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I'll be doing the drills on any and every woman regardless of age, attractiveness. I'll be doing it in a city that won't be my permanent residence for more than a few months. I'll try to follow Mr. Q's advice and be done with it as quickly as possible, but my target is to finish up the week 7 drills by March 21st, so I'll begin to do multiple drills per day when I move to LA, and I'll try to add an approach at the end of the day's session of drills.
Time. x 5
It was really easy. I did it in less than 3 minutes at Walmart. I wanted to go on to day 5, but I thought I need to use the easy drills to make it into a habit. I’ll go out tomorrow for day 5.
Time x5 faster.
I didn't time myself. I went to a different Walmart. I finished the 10 reps in maybe 7 minutes. I felt no anxiety. Though I didn't feel comfortable asking for the time in front of someone I've already asked for the time. Tomorrow's drill should be easy. I remember I began to feel heavy adversity on day 8, for 'do you like it' the last time I tried the AA program. But let's look at what's in front of me now. My target time for day 6 is 15 minutes or less.
Let's look at what's on my plate now is how I'm tackling the AA program also and I seem to be doing alright. I'm not reading any future drills ahead of time, so not to start overthinking and chance psyching myself out before I get to them. A day at a time.
Hope you killed day 6.
@Transform, in my case, I've gone up to week 4 so I know what to expect. That's true. A day at a time.
The last time I tried the AA program I didn't quite have a goal for doing it other than being able to talk to girls, now this is what I envision myself doing: I want to be able to look a girl in the eye that I want and tell her that I like her, tell her that I think she's sexy, that I want her and I want her to know that I don't care what she thinks about me telling her that, and I don't care that she doesn't think the same about me. Forget getting laid for now, how can you get laid if I can't even let girls know I want to fuck them?
Day 6 A. 1/5/2017
I got up late then went to run some errands. I was planning on going out to do day 6 before work, but I left my house 40 minutes before I had to be home to get ready for work. I drove to the mall and only had about 20 minutes to do as much as I could. This drill finally made me feel a small amount of anxiety. I did 4 sets in about 15 minutes, I was close to my target time, but I was shy on the fifth set. I got neutral responses. I pussied out on this milf standing in the checkout line, she was really hot. Then I went into the mall and pussied out on a few women, it's harder to try to stop women. I used more time than I needed because women were being friendly trying to give me directions, on the third set I interrupted the girls and asked "have you been there?" then dipped mid sentence because I was low on time. I want to try to focus on being present while doing the drills, I'll try to observe what the girls are doing and I'll try to post on this log something I noticed of at least one girl. A girl walking my way with her friend made strong eye contact with me and held it, I'll have to make a habit of approaching those girls since that rarely happens. I would imagine that if one approached every girl that held eye contact or smiled at you, you would get laid more with less approaches.
Edit: I reread my old AA log on my old account. It's night and day for my description of these first drills. On my last log, I was appologizing to some women after I asked for the time and I took forever to do day 6.
I bummed it today. I got off work at 1pm and bummed it at my house til 9pm. I almost rationalized not going at all. I decided to go out and do just one rep of asking for the time to finish my last set of day 6. I ended up finishing day 6 and 2 sets of day 7, but there weren't many people around.
Compared to yesterday, I felt zero anxiety. Things I noticed today: Women don't notice that you're asking them directions to some random ass business in the middle of the make up aisle at Walmart, women don't notice that you went out of your way to ask them time, directions and have you been there in the middle of the clothing section. I had high anxiety the very first time I tried this drill last summer. I asked a woman for the time twice. I asked a woman near a woman that I had previously asked, she didn't even notice. I'll aim to finish day 7 tomorrow all in one go.
Im restarting my 2nd real attempt tomorrow, 1st time my mistake was i was literally trying to do drills as fast as possible like its a contest, now i need to measure if i actually have less anxiety/feel good about drills
Nothing is of value until it is finished - Genghis Khan
"The guys that repeat drills until they achieve comfort will be the same guys that will be thrusting their penis in and out of multiple vaginas in the near future. Simply "getting it over with" doesn't get you better. Just "saying you did it" certainly doesn't either". - Chris Deoudes
Time.(get in there)
Time. Directions. Have you been there?
