TOPIC: George gets kicked out of ANOTHER frickin place, but soldiers on

So, that was friday night. Over the weekend, I did some other things...


POF date: catfish. I hate the internet. excused myself after like 20min. Seems like the only girls who don't flake are secretly both ugly and socially retarded.


Out with a new friend to a beer tasting: So, since I'm new here, a work buddy extended an invite to me to go to a beer tasting with him and some people, mostly his siblings and their plus ones.


Dude has best style in my office. Dunno about anything else. But, he is not a loser.

I went and we had fun. Main reason I'm posting about it here is that we picked up this rando drunk blonde along the way and she went with us for a while. She would not stop giving me the bedroom eyes, so I touched her waist/hair and stuff like that. Eventually we found her friends and I flirted with one of them as well.

It ends there though. I learned a lot. Mainly, that I need to be moving things forward even with no reactions from the girls. I was touching them a little bit and waiting for a response, but they just sort of didn't do anything physical, they just let me get really close and maintain eye contact.

I should have moved one of them to sit down somewhere and make out/heat her up, but I didn't. Now I see why being aggressive is so important. Partly, I didn't want my new friend to judge me for doing stuff with a drunk girl, so I wasn't sure if I should proceed.

That unsureness is all it took. Eventually both girls sobered up enough to no longer be into me. Lesson learned.

I also got kinda drunk later and it was raining, so by the end of the night I looked and felt pretty shitty. Did not go out alone afterwords to do day 30. I'm gonna have like 3 weeks of club drills built up for one weekend....

Then today, I did

Day 34 (Banana phone)




a little scary at first, but social momentum took care of it. Is that cheating?

I think just about everyone here has been confronted by some sort of white knight. I don't know where you live but in some places, especially liberal blue states, the girls have become so entitled that a guy saying hi is considered harassment, especially if he isn't her type.

This isn't Nottingham, at least not yet so you cannot get arrested or finned for it. What I did was rotate 2-4 locations so that way I wasn't at the same place every day.

Also be wary of which girls you approach: a chubby girl with a scowl on her face is looking to get offended.

You can make yourself more "legit" by grabbing some items or taking the time to look at some shirts.

Then, you "accidently" saw this girl while you were looking at shirts and you had to say hii and the rest of your drill.

That and rotate like Resurrection said.

damn dude, fuck target. was it an employee that approached you? have you done drills there multiple times?

This shouldnt be happening. Sign up for a training.

All,

Thanks for the tips. I already do a fuckton of rotation (especially since the first time I got caught, I'm so paranoid I practically go someplace new every time, and I'm trying to save my local area for the end so I don't get a rep)

Doesn't matter. But I think I know why I got caught both times. I talked to too many girls in too confined of a space, and they were not the right types.

It's like resurrection said. Basically I really hold myself accountable to get in there. I approach people BECAUSE they intimidate me, to help me get over my AA. So I sometimes talk to people putting up obvious red flags. Before I got kicked out the first time, I even talked to people who blatantly were trying to get out of the interaction with me. Very pushy, but it was for my own self-challenge.

Now I'm beginning to understand. First group that reported me to security was a trio of preteen girls who were super awkward to talk to and kinda fugly. This time, it was an old lady that I asked the time of, and she gave it to me while scurrying away. Later she saw me asking the same information of someone else (a SUPER friendly very sexy older lady) and timidly led the security guard to me. Even the security guard wasn't that concerned, she just said "You know, if you continue to harass our guests, I would have to ask you to leave..."

I guess I should shift focus towards girls I would actually hit on. That will happen anyway since week 6 is coming up.


Ronin, I have always thought about training with you. But now is not the right time I don't think. I would rather do it at a time when I am awesome already and we have this great synergy that catapults us both even higher in skill, like BIB and NSA's texas weekend. Plus I don't wanna drop a stack of cash when your personalized training program for me would just consist of stuff I already know I need to do, like "finish the AA program" and "approach x number of girls".


How about this: To verify that I'm not doing something horribly wrong, I will try and capture some infield footage soon for you guys to watch.

Yeah you're just running into some weird people man. Do you have some horrible facial deformity? You're wearing pants, right? I don't think it's your fault, unless your dick is hanging out or something.

Yeah you're just running into some weird people man. Do you have some horrible facial deformity? You're wearing pants, right? I don't think it's your fault, unless your dick is hanging out or something.

Lol, just to prove it to you, here. I'm going out to do drills right now.

You may notice 3 things:

lack of freaky-deaky face.

Presence of panterinos.

firm confinement of peenor inside said panterinos.



there's some better pics of me much earlier in this thread.

Yeah, too stuck-up looking. Def hang your dick out a little

On a more serious note, don't approach with that serious expression. You probably know that and are being more friendly and smiling but just in case.
Other than that I'd say perhaps pushing yourself to approach harder cases is getting in the way of having enough calibration to know when you're creeping people out.

Day 35 (You mad bro?)
complete!



Main points:

--easy day? at first. afraid of malls still

--Milfs and moms and underage girls, NOT girls 18-26. where to find?

--am I in too deep? look suspicious everywhere? Am I going backwards? Nervous because of normal paranoia from being kicked out, or truly behind and need to repeat?





I think I might repeat some days in the future. But I won't right now. I want to get to week 6 so that it legitimizes what I am doing, so people actually know I am doing something benign and wont report me to security (i.e, "oh, its just a douchey guy flirting with girls" vs. "what the fuck is that guy doing? is he some kind of troublemaker or a fucking serial killer??" ). Once I get that confidence I think I will repeat some of week 4. Also, I don't want to run out of girls around where I live or develop a rep.

let me emphasize: I am super nervous about consequences at this point. Getting in trouble. I do not give a shit about how hot a girl is before I approach. At this point, approaching ANY human being is equally nerve racking to me because I'm thinking about who might see and get suspicious.

And mokele: thanks. I actually don't smile, or probably not enough anyway. I guess I'm trying to be cooler and more masculine. I dunno. "calibrated" is a good word to describe what I don't really have. I don't consider myself in tune with the unwritten rules of what is socially acceptable.


and as for the infield video: "I forgot!"

which as we all know, is girlspeak for "I didn't want to do it!"

I will get footage I promise I just have enough nerves going as it is.