me ahaha. Now tomorrow going out with work but I've got 7 left, what I wanna do is complete the 7 and jump straight into the next day so I'm already warmed up and there will be less anxiety. Rather than starting the day fresh the next day. It proved to help with this day and I'll be honest I'm feeling anxious about the next day but...... all these drills cause anxiety it's about pushing through and getting over it. And tbh I've noticed the really really weird drills only have about 12 approaches. So it's doable in 1-2 days with ease. Peace out till next time.
Yes motherfuckers it took me four days to do it but I did it eventually. Wanted to start the next day but got a little in my head. Will attempt it tomorrow, just need to get those first few reps done and then the majority of the anxiety is gone.
I was wrong btw it's not 12 reps for this one, it's going to be 30. But fuck it it's gonna push me outside my comfort zone and help me grow so let's get it on.
Ps I started online dating again. I know your suppose to be doing this along side but I just wanted to get my day game on point. But I wanna go on a date now and get some ass! So got back on tinder but gonna stop wasting time and let girls know what I'm all about. Rather than pretending to be a potential bf.
Ohhhh weee, took a me few days to grow some balls. But as soon as I did the first approach. The drill didn't feel so hard, I only did 5 approaches but they were pretty decent. The girls all thought I was buying a gift for my girlfriend which I just played along with. Actually had some decent convos with girls. This drill teaches you to approach and hang in there. Which is awesome. Really felt anxious about this drill but I think this beautiful weather over here gave me some courage. Need to take approaching these sexy bitches asap!
Jumped straight into it. Felt abit awkward but got 5 done again. Wanted to do more but I slowed up and it's fucking baking so I was sweating my balls off. One girl was like "I'd rather not". Before rejection would make me feel like such a bitch, like what am I doing wrong?? But in reality it's not me, it's her the stuck up biatch. Every girl is different the cool ones give u an answer the weird ass ones want to avoid everyone. I don't give a fuck I did my drill and giggled about it after. Didn't stop me doing more cause I did another approach a few minutes after.
Not every girl is gonna wanna fuck u, suck u, kiss u, date u or even give u their number. Your going to get rejected from time to time so embrace it , laugh about it and don't let that shit stop you cause an awesome girl will be round the corner.
Looking to finish this tomorrow as I got a day off and weather is boom. 20 approaches. Pretty doable just need to bounce from one to the next no stalling. After this the rest of the drill for the week are fairly short 12-15 reps. which make the shit a lot easier. Still need to do day 21 might tomorrow. We'll see
I got ten approaches done today. Did 5 fairly quick. Then went into a daze and just couldn't approach. I struggle in the crowded areas to make any approaches it's really annoying. I could have easily done 30 approaches today but I zone out like I know it's not time to approach.
On the plus side the first girl I approached was so receptive to me. I could have got her number it would have been a breeze. She was quite pretty.
Need to finish this damn program so I can start approaching!
Hit a brick wall again was trying to get the last three. Just weren't happening and I was limited on my time. Atleast tomorrow them three will be a warm up and I can go into the next day already social. There are certain places I'm scared to approach invade I see anyone I know. 1) main pet in town and 2) one of the universities I know quite a few people - I don't want anyone to see me do my drills and be like Wtf, I wanna not give a shit but I dunno, they are also very busy areas so I think the thought of people watching and listening puts me off. Really need to get over these sticking points before the end of the program.
So guys today marks a big change. I realised it been 7 months since I started the program.
Now I've just about made it to say 25 and seen a video by a guy names how to beast. This is the video by howtobeast - a YouTuber
He basically asks for a Starbucks and then approaches. Some may say not the best approach. But it's an approach none the less. And the anxiety associated with that is what we want to destroy. So I thought lemme see if I can do this. And I did not only once but I did 2 approaches. It's a great approach for newbies because
a) u can stop the girl with something she is willing to help u with
the approach will seem less out of the blue cause ur already talking
C) if she's ugly. You have a few moment to realize and be like ok and walk away
D) if there's people around you'll feel less anxious as your already in the set.
I only did it to two girls but both responses were mehhh.
I'm going to open a new forum, where I do this 100 times and see what happens. For the AA program this has helped me so much to get to this point to be able to do this. I thank you so much and will return if ever needed in the future. It makes you do stuff way harder than approaching. I fee more normal doing this approach than randomly asking a girl what's for lunch. I did do 5 approaches with that and it's great to get you out your comfort zone. But I just proved I don't have approach anxiety anymore. This has been life changing. I can say now I can approach women.
Befor this program no chance could I do this. But now I feel ready, I've approached enough women had enough weird looks and had enough rejections to know u can just laugh and move to the next. Let's get it!
The whole point of the AA program is to go up and aggressively hit on girls. Not indirectly approach by asking where a Starbucks is. Try doing the day 46 drill and see if you don't have approach anxiety. "I know this random but I thought you were cute and wanted to say hi", I'm [Name], Handshake, So.. tell me what your up to today, Leave.
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