Worked a full shift, got off later in the day, I almost didn't go out again. Geez. Can't wait to have the drills as my only priority, at least for a few weeks. I still have to go to the gym, and it's already 10:30, and I'll have to be up at 5 tomorrow morning for work. Interesting day today. I felt quite anxious. I kept skipping women. I did it just fine yesterday and felt really good about it and felt really present in every interaction, I even bantered with some women. I think I got a string of neutral and stand offish reactions today and that threw me off. My thoughts snowballed out of control and I began to feel paranoid that people 'were onto me.' I began to to skip old women and only look for cute girls, I have to not do that, it allows me to rationalize skipping cuter girls as well and it kills off social momentum because I start 'thinking' about what I'm doing. I notice I hesitate to do drills on girls in crowded aisles. I didn't smile as much today, I felt more tense, maybe that's why the responses weren't as pleasant. I won't redo the day because I felt fine yesterday and Day 8 is essentially the same as day 7. I approached a real cutie. She was probably 16-17 years old upon coming closer. She looked all shy, she did her best to give me directions to In-N-Out. I just left and said thanks. I'm not quite sure what I'll do. I'll try to interact a bit with women that seem friendly, I'll also try to just say my lines and leave mid sentence so I purposefully make women think I'm up to something. That thought is unsettling for me.
Fuck their reactions, just focus on the drill like your life depends on it. Trust me, if you take it seriously you will stop giving a fuck about reactions and just want to do them. The amount of girls I have hugged and spun around, that had fear in their eyes is hilarious...yet I was so desperate to just get the drill done, I did not care (outside of sexual harassment obviously).
So what is your priority? Is it to complete the drill or is it to observe/reflect on responses that don't even matter? Are you trying to kill AA or are you trying to get affirmation? A or B, ganso?
What do you mean by trying to get affirmation? I guess if I have to reflect, I got mainly good responses for day 6, and neutral standoffish responses for day 7 which simply reaffirms the randomness of all of this.
How many days did you redo? Some guys say that redoing days til you have an acceptable performance is ideal, but you're killing it. I don't remember seeing if you redid days or not.
Passed Day 8 with flying colors. Felt absolutely comfortable. On some of the girls I approached for the time, I could see their initial response to me and I would start to think 'fucking great, I picked a psycho.' Only two girls got noticeably creeped out, it made it feel awkward, but I didn't give a shit.
My performance: 8/10
I rarely skipped any women that I would have liked to talk. I didn't feel nervous at all in any of my interactions. I didn't let bad reactions bother me. I felt great at the end of the day, I did a bonus rep, I saw two women walking towards the store on my way out to my car, one of the women was dressed quite sexy, I stopped them and told her she looked really good. I should have said, "You look sexy" since it's what I was actually thinking in my head, that would have sounded more natural than saying what I said. Either way, she didn't look creeped out, rather she looked shocked, and I could tell I brightened up her day.
Onto day 9.
Edit: I'm going over lots of guys AA logs. I went over BIB's last night. God damn, he looks like a completely different person today than he did in his vlogs. I read ahead to see the drills in the future, the drills don't seem as hard to do when I read them as when I first looked at them. Certain ones make my blood pressure rise just by thinking that I'll have to do it. Also, I couldn't find week 8, I just might end up going into week 8 after all.
Affirmation as in you are looking for good responses or letting their responses dictate how you feel ( I know we all do it). For the sake of beating AA, you basically have to stop doing that and just do the drills. How she reacts doesn't matter, just do the drill and get out.
Week 8 is on a web archive. Can find it easily.
No, I actually did not repeat any days. I just kept on going. I am of the belief that it transfers. Like at first I didn't do any night drills, I went out at night out of nowhere, and I was basically the same annoying pervert, probably even worse under the cover of night. Not sure if this applies to everyone, but for me, my AA+anxiety is basically non-existent everywhere. IE I have walked into fucking small takeaway shops, people in line, and spun girls around while they are ordering food.
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