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So Friday went out with work mates, Saturday and Sunday took it off. Made a fresh start on Monday. Or not, I asked the first girl I seen for the time and made my way to town. And out of nowhere I seen a very old and dear friend. Had to chill with him as it's been a while. After that went JUi jitsu.
Next day (Tuesday) I was determined to make up for it. Made a slow start and but eventually completed 9 approaches before I dashed home. The do you like it part was hard but as you do these drills you honestly look back and think wow that was so easy. The first time you say it you feel anxiety prior. But I'm nice you've done 2-3 it's really nothing.
Following day (Wednesday) Completed the remaining 6 approaches in quick timing I think in less than an hour.
Went out to do this challenge but honestly struggled. Did two approaches and didn't get to the part about have you seen any good movies? It's simple and I know I can do it. I just get a little put off initially
Friday (22nd) I went straight home. Weekend off. Will return back on. Monday. Overall not so good of a week. But the students are starting back now meaning my main location (the local uni campus) for approaching will be full of hot girls.
Been slacking badly. Found this one tricky but once you get started with any of these you honestly don't give a fuck.
Did 6 approaches
Day 10 c
And did 9 more approaches the second day
You realise after a while it's not so bad asking a girl a few questions. I always asked a girl for the time in the movie theathre and she was trying to conversate. Honestly love these exercises. I feel more confident in talking to women. Hopefully by the end I will feel complete different.
Thursday completed 1 set (4 approaches) before jui jitsu. Got into a good convo with the cute white girl when asking her about her phone she was giving all sort of suggestions. Could have easily carried on the convo
Friday completed the remaining 3 sets (12 approaches). Got into a good convo with a few attractive ladies. Had some very awkward convos also ahaha.
One that stood out was the stunning brunette. Her breasts looked so nice and she was very receptive towards me. Hopefully one day I can walk up to girls like that and leave with their number.
I'm starting to love these exercises. It challenges my beliefs like crazy. I think at the start It's going to be so awkward and weird me asking that. And yeah sometimes it is. But what you don't expect is when it goes well and how awesome it is just stopping a girl in the street and engaging in a convo. With so much ease. No matter how hot she is. I can stop her and atleast start a convo. Thanks!
Plus I got my bathmate. Atm starting with the beginner program recommended here. But am looking forward to some gains!
Got to town early before work so decided to do some approaches. Only did two but it helped.
As when I finished work I completed the other 6. Last approach was awesome cute Italian girl walked to a place where u can buy candles. she was asking all sorts of questions about the dinner and what I did wrong etc. felt normal to walk with a random girl and make conversation.
Jesus that was difficult. This for me a set me back over a month. One because of working different shifts and two because I'm being a bitch.
This is forcing me outside my comfort zone big time. As I feel so weird and so much anxiety when doing this. But it's good it means I'm growing. And this will get me to approach hot girls one day!
For over a month I've been walking around trying to take some action but couldn't do jack. But finally yesterday I grew some balls and put my hand out to this girl and said high 5. She looked at me like I was crazy and carried on walking. I laughed it off and was just glad I did it. And that some girls have positive reactions and some have negative it's cool.
Couple points I think me relapsing from my nofap streak has hindered my progress. I was whizzing through until then and for the last month I'm a vagina again. Now I'm gonna start a streak and see how it effects my progress.
This is different from the other challenges I don't have a problem with going up to girls and asking them the things I have done so far. But it's good the program is getting more difficult and forcing me to push outside my comfort zone.
All these challenges you feel at the start "how am I going to do that". But you do one and that would be the hardest one. After that you flow through this like it's nothing.
I'm hoping the same concept is true for this one. It feels good to be posting something on this forum again. I know it's only one high five but for me this was hard. Let's see if i update this later today. With more numbers
So went around town from 12:30-3. No high fives given even though I had plenty of good opportunities. Went to see a mate and left town. He lives in a quiet area as I made my way to him I was so pissed I didn't give a high five to even one girl. Then I seen one girl about to cross the lights. I walked up to her and said
Excuse me, high five
She was so confused so I high fived her arm and walked.
