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High fives. x10
High fives. x10 (faster than day 14, total 20 high fives)
Christ where to start. Today I drove out to a mall in Burbank. There weren't that many people. Christ the amount of rejections today. I must have gotten rejected like 15-20 times for the first round. It must have taken me like 40 minute to get 10 high fives. I started not giving a fuck little by little eventually I was asking for high fives to almost any girl I saw. I needed one more rep to finish my first set, I saw a girl with blue hair sitting on a bench, I thought to myself "fuck yeah, blue hair, she'll definitely be down to give me a high five" she gave me a high five, it was a weak one and she said 'sorry for the bad high five.' The second set of 10 I was asking girls standing still and there were more people nearby by then so I got done in less than 10 minutes. I don't know the exact times, I'm gong to count it as done.
High fives x10
High fives x10 (all girls standing still x20)
I was going to attempt to do it at the mall, but for some reason, I was getting rejected a lot, I tried like 7 more times and got rejected in all but one. Fuck these unfriendly unhappy people on this part of town. I went to a Target then a Walmart, it was cake. I was just walking through every aisle and high fiving every woman I saw standing still. I high fived a lady then asked her daughter for a high five, she told me "I don't talk to strangers" lol Then I went to walmart and high fived this cute girl with a FC Barcelona beanie on, she took off her head phones and said 'Visca Barca' or something like that, she thought I high fived her because of her beanie, she had a nice ass. Anyways, I kept on, I high fived this chick in the clothing section, she smiled and said it was weird, but I didn't care. I started getting in my head towards the end but finished up.
Performance day 16: 9/10
Man. I was going to do day 17 as well, but I started feeling mentally drained. I only needed 40 high fives, but I must have attempted almost double that. I should really start going out in the early afternoon for one day of drills, then later in the day for the final two. I want to try to do 3 a day, minimum 2, and bare minimum 1 for days that I have to do other things.
Day 17 (ABCs)
Was a terribly easy day. Did finished like in 25 minutes in three different stores. I just started and went almost back to back. I ran into a girl at Ralphs that was curious to what I was dong, I explained to her, I told her I doubt you could do what I just did, she was like 'Yeah I can' I told her to show me, she went up to some random guy and did the A-Z rep. lmao. Then this cute short lady that I did it on asked me what I was doing, I told her, she said 'Oh, you're doing drills' she was rooting me on, this other older woman also engaged me in dialogue(I would have finished the drills faster if it wasn't for the interactions) and told me to keep on doing my thing and high fived me.
Time. Random question- Do you like my shirt?
Time. Random question- Do you like my shirt? I just got it and I can't decide,
Time. Random question- Do you like my shirt? I just got it and I can't decide, I think I'll keep the tag on so I can return it.
The long bullshit dialogue makes me feel uncomfortable. I did it in two different Targets. I did 3 sets in one and 2 in the other. I weirded some women out. On a positive note, I'm doing my drills on cuter girls and I'm doing my drills in front of other people. I felt good about this one today. I was able to execute consistently on cute girls, girls with lots of people around, milfs. Talked to a thin sexy asian girl that I hesitated to approach and I got a bit nervous when she looked at me and I forgot my lines, so I stuttered, she actually laughed when I said "I'm going to keep the tag on.'
The last time I tried the AA program, I didn't believe it was working for me because I rarely felt good at the end of any drill. This time around, I'm killing it. Maybe it's because most of the days are repeats, or maybe it's because I'm pushing myself to do the drills on hotter girls and with people around. I don't know. High fives felt as easy as asking for the time, if going up to girls and telling them they're cute can be as easy as asking for high fives, then I believe this shit is working. +1 social freedom.
Goal for tomorrow: Finish week 3 day time drills, I might go out for day 21, or I might postpone til later.
This shit will be so easy for you/second nature once you transition into actually hitting on girls. This drill is critical to your development.
You can bounce from girl to girl SUPER quickly. Get straight up drunk if you have to the first time. Then, come back and do it again not as drunk, until you can do it easily.
Half the anxiety for me was just getting used to being in bars. I used to feel so out of place, now I feel like every bar is a second home of mine. Just ease into it and recognize you're there to have fun the first time. This drill we be exciting as fuck once you complete it
Count: 109 (30 from cold approach since finding GLL)
1. [Reevaluating due to Coronavirus]
2. Quit nicotine (DONE)
Start partying now even before you go out. Get that energy up.
