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Well this is day 2, as I found this site yesterday, and decided to do day 1 and day 2 all in one go today. Listened to the first day's audio and signed the petition/started this journal, as well as introduced my self.
Listened to day 2's audio and bookmarked this log.
Excited but shitting myself already. Thinking about how I am going to go around asking girls the time all in the same shopping center without being seen and looking weird.
Did not go out today, but changed from a paid website to Plentyoffish. Followed Rooster's guide to the T. Messaged a few girls. Still not sure about it though, they are all looking for "a relationship" apparently.
Today I went in with some sort of focus, slowly asked 5 for the time, loitered a little and then asked another 5 for the time. The last 3 I did really quickly, without any sort of anxiety because I just wanted to go home lol. Whoever crossed my path I just talked to. I ended up actually asking 12 girls for the time, because I asked another 2 for fun on my way out of the shops.
All were receptive but one in particular seemed interested. I think I could have continued the convo with her easily.
I messaged more girls on POF, but no replies yet.
I am a little excited and obviously nervous about tomorrow. My biggest issue is finding the places to go to.
Woke up excited again. I could not finish the task completely. I kept on stuttering or mumbling for some reason, when it got to the asking for directions and "have you been there" parts. Especially the have you been there part.
Asked 4 girls what the time is. Asked 2 girls for directions, without asking for the time. Asked 1 girl the time and for directions. Only once did I manage to ask for the time, directions then a question. I said hi to another two girls just randomly as I headed home disappointed. Spoke to 10 girls in total, but only really did 1 proper set out of 5.
Finished all of the remaining 4 sets in one day. Had some bad reactions/suspicious looks.
One woman kept on trying to keep on walking, but I still managed to ask her if she had been there, only for her to look at me in a weird way and say no. We were right in front of the information desk where they give directions to places lol.
I got two extremely positive responses, where I thought straight away it was on, only for one to tell me she was married in the middle of the conversation, and another one all of a sudden turn around and ask her, what I presume, her boyfriend, where the shops were. She even brushed me on my arm and stood there for a bit as she turned around to ask him. Confusing shit. I was so embarrassed when he was directing me and they started walking behind me in the same direction.
POF I actually got a message from a woman first. I presume she is DTF. I left the last message as "which part of Melb are you from" and haven't logged back in yet. Nervous as hell.
What I have learnt. I am a pussy. I am very far behind the ball game, because today was not easy and now a girl is DTF on POF and I am nervous as fuck. I do also have times of courage.
Once I finished my drills, I just went straight home. Even though I saw a few hot girls on their own, after the drills were done I did not feel like approaching them or even asking for the time. Just wanted to go home.
Wow, just wow. Firstly I called one of the girls a "drainer" but I put a smile at the end, but I think she got offended and hasn't replied. MOVING ON - two absolute stunners have replied to me. My pics are absolutely screening pics taken from Chris' advice not Roosters. I have abs showing, I am sort of pouting in another etc etc
One of them replied "lets talk better" which I am presuming means the phone. I have wet the bed. Yes guys I am a pussy, but right now I am a happy pussy. I will update on what happens, for history's sake, if I ever do transform into a sex machine.
I was dreading today, knowing it was same as day 6. Questions just feel weird. That is outcome dependent thinking I guess.
First girl I saw, was in line to buy a coffee, her hands were full, but I did not care. I finished the entire first set in record time.
On the second set, I literally started to jog after a girl and say "hey blondie, blondie" until she turned around. I got two bad responses with this set, that deflated me.
One woman got these wide eyes, like I am going to kill her, and said no she hasn't got the time. Another girl assumed I was hitting on her and was walking away, but I had to get it done, so I chased after her and in front of everyone said "wait, wait, wait one sec ---BUT HAVE YOU BEEN THERE?" lol. She sort of looked at me with half a smirk and kept on walking.
Finished 2 sets out of five.
POF - I got my first ever number. Going to call her within 36 hours after memorizing the phone-call blueprint.
Things I have learnt. 1) I now chase after girls by jogging up to them. 2) Most girls aren't that hot up close when you look at their faces. They just dress well, and make their hair attractive.
This is going to sound weird, but it is big for me. Today I had a girl literally, not figuratively, grinning from ear to ear while looking at me at the gym. Her bloody teeth were showing. She was on an epileptical while I was using a bike in front of her. Once I finished, about 10 minutes later, I looked back and she did it again, I just smiled back but people were looking and I just got shy and looked down and walked out. Then on the way out, another girl first looked at my chest, then we made eye contact and we smiled at each other. In my head I am like, What.Tha.Fuk is going on. It is like they have senses.
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