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Lunch drill was awkward for me too especially since I did it past lunch time. It's not even a hard drill to do, you just have to deal with more negative reactions which is good exposure. I try to not to be reactive whether it's a positive or negative but more so on the negative ones. I'll just walk away and smirk or laugh a little when someone gives me an adverse reaction. Usually it's because these people are basket cases so it's not your fault they aren't friendly. Chris has an entire video on girls that are mean to you, check it out.
Arnold day caught me by surprise also. For some reason I thought I was going to creep a bunch of girls out but they just complied to me for the most part. Sounds like you did well yourself.
Have you read all the drills in the AA program? If these were the hardest ones, then shit.. It really is just a matter of time.
@Transform, I think so. Ask around, lots of people were stumped on Arnold. The only reason I was able to do it on my first try is because I read how BIB got past that day. I was doing this: "Hey, how's it going?... good, We're gong to play a game..." and I don't think any drill will make me feel as uncomfortable as I felt trying to force an answer for "lunch time." That reminds me, I'm going to take a couple of weeks off from going to the main Target I go to to do drills. I creeped out a lot of girls.
Arnold was much easier than I thought it would be. I thought that as well, I thought every girl would walk away, not the case. It was easier than lunch time for me. I thought it was creepy because you're saying "Who's your daddy..." lol
I do think so. At the point we're at, if we can do that crazy drills we've done over the past couple of days, we can finish at this point. Maybe 'where's the beach' will be a bit of trouble, but I doubt there's anything left that we can't handle.
Also, take a look at the AA program section of the forum. The dropout rate is enormous. Probably 90% of the logs that are started aren't finished, hell, I quit the first time on day 11, then the second time on day 24. Lots of guys come back though, this is my third try. This program is pretty fucking difficult.
(Tap on shoulder on all)
Hey, I have a question.
Hey, I have a question. Do you know where the beach is?
Hey I have a question. Do you know where the beach is? Flex for 5s.
Hey I have a question. Do you know where the beach is? Flex for 10s.
repeat 4x. total 16
Ok I lied. Day 27 is the hardest for me so far. I could do the first two reps with not too much trouble. Tapping on the shoulder is weird, asking 'hey I have a question and leaving' is weird, but not undoable. The hard part was when I knew I would have to flex for 5 and 10s for reps 4 and 5. I could not do it at all, for the first time I was stumped, it literally felt has hard as an actual approach. I thought about giving up for the night but I remembered about isoreps. I ended up doing iso reps til I felt comfortable enough to reattempt day 27 properly. There was no way I could do it if I hadn't done that. Total, it took me over 3hrs to finish. After I did the first rep of flexing for 5 seconds, it was much easier to continue and I finished within 30 minutes.
I didn't car so much for the reaction of the girls and women I was doing the drill on, but in every flex rep, people around were staring at me. One thing I have to try to stop doing... one girl walked away from me when I said that I had a question, it made me angry, and I said "fuck you' loud enough for her to hear me. I just walked away, I looked back she was going down the escalators and was just staring at me, I know she heard me. I actually cussed at another woman too, but she didn't hear me.
I'm getting much more comfortable stopping girls at the mall, and I even went into some stores to do the drills so...
I remember day 27 being one of my favorite drills. I think you're just taking it too seriously. You're supposed to look like an idiot and embarrass yourself with this one. A lot of girls will find it pretty funny too if you just accept that you're gonna look dumb.
But anyway, good job for doing it and getting this far in the program. Whatever you do, don't stop. Use your momentum to carry you through until you've finished it.
This day is straight up fun. I bagged some bodybuilder competition girl this day cause of this crap. Never lead to nothing but it was a fun memory nonetheless. So was flexing in front of a grandma. It wasn't for her, it was her hot granddaughter but you know. Shit happens.
Hmm. First time I didn't finish drill on the same day. It wasn't because it was too hard. Man. I've been busy looking up housing in the town I'm moving to. Sucks... but most places don't care if you have a small stash of money, they prefer to see that you have a job, and one of the guys that was going to move in with me is backing out on us, he's like me, he has a nice little stash of money but unemployed, he's being a cunt, he's only submitted 7 job applications and he's beginning to feel like he's never going to find work so that's why he's trying to back out on us, 7 applications jesus christ, that's nothing. I've been stressing out about my housing situation.