She shouted why?
I said why not
She ok and gave me air high five
Two points I left i get scared that other people are watching me so in high volume areas I get scared. Cause when there was no one around I didn't really have a problem. When there's people there I think oh no what if they see me get rejected for a high five. I'll look like such a loser. And what if someone I know sees me. But in reality nobody gives a shit! No one cares. Maybe for a second but after that they couldn't give a rats ass.
Secondly I get too outcome based. When in reality all u have to do is the drill.And that's it. It doesn't matter if she gives u a high or looks at you weird or whatever.
It's all about doing the damn drill! Cause in reality it doesnt matter about her reaction. Cause some will be great some will be weird. Just like when you approach a girl. Some girls will act positively some negatively.
So to improve I must get over these two sticking points and grow. So that I will be able to approach women freely. No matter who's around and what she says.
One thing I noted today was to stand with incredible posture. I imagined I how the rock would stand and tried doing it all day. Now I don't know if it was that. Or the nofap streak I have but today was something else.
So went town to buy some boxing gloves. And decided to get off early and walk abit before getting into town. Tried to do a set nice and early to set the pace. Walked past the uni and went up to one girl.
She looked weirdly at my hand as I put it out for a high five. But then she high fived me and laugh. Then I carried on.
2 minutes later seen another girl walking solo. Same drill. Same reaction. I was shocked. Yesterday I just about had the courage to ask for a high five after 3 hours! Now after 10 minutes I was on a roll.
So I went town. Grabbed my gloves and sorted a few things out. And then went on a absolute rampage. I started at 2:30 by 5:30 I had done 10 high fives. The first few were awkward after that it was sooooo easy!
I mean rewind one day and I was sweating buckets at the thought of stopping a girl and asking for a high five.
Some didn't give me a high 5. Some did. Some laughed. Some looked at me weirdly. But I did the mother fucking drill!!
Something I thought would be very difficult for me. Became soo easy it's unbelievable. I'm so glad I stuck to it. This took me over a month to overcome. I just couldn't bring myself to do it. There was too much anxiety but I never stopped. And now I have succeeded.
Long story short I did 10 high fives in an hour and half. Not the best time. But definitely cut that time down by half. Did four in quick timing but delayed the rest till I was about to go home and call it day. Then I said fuck it and turned around and headed back to get some more and didn't leave till I completed ten.
The last one way jokes. She stopped. Looked at me like I was on crack and carried on walking.
I literally felt soooo awkward. But as I turned the corner I laughed like quagmire looool I found it so funny and now I don't even remember what she looks like. Rejection feels pretty nice after 10 seconds. A feeling of atleast I had the balls to do something.
This high bs was sooo difficult for me. I took me pretty much over a month before I had the balls to do it. But it's fucking awesome. I feel I can stop women now much better and doing something embarrassing like giving a high 5 and even being rejected is something I'm getting use to.
Majority of the girls have high 5s. Just two looked at me really weird which doesn't even matter some are yes some are no. This program is taking me a while but I can feel it changing me so much.
And to reach that level of approaching women I need to do all these challenges. Hopefully I can get them done way before this summer and can go on a boning spree in the summer.
Son of a bitch mother fucking bastard. I'm so pissed off
It's a new year, meaning I started this AA program 3 months ago and I'm still at Day 15. I'm not giving up I'm just sayin had I stuck to the program like Chris said I would have been done and on my way to approaching women.
Reason why my progress has been so slow? I've not been committing everyday to the program. I took a very casual approach. Sort of "when I feel like it" I would always take weekends off. And Chris recommends not to take more than 1 day off in a 10 day period. So you can build social momentum and build upon success after success. I was taking breaks all the time so that explains my slow progress
Now what am I gonna do? If I don't do 5 approaches a day I move back a day. 5 approach are enough to get me in the "mood" to approach as wel these can be done in quick succession.
This gives me something to lose if I don't get out there and do something. I'll be moving backwards if I don't do the drills and after a break I can get back in the swing of things
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