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So after a long thought about all of this and never accepting the reality that I actually have this problem with women AA.
I looked back years back into my 15years-old times when I always was the good looking nice guy with the girls and in the meanwhile, my friends would fuck those girls. I always care too much about the comfort (what would they think about me, or what will happen if they reject me). I'm 26 I had fucked 5 girls 3 of them were my girlfriends, and one of them latest for 6 years. Looking back I realised I can meet a girl and be comfy if I chatted with her via the internet, but still, I will be shy as fuck to touch her. I can tell this is a stupid issue, even my last girlfriend told be that she started to doubt herself if she attractive enough and why I don't touch her and push her for sex (same problem care too much for her comfort when she actually wants that. Time has come to move this AA shit from the goal line and no more Mr nice guy or Boyfriend material.
p.s I'm from Lithuania, living in London
Day 1 - Done
Day 2 - Done
Day 3 - Done
my prof got date this Saturday (offered for a short coffee 8pm she said who drinks coffee 8pm lets go for drinks)
Day 4 - Done ( only one girl waved me to move on because she was on the phone with the headphones. In general, I talked with maybe 8, as I got momentum I thought I push the limit a little bit.
hey DonJuan - you spit out your past now it's time to focus on the future !!
"only 1 girl waved me on"
There's literally no good reason to highlight a negativity. (not usually anyways) Focus on the positive. More often than not - you run into mostly good stuff and VERY LITTLE bad stuff. Yet everyone always has the pension to report the 1 or 2 bad things that happened
Drop that mindset!
welcome to GLL brotha, great start to your log DonJuan
Walk up to 5 women and ask them for the time. LEAVE.
Walk up to 5 women again an ask them for the time, but do the drill faster. LEAVE.
Did this within 20min~, Got on busy main street since I had to go to Pharmacy, hit 4 girls all smooth.
Went outside Pharmacy hit one more on the way to art shop. (5/5)
I skipped one because she was carrying a take away coffee train in one hand and bag in another (I don't know if it's right to skip her)
Got outside art shop and on the way back to work I hit 6 more on fast pace going back to work.
Time, Leave 5/5
Time, Directions, Leave 5/5
Time, Directions, Have you been there?, Leave 0/5 at the moment
Repeat this 5 times today, you will speak to 15 girls in total.
Hello everyone, so today is Day 6. Yestarday managed to get one number from girl on okcupid, but still haven't arranged meeting.
Drop two times my own number to two other girls, one said is to fast, another said she drinks coffee only in the morning and at the present she back in Poland and coming back to London maybe after two weeks. So I said still would be cool to chill with you here you go my number and my name.
I got another girl from Happn, (mutual crush shit when you pass the same way). So I opened the conversation with "you should really stop stalking me because it super creepy' she replayed that "hahaha that's so funny" I gave her offer to be my security guard" and bla bla. I got the number with line "lisen I think there is better way then stalking everyday, What about we go for coffee"
she said it's great idea and I gave her my number and she texted me on what's up. Text message was "Obviously before going for a drinks I would need to know your story" And I said more than happy to tell you I call you later.
And then she freaked out . And said but I don't know you and it creepy and etc. And said "better leave it like this X". I text her today but no response I assume this case is closed
Today drills were good went smooth. Even when I work on one of the most busiest street in Europe probably 'Regent Street London'. It's actually full of tourist and majority don't even speak English. So 3 out 5 Had no clue where is what ) Otherwise one girl was so helpful she took out iPhone and showed google maps and etc. another one was smoking cigarette and was quite in to this conversations but I left as the drill says. I still need to go during my 15min break to kill the last 5 girls with question ending have you been there.
On top of that I went to Holland and Barnnet to get some BCAA and Proteint (going for 8-10% fat cycling everyday no carbs already two month so far almost lost 8-9kg want more) There was a super hot cashier, so I came to here because obviously I was straight after drill momentum: ON and fucking hell I'm telling you the look in her eye were something more (or maybe it's my imagination, I spotted that beghind the jumper she had hand tattoo and open conversation. Talked about tattoo had a laugh that is addictive she said he have more, but needs to stop, but I told here once you try it there is no way back. She laugh in general was very smooth conversation. She asked me if I have loyalty card. I told her no since I'm not coming to this shop often. Then when I paid I told her name and said looking in her eyes I probably now will be coming more often.
I'm starting to have a thoughts to go to that store and ask her number or give my number and go chill easily for a coffee or something. Just don't know how to approach her since she is a cashier in quite busy store. Any advice on this one?
So fuck yeah today good weather not raining everything went smooth good feeling. going to kill the last five today.
Time, Directions, Have you been there?, Leave 5/5 at the moment
All went quite well since I made new the places, and which directions to walk.
All answer very nicely some gave even tips for example (Wholefood nice but expensive be aware)
Liberty shop super huge but nothing I like in there .
But the best part was 18pm when I finished worked I write down my number and name on postIT yellow note.
Went to the girl that mentioned above in Holland and Barrnet where I bought BCAA and Protein shake.
When I was approaching shop I start feeling Anxiety inside, but said to myself WTF MAN WTF shes is not the last women on earth. Went inside grabbed two packs of Vitamins, went to cash desk we had eye contact she jumped on till to serve me. and conversation goes like this
She: So you back
Me: I should have take your advice to get loyalty card
Me: Laugh and "I usually don't do this but what about we go for a coffee today?
She: Well today I'm busy I'm teaching yoga class but maybe next day (she got very shy because there was a people waiting behind me to pay).
Me: That really cool to teach yoga.
She: 12 something to pay. and we can go for coffee maybe another day.
I gave her my mobile phone number on post it note. I could tell she got out of balance and I love it cause I was felt quite confident in action. said to throw away receipt smiled winked to her , she winked to me and I left it.
Time, Leave (talk to very first girl you see; DONT let her slip by) (5/5) came out of work first girls (actually it was two girls, boom done, funny moment when i stopped girl and apperantly she was with father, but still got the time ) Time, Directions, Leave (went smooth, I would like to point out a lot of people with earphones so I aproach them from front and show in the hand, works out quite well).
Overall this both drills took me to do in 10-15min
Time, Directions, Have you been there?, Leave (6/5) doing later today. - UPDATE
I done extra since I had some sort of mind hiccup with group of two girls, I jumped asked for time, aksed for locatio (tube station) and somehow my brain froze to ask if they been there, I count group of girls as 1 unit ).
P.S I still haven't had any news from hot Yoga teacher that I left my number yesterday.
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