(Tap on shoulder on all)
Hey, I have a question.
Hey, I have a question. Do you know where I can purchase nerd glasses?
Hey. I have a question. Do you know where I can purchase nerd glasses? How cool are nerd glasses?
Hey I have a question. Do you know where I can purchase nerd glasses? How cool are nerd glasses? Pretty fucking cool huh?
This drill isn't terribly difficult, at least not compared to how I felt about 'the beach.' I got up to the third set. I managed to get in there and say my lines. This drill feels a lot like "suspenders" with the addition of taping on the shoulder. Surprisingly, most girls I asked don't know what nerd glasses are, hell don't know what nerd glasses are, the two times. I'll go out tomorrow to finish day 28 and 29. I'm just going to start week five after. For night time drills, I'll try to go out this Friday or saturday and do days 21 and 30.
You should try and do the challenge for that drill (would you fuck me if I had nerd glasses). I remember when I did that one, my mind was blown because I couldn't believe I had just said that to a stranger. You'd be surprised how (most) girls react to that.
It's also just really funny to say that kind of shit to a random girl.
Man. I went to a Target. I wasn't completely feeling it starting the second part of this out. The first rep, I went up to two girls and did my thing, they looked weirded out. I just left and continued. Most girls were polite but probably weirded out. I did it on this girl dressed sexy that I initially hesitated to do it on, she gave me a good response and looked open to conversation, I dipped it. Then I did it on a girl in a nurse uniform. I started feeling social momentum build up. In hindsight, I should have done a few extra reps just to capitalize on the social momentum.
Super High five. (double high five)
I went to the mall for this one. It wasn't as hard as I thought it would be. I just started it on the first girl I felt like doing it on. She got weirded out and walked past me. At this point in the program, that doesn't bother me anymore. Usually there's lots of young possibly high school aged girls walking around that mall that will comply for these types of drills. I sort of assume older women won't want to comply with this fun stuff since it's way out of THEIR comfort zone, obviously there's nothing wrong with me, THEY are the ones that are boring. Anyways, I hesitated doing it near the kiosks at times... usually if it's just a dialogue drill, I can force myself near people watching, but the shouting 'super' made me feel self conscious. I got rejected a few more times, but not nearly as much as at the other mall I go to. I was spamming the drill and got done pretty quickly. Drills that are weird but quick aren't hard, drills where I know there's a long dialogue make me feel more uncomfortable.
Thoughts coming up as I progress through:
I go to the same 4 Targets and mall all the time. In the back of my mind, I'm beginning to care about what the employees will think of me since they see me doing drills all the time. I have to stop thinking that. I have been able to 'get in there' in the majority of the drills I've done, this is pretty big... on my last AA attempt, I would still find myself walking around for 30 minutes not able to start.
Fuck yea dude awesome work, week 4 is kinda weird haha, I remember the flexing drill was super weird.
But keep doing your thing, employees may take notice, but worse case scenario is never that bad (believe me haha)
I love target though, always attractive women their
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Looks like you're dealing with negative reactions better. Good stuff.
I hit up the same three spots (one is a Target) almost daily so it's very likely that the staff has recognized me by now. It's not something I think about because at the end of the day, what does it matter? Not at all. What are they going to do? Nothing. Keep up the good work and keep getting in there.
Time. Directions. Non sexual compliment. (x6, total 18)
Went out today was feeling shitty about doing the drills again. I took a day off. I wasn't dressed my best. It was harder today to get in there. I did 4 sets at a mall. Asking for the time isn't too terrible. Most girls dismissed my compliment, one got happy I complimented her boots. Got lots of mixed responses to my approach. I have to remember, it's a game of chance. I did the last two sets at a Target. I think I'll completely redo this day, I took too long to do such an easy drill. I'm going to try to finish days 33-36 all in one day, I'll do that on a day that I don't work out. I want to start week 6 drills already. The next four drills actually look a little challenging. I really should stop making excuses for night time drills, I'll have to stop pushing em back, but I also don't want to stall because of 2 drills.
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