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A lot of people may have trouble beating AA due to there absolute shit logistics/ ( living in a small town/an hour drive from anywheres with a decent amount of girls to do drills on)
They always have to drive point a to point b just to do the drills... Why not just cut out the driving and stay in a hostel dead smack in the middle of the city. Where you can walk out the door and start banging out the drills. It would probably cost you about 50-70$ a day for living expenses. Depending on lifestyle/location but this would make it dead easy with little excuse to not be able to do drills every day.
Many hostels are within 5-10 minute walking distance from main bars + clubs.
2 months would run you; depending on the amount of money you spend in the run of a day, anywheres from 3-6k in my opinion.
Make sure you stay in a dorm room to keep costs low. It might seem scary at first to be in a room with many other people but they come and go every day many of which you will never see again in your life. But there also is a possibility of lifelong friends as well as hooking up with others in the dorm.
With the middle of the city right outside your front door, you will have an abundance of people to perform AA drils on. There is no doubt.
Also making it possible for anyone to do drills in any city of preference. Eliminating the fear of friends seeing you doing the drills..
Hosteling is a great way to meet people and the odds of being social is hugely increased beyond just that of the AA program. I see this as being beneficial on its own for many.
I know some of you might say it'll be too expensive/scary/intimidating (whatever your excuse is), well save up the money and do it. You'll thank yourself later, and once your done the AA program pack your stuff and head home or start your new life in the city you've just spent time in? Life's your choice make the most of it
This is a really good idea. A "vacation" dedicated to drills takes more balls to commit to but is exponentially better use of time/$$ than mulling in comfortable depression.
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Sorry but I am going to disagree with this post and plug a post I made on my blog
I have traveled, both hostel and not hostel style, both 1st world (expensive) and 3rd world
I have banged 56 girls
Simply put, spending 3-6k (2 months like you say) for the *chance* of banging girls while staying in a hostel dorm room, is not a smart use of your money
With 3-6k you could travel for MONTHS in Southeast Asia (Thailand, Philippines, etc) and maybe Africa (I've never been but I'm assuming it's as cheap, or cheaper, than SE Asia, and probably just as easy, or easier, to get laid). You would also not have to stay in a dorm room. The sex would be guaranteed provided you aren't severely lacking in some way like looks or social skills
Staying in a hostel dorm room adds another potential layer of problems if you are trying to bang girls. For example, girls who don't want to get fucked in a room with 10 other people in it, the hostel not letting you bring back girls who aren't staying in the hostel, people in the room complaining or otherwise cock-blocking you somehow, etc.
Most of the cost in this approach is getting there (flight) - assuming you don't live near Asia
Given that you are somewhat proficient at banging girls in countries like the US, you can be banging a new girl a day easily if you follow what I say
Edit: just for beating AA, spending 3k-6k is something I definitely wouldn't do. Money like that is better spent. Nothing difficult about approaching a few girls a week either in your small town or the one or two times a week you're in the city. Those approaches build up over time
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As a new member I'm highly suspicious you just made an account on GLL to drive traffic to your website. If there's too much evidence of it, I'll have to ban you.
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To the OP:
While it's true - as people have pointed out - that this is not the most financially efficient way to beat approach anxiety, I certainly would respect anyone who had the balls to make this kind of commitment to beating AA. Beating AA is not about getting pussy for the few months you're doing drills, it's about making an investment in yourself that will literally pay off for the rest of your life
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