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Dantermin69 wrote: I did. Not easy. It's gonna take practice
follow wht roussea says. It works like a motherfucker. I'm still trying to get it down and almost every normal girl will stop for me. Just remember that some weird girls won't stop for u, even with the method that Rousseau suggest. It works but you're still going to get duds, so don't get discouraged.
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Haha the best way I managed to do this is she was walking towards me on the left, I came in from the right, grabbed her arm in a firm but peaceful way to stop her and said "you're sexy" I don't think it really matters in which way you do it, because the important thing is that you yourself feel natural while doing it; as if stopping a friend. When it failed for me was when I felt awkward doing it, doesn't matter if I was doing the correct "motions", if I'm not feeling like I'm "allowed" to do it, she's not gonna stop and be creeped out instead.
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Rousseau wrote: What I do that I'm getting incredibly good at is this:
I see the girl walking towards me, and as they're getting closer I get directly in their path. I flash a nice genuine smile like I know them and I wave at them.
When they get into ear shot, I just say, "Hi," and usually they stop and I follow up with "how are you doing?" while I'm still smiling.
Sometimes it doesn't work, but I find it usually does. Girls will think you know each other.
One of my biggest sticking points when I first started was I would see a hot girl coming up, and then instead of on the fly stopping them with this strategy, I would let them walk past me (by bitching out) and then take about 10-20 seconds to muster the balls to go up to her, but by that point so much time had passed I had to chase them down and then approach from behind.
1000000% just clear your mind and stop them on a dime while you are still in front of them before they pass you.
My results improved dramatically when I started approaching the way Rousseau just described.
Just for the sake of the thread let's just say you are already behind them and you weren't in a position to do the above though (maybe you just noticed them as you were walking behind them) then what I would do is speed up your pace and then get beside her, and give a friendly Hi with a smile and eye contact, and then stop walking, implying you want to have a conversation.
She will 90-99% of the time say Hi back and stop walking and then just like that you are in a conversation.
Big mistake I see a lot of guys make is yelling at chicks from behind, or grabbing them from behind/the side and scaring the shit out of them.
Definitely going to do this more often. I thought approaching in any way was better than nothing (which I guess is true) but not super effective.
So many girls have headphones in so I would often scare them unintentionally. Prolly starts the convo on the wrong foot. You'll spend less time approaching that way as well instead of thinking about running after them and then actually chasing them etc..
I feel like this approach is useful, however from my experiance its not effective when approaching during rush hour or late evening when everyone is going home. Or maybe its just im having the bad luck with the woman thats passing by?
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