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So I missed my date. She had to go to work and I was running a little late. So we rescheduled for next week. She's not that hot anyway so I'm not fussed tbh. Weird thing is that's when the girls obsess over u.
Anyway went to do my drills or atleast some of them. Took me a while to get started and ended up doing 5 standing high fives.
1. she was smoking a cigarette outside the train station (btw great place for this exercise). Pretty hot. Walked up to her said excuse me, high five. Looked at me slightly me weird but gave me one.
2. Girl giving out something. I said I'll take one if u give me a high five. Rejected lol
3. Started charging my phone are a station and started talking to the girl next to me. In the end said. Have a nice day. High 5. Looked a tiny bit weird but she was cool
4. Girl smoking a cigarette. Found it funny
5. Girl checking train times. Quite a few people around. Walked up to her from the front and said "excuse me" she took off her headphones and I said high five sticking my hand out. She was kinda pissed off but gave me one anyway ahaha.
Only 5 but I'll take it. At least it's some progress in the right direction. Now tomorrow is Saturday. Gonna wake up. Try and get these drills done nice and early. So I can enjoy the rest of the day. Need to get into a habit of getting straight in there. Cause I waste and hour or so walking around doing fuck all. If I can just go from one girl to the next I'll be able to do these drills much quicker.
Still some anxiety when doing the drills but getting back into the swing of things. Finally made a daily target for each day and sticking to it so far.
Ignored Sunday as I didn't make 5 approaches. So I just used that day as maintaining momentum.
Monday today and went out after work. Without a doubt this is a lot easier once you do the first few reps. Took me about 15 mins to grow some balls
1) shop assistant in primark. Looked at me like she didn't understand. Carried on walking
Wasted about an hour walking around don't jack
2) girl on the phone outside Tesco. She was a bit confused raised her hand and then put it down so I escaped
3) this girl was literally round the corner from the second. I thought damn she fucking hot. Waited a min and headed back that way. Said excuse me high 5. She looked at me confused AF. She said I'd rather not lol. After this I was boosted. I think cause she was mega hot.
4) shop working in wilko
5) this was sooo funny. Went to the bus stop to this cutie. Said high five. She said then what? Are u gonna rob me. I started laughing and no are u crazy. She high fived and said what aren't you gonna pay for my bus ticket. Would have literally been so easy to chat to her and get her number. I honestly felt like that.
This one approach felt really good. Got me in a good mood
Tomorrow got a day off so I will complete 10! And move onto day 17.
These high fives have really stopped my progress. But it's all for a good reason. It's pushing me out my comfort zone and allowing me to grow.
What a day. Went on the date. Was ok she knows what I want so that's cool. And she's a pretty cool girl. Was touching her loads and kissed her as well. Maybe a bang coming soon!
Went to the city centre after and did 10 approaches. Only one didn't give me a high five it felt sooo fucking easy after the first one.
And only that one who rejected the high five. The rest felt natural AF. Gets me in such a social mood it's amazing. This means tomorrow I can finally do a day of talking thank god. I know I'll have to do some high fives later on but I'm glad to have passed this.
Will definitely use high fives in the future maybe everyday. Because they cause me so much anxiety and get me to leap outside my comfort zone!
Normally I would make sure no one is watching me do my drills. But today I didn't give a fuck! 99% of people do not give a shit about ur stupid drills or that ur approaching a girl. Everyone is more worried about their own shit to give a damn about u for even one second. The o my people who notice it is people right next to the girl and even they don't give a shit!
Consistency is key! If u take breaks ur not gonna be able to push outside your comfort zone. And will waste time. Just for the duration of this program. Stick to it everyday until u finish. It's a lot fucking easier than trying to hype yourself up and doing one approach a day. Plus that's gonna take forever for u to complete the program. It's only a few months make it a priority and finish ur anxiety once and for all!! And start approaching and banging all these hot bitches that walk past
Today wasn't the best of days I thought yesterday this drill would be a walk in the park and really underestimated the anxiety this drill caused. I thought 12 reps lol that'll be sooo easy but was completely wrong. U know your going to go up to a girl and say something really random and retarded which caused me to get stuck in my head.