If you take a cab talk the driver a ton. Make jokes. Get that momentum going.
Once you get in there just grab that first girl you see.
I'm still not use to bars entirely and I remember the first time I went out was bad. I ended up bouncing
Didn't go out to do drills yesterday. I was blindsided with the fact that my sister was moving back with my parents yesterday. I didn't even get a 'hey, start getting your shit together, you have to go tomorrow cuz your sister is moving back in' I thought I would have at least a month more. I'm staying at an uncles house about 45 minutes away sleeping in the living room, this shit feels to real, come March, I'm on my own. Anyways.. I went out today and this is a summary of today:
Day 19 (Bieber)
How's it going?
How's it going? Do you know if there's a hair salon near?
How's it going? Do you know if there's a hair salon near? I'm getting the Justin Bieber haircut.
How's it going? Do you know if there's a hair salon near? I'm getting the Justin Bieber haircut, what's your favorite hairstyle for guys?
This day was hard for me, not so much because of the dialogue but because I did it at the mall. I was pushing myself to stop women walking rather than stationary sets, jesus does it feel difficult to stop a woman and say "Hey, how's it going?" Lots of times they just keep walking, a few girls fully stopped and a couple looked open to engage in conversation, I got most weird looks. Once I opened, the dialogue was cake. The last rep with the gay voice was really hard. I did it to a cute black girl at jc penny, she had fun, she playfully shoved my shoulder and said 'are you messing with me?' It made me feel good. Too bad I didn't run into her in one of the earlier sets, it would have set me up with some nice social momentum. This is another day to repeat.
I might repeat this day. I want to feel more comfortable stopping girls and saying 'hey, how's it going' looks like it's something you could spam while out and about to screen out interested girls.
performance for day 19: 6/10
Time. Do you know where the restroom is?
Time. Do you know where the restroom is? I mean the men's room,
Time. Do you know where the restroom is? I mean the men's room, I hope it's clean. Thanks.
Time. Do you know where the restroom is? I mean the men's room, I hope it's clean. The men's room is usually gross. Thanks.
I'm not sure why this drill is after the more difficult week 3 drills, I'll take the freebie. High fives, abcs and doing bieber in a gay voice are certainly harder. Got the usual responses, women that try to walk away, women that won't even give you the time, and women that laugh because the men's room is usually gross. The hard part was stopping women at the mall, I think I'm getting better at doing that, I want to feel more comfortable dong that. I feel too comfortable at grocery and department stores. I want to feel more comfortable going into the shops at the malls too.
I have to go clean my apartment in my old town and get it ready to turn it in, hopefully I get a nice amount of my deposit back. I'll try to do drills tomorrow. I'm starting week 4.
Hey. Do you know where I can purchase suspenders?
Hey. Do you know where I can purchase suspenders? My mom says I look good in suspenders,
Hey. Do you know where I can purchase suspenders? My mom says I look good in suspenders, Suspenders are a good idea because I've lost so much weight my pants won't even stay up.
It was harder to leave the house than the actual drill. I felt some anxiety. I did it relatively fast, did one set in a grocery store and the rest at a Target. I did hesitate a few times but I forced myself back to do it. I'll give myself a 7 for performance today.
Do you know how to get to sesame street?
x15 x2, total 30
This drill was pretty easy. I went to the mall. I got 5 back to back bad reactions. I did a slight variation to the dialogue since I was stopping women. I did more of a "Hey" .pause. "Do you know how to get to...(said it slowly and paused) this made girls stop on their tracks, then I said "... sesame street?" I got a lot of women look at me weird and walk away, I got lots of neutral responses, and a couple of good reactions. I got one "Yeah, just go that way and take the yellow brick road", I went up to a cute girl ordering a smoothie and tried to convince her that Sesame Street is a new store at the mall. Nothing really interesting happened, few girls loved it, most didn't care, some hated it. I like drills like these, that you spam and are a bit challenging, they build social momentum fast and they really make you 'see' the numbers game in action.
I was spamming the drill pretty quickly, then I noticed a couple of young well dressed guys behind me and they seemed to be talking about me, I had just stopped like 3 girls back to back, it made me unable to open another girl for another set. I have to not do that. I have to stop caring what people nearby think I'm doing.
