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This is the 2nd time I'm attempting this, first time got into a relationship pretty comfortable and life was fun. Now no more GF, so let's go for a new start.
As of yestarday, I've also gone bald, since I was way too attached to my hair, It actually took 45 mins of a friend convincing me of the self help benefits of doing this. Now or never, like they say. I went full mold bald and it was a thing that was scaring me for a long time. I feel pretty chill and relaxed now, no more worrying about how my hair looks haha.
So yea, let's start rolling the drills. As of myself, I have different social circles at the moment, most of them are concentrated on business, but I still have some degree of sexual anxiety of approaching a girl with my clear intentions. As of my dating life, it's been 1 girl per month in this year on average, but most of them aren't girls that I could point as my potential GF. So, I'm doing this to build up the guts to start approaching, dating and finding a good girl for myself.
Will shoot some new tinder photos as well this week, I'll add a dog too lol, saw a thread about tinder pics with dogs, that go well.
Will report back with today's drills, day 4 to be accurate. I'll try to approach only women who I find beautiful, which scares me a bit too be honest.
Day 7 and day 8 done today. Talked to 31 chicks. Did day 5 and 6 yesterday.
Recovering my balls slowly, hell yea!
I actually practiced the "get in there" mental attitude, because a few girls passed and I said fuck it, and run after them to ask the time! Fuck yea!
Done day 7 in like 45 minutes, day 8 in 29 minutes.
I'm slowly figuring out how programmed I was to care about everyone before doing anything on my own, although I do a lot of things on my own, I do them anxious, thinking too much about things. This approach program slowly begins to reveal parts of myself that I didn't know about.
I watched a lot of porn lately, mostly once per day, but slowly cutting it off. Determined to do stuff. I'm thinking that by doing 2 days in 1 day, will get me to day 46 sooner than ever. I'm a bit scared tho haha.
About Tinder, I'm trying different photos at the moment to see which convert better. Also put one with a dog, but didn't have the desired conversion.
I'll be updating this as much as possible. Please feedback me if you have any, will gladly appreciate it.
Done Day 10 in the morning and day 11 in the evening. Awesome days!
Finally feeling satisfaction in my life, that I'm doing something good on this aspect.
Slowly getting more and more into the mindset of not seeking reactions, but doing just the drills.
I've ended the drills going up to a chick that was talking on the phone, stopping her while running, asking about the time, then about the cellphone shop, then about what model it had and if she liked it.
It was a bit weird asking about the model out of nowhere, but whatever, I did it. Some girls didn't answered so I repeated the drills a bit.
I just saw a smoking hot 1.80+ blonde slim chick, going towards a church. I went after her, I waited for her to get some candles and waited between her and the church. Once she finished shopping, I got in there, asked my questions and left. She was receptive. One of the most awesome girls I've talked too, beautiful and stunning, more like a porn star type. It was weird asking for a smartphone store and what model she had in front of the church, but hell, I did it.
I was thinking at doing 5 missions per day in the weekend, but I think I'll keep this pace. Can't wait to start approaching for good and bring home some cuties.
I'm an expert watch stopper now, can stop any girl lol.
Overall, cutting the porn and masturbation and also pushing hard at the gym. Life is going well !
I'm a little afraid of the moment when I run into the same girl from a previous day. I'll probably be considered a weirdo and trying to accept that is a bit hard.
Day 14 was hard as fuck. A lot of bad reactions, few good ones. Don't know why, but getting a high five is a bit weird here. Felt weird doing it but whatever, went through it.
The first time it took like 2 hours to get 20 high fives.
Then I did Day 15, Day 16, Day 17 one after another, caught some social momentum. Felt awesome doing Day 17, with the ABCDEFG stuff. When I started the program, I saw this missions and said that fuck, this will be hard and near IMPOSSIBLE TO do, but here I am doing this stuff easy as fuck.
Had a lot of good reactions. For some weird reasons, the chicks listened carefully when I said the alphabet, but got weird previous at the high fives.
Also repeated to a girl who was smoking the alphabet and tried to high five her after but she denied it, just ignoring me. Felt comfortable getting ignored by some 3-4 girls. Who knows, maybe they were sad.
Also made up the courage and went to a group of 5 girls to high five them, which was pretty cool. One offered the number of a girl lol.
Also made the courage to go to a chick who was near her 20 girls group and said the alphabet. The girls laughed a bit and I felt awesome. Also did that after doing the alphabet to some girls that SAW ME doing it again.
Got a bit over that fear of getting seen by other girls. Also high fived twice some girls but they were ok.
Damn! Getting good.
Also repeated the alphabet onto a girl (picture below) until she left, three times. I laughed hard the 3rd time, had fun doing the alphabet drill.
Also pushed myself to go to the hot ones hehe.
Most of the (hot) girls are nice to me.
Keep pushing through the program, even tho you don't feel it sometimes and it's hard as fuck.
Does who care, don't mind and does who mind, don't matter
Fuck, did day 21 on saturday and finished week 3, it was a bit awwkard at fast, did it in three rounds, while going to the bathroom.
Afterwards, skipped day 22 because we don't have sesame street here or any similar joke.
Did day 23, 24, 25, 26 in one evening and it felt awesome, especially the birthday ones, felt king after !
A lot of good responses as well, I went indirect on a girl and did basic guy game, but she was leaving country and said that it wasn't worth it. Anyways, back to the program.
I actually could approach girl after girl, even if they are seeing me, which felt good, because a few posts back I couldn't do that. Also approached a lot of group of girls, even with their mother, something that I couldn't do at the beginning of the program.
A few weeks back, I did 3 high fives in 2 hours and 30 minutes the first time, now I did the super high fives mission in like 10 minutes, also on hot girls. Actually a very hot one had her smartphone in one hand and only high fived, then I run after her and said no no, you're giving me super high.
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