I did get one rep done which felt amazing. The girl looked at me like wtf. But it didn't really faze me. But other than that I didn't approach as much as I thought I would. Hopefully tomorrow we'll be better
Dunno if this has anything to do with the AA program, nofap or the fact that since the new year I've had a morning routine including skipping. But I kid you not over the last few weeks when I play football I have been an absolute beast with confidence. Normally I would mess up a simple pass but I have absolutely been killing it and the friends I play with have taken notice at how much I've improved. I have much more confidence when I play. And am not scared to try and fail.
Back to the AA program I know every drill seems like "how can I do this!!" But that's the whole point. It's beating the shit outta your anxiety and your ego. Which will help you approach women in the future. The high five drill was very very difficult for me. Now it'll cause me some anxiety but I can do it bro. I know outta all the girls I've done this to. The worst response will be a "no I'm alright" that's it. So I know I will overcome this drill. I just need to stick in there.
Thursday is was wet like a bitch so I called the day off. Literally walked 5 mins and I looked like I went through a car wash.
Friday after work went the usual route round town and the uni campuses. Started off fucking amazing. Did four approaches in the space of waking down three roads. Which for me was good. Then I dunno what happened I think I just got stuck in my head and walked around aimlessly through town. Then towards the end I said fuck it and got two more reps out.
With this drill ever reaction was the same. A weird look and a laugh lol. It's quite a weird one but it's good and I've realised that's the worst that can happen when you approach a girl. She'll look at your weirdly and laugh and that's it she's gone. Will you see her again? Probably not and even if you did she's most likely not going to remember you. Like I don't even remember half the girls I do these drills on. It's funny if I was to see them again I wouldn't know who's who.
This day I found that I was pushing myself to do the drills and it worked at the start. As well as getting the excuse me out to stop them. After that I had to do the drill. All in all an ok day. And I'll be back the next day to complete it.
So I've been doing one two approaches a day to keep consistency and today finally did five approaches which can be counted towards the total. Did three very quick then literally got in my head for ages. I do a whole lap of town and I got to the end and said I'm not going home till I do five approaches in a day. So turned my ass back round and did two. Thank god!
Will finish this exercise tomorrow and move on! Oh yeah. Need to keep at it now. Finish this and move onto the next day.
My rule is I have to approach five girls to count it to the total. If I do any less they don't count which will make me do more sets and if I have anxiety doing them I will get more experience in that area till I don't give a shit, plus it'll push me to do more approaches once doing a few. If I miss a day or don't do any sets it resets/ moves me back a day.
Thank god I don't have to do this anymore. Was a very irrating day because I almost did it but then I took a break and it slowed me down mega. But glad to be done with this drill
Knew I had to get in there quick otherwise I'd be walking around for ages. Did the first three fine but the last one with the full alphabet stopped me in my tracks. I literally walked forever then after I got out my head finally did it and the other four were sooo easy after that.
Bring on day 18. Now it's time to be consistent with this shit!!
Calculated how my progress was going so far. The rate I'm going at I will not even finish this by the end of summer. So time to pull my finger out and finish this fucking program. Going to prioritise this program till completed. And trying to complete three days a week. At this rate I should finish by the summer months and will be swimming in pussy lol. Going to hold off jui jitsu to just once a week and hit gym for the time being until this program is done.
Completed 9 approaches. This drill was a piece of piss compared to the alphabets. Will finish the rest tomorrow. Been slacking lately cause weather has been crazy in the U.K. But today was the start of spring sinners to hit this hard!!
Finished this damn day. Got some different reactions through out. I found the hot girls were more receptive and the ugly one were like wtf.
I always do a few approaches and then get stuck in my head. And whenever people are around I can't do drills. Like if I approached girls one after another I would complete these days so much quicker.
Along with this I think at time how am I gonna transition from doing this bs to actual approaching. When in reality at the start I had anxiety asking girls for the time and directions. Let alone saying the alphabet to girls. That was the turning point in this program. That was some weird shit lol and now I can reference that when completing other drills.
This week should be a breeze now. Now that I'm being consistent and setting this as my main goal rn. I can worry about jui jitsu after once I've completed this. At most it's another three months mac if I stay consistent and push to finish
Enough blabbering bring on day 19
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