Tomorrow will be the last time I do a drill that I have already done. That's where I stopped the last time I did the AA program. All the upcoming drills seem absolutely doable for me, even the Arnold day, I feel that if I can get past the Arnold day, I'm set. Last time I didn't think that way. I should be able to finish day 55 within 3 weeks if all goes according to plan. I now have access to college girls, the universities are back in session and the community colleges will follow. I should be able to progress faster there since there's girls everywhere. As soon as I feel I can approach pretty consistently without lots of walking around, I'll start spamming approaches, I want to try to get at least 100-200 before I move back to my college town.
What do you want to your birthday? (repeat 3x or until an acceptable answer is given)
2 sets of 15, total 30
This day was hard at first. I'm doing so much better with getting in there and forcing myself to go up to a girl even if I don't want to. My mentality with the drills is completely different this time around. I see them as only that, drills, I don't care for the reactions, my objective is to perform. I have to remember to keep this mindset going into week 6 and 7 so I don't psyche myself out. Anyways, I weirded out the first five girls I did it to, I was feeling uncomfortable and got according responses. I went to a mall and finished up there. Man, was I feeling amazing at the end. I was going up to hot girls, cute girls, every girl. I was more relaxed and felt that I was saying my lines more confidently. Noticable things: I bitched out on this hot ass lady at walmart, 5'8'' tall, nice body, nice face. I stopped a woman coming out of a woman's clothing store, she seemed into me, she wanted to keep talking, I bailed on her then looked back, she walked up to some other women and they were giggling and pointing at me, they were probably teasing her about me, that made me feel good, they thought I was hitting on her. I only got completely ignored once out of 30, and I saw this sexy girl with red dyed hair and did the drill on her without thinking about it, to my surprise, she was quite amused, and one other lady wanted to keep talking to me... I think I'll try pushing my future interactions where the women seem into me.
I'm only disappointed I didn't continue on to do day 25 today. I know if I had gone back out, I would skip my gym session again. I know AA program is number 1 goal, but I see sexy girls with nice assess and that motivates me to look sexy myself. I can't skip my workouts, haven't gone to the gym since Sunday. I'm doing the AA drills at a good rate so I'll be fine as long as I don't take any days off. Day 25 and 26 are low rep days, I should be able to take care of them tomorrow.
One thing to note. I feel that I'll only be able to approach if I go out to do approach sessions. However, just now, I went to walmart to buy some groceries, I was feeling in an antisocial mood, then I just smiled at some people and had a short conversation with an employee and I notice that social momentum builds faster than before.
I normally don't post until after I do my AA program session for the day. But man.. I'm feeling really apprehensive about doing day 25 and 26. Like I had said before, these drills are completely new, I stopped last time on day 24. I'm about to go out now, it's 2:30, I'll be out til about 7pm. I'm going to head to the valley. I'll see what I report later. Hopefully I'll report that I finished 25 and 26 with no incident.
What's for lunch?
No, really, what's for lunch?
No, seriously, what's for lunch?
I really need to know what is for lunch?
This day was hard to start. I have never done this drill before but I suspected it would be awkward as fuck. It was. I creeped out almost every woman I did it to. It was hard to consistently get in there up until the 5th rep. I could do it much more easily thereafter, but I kept getting women saying "I don't know" then their body language told me to leave. I felt soo uncomfortable today doing the drills today. I was able to execute though. I was told to leave by a few women, some women started ignoring me but I just finished my lines.One girl told me "I have a boyfriend". For the last rep, the woman started walking away and I followed her and finished... fuck that shit I'm not about to open another girl. I did 15 at 3 Targets and 2 grocery stores. After my first 15, I went to a albertsons to do a few more for good measure. I still didn't feel comfortable, I don't think that I ever will feel comfortable talking to people that clearly want me to leave.
We're going to play a game it's called who's your daddy and what does he do.
Are you Ready?
Who's your daddy, and what does he do?
This drill was hard to start but after the first rep, it was easy to keep stopping girls. I went to a university campus for this one. I needed 10, but not every girl complied. Some walked away, a lot of them would say "I have to go" but I would continue the drill and to my surprise, they stayed til I finished asking them 3 times. This happened in about 5 of my reps, I even told one girl after I finished, "I'm surprised you didn't walk away" and left. One girl stayed after and we chatted for a bit. I'm actually surprised that the Arnold drill felt easier to do than 'What's for lunch?" And one girl rolled her eyes when I stopped her by saying "Hey, how's it going" I just said out loud 'what the fuck?" and didn't even bother trying the drill on her.
In my opinion the 24, 25, 26 are probably the hardest in the entire AA program. I'm glad they're over with.
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