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I always offer alcohol to the chick first thing first.
If she pulls off some time wasting shit like that 3 hr make out shit on my bed I just go to last resort and truly screen them out if I don't feel like wasting my time on that, only if I'm willing to never see her again. This is what worked for me (sometimes)
I would tell her "hey, you're getting me really aroused" she would say "really?" Or some other shit. Then I take my pants off like it's no big deal, non chalantly, then put her hand on my bulge over my underwear. If she resists that shit then she can gtfo the house. Or I just skip that and take off my underwear too and I start jerking off right next to her. If she gets "creeped out" or whatever then she can fuckin leave who cares don't waste my time. If she's still there then while jerking off I tell her "help me , or I need ur help" then put her hand on my dick.
In or out mentality. I kinda also come from the point of view of making her feel guilty for making me aroused.
At this point if she's resisting and being prude then I would kick her out if I'm just trying to get laid. (If it's some dating shit then different story)
Btw this only worked for me only like half the time but it did save me a lot of time also.
Also, while your making out with the chick make sure ur rubbing her pussy/clit through her pants or whatever she got on, get her wet
She was not very hot, maybe a 5. ehh.... she had really great tits and ass but a much uglier face than in her pics.
True to my word, and as tired of this shit as I am, I just started getting naked when she was cuddling with me. That did it.
AND HEALTHYADDA: I HAD A TINY CUT ON MY DICK FROM SHAVING. I DID IT ANYWAY. YOU ARE NOT CURSED. plus, you know, I'm still a little sick.
Since she was so cuddly I kinda assumed she was inexperienced... but on the way home she told me she had probably slept with 100 guys in her life. This girl was barely legal btw. She said we only didn't fuck because she had some kind of doctor's exam down there a few weeks ago to make sure she wasn't pregnant.
On the way back I got subway and did one rep of the fabled DAY 46
on a very cute girl sitting in the corner. The subway girl was also very hot, and was throwing me all kinds of IOI's / giggling at me all over, I should have just done the drill on her but I was thinking it would make it awkward if I needed to go back to that subway again. The corner girl was just a recluse and a dud. Still, if the last few weeks of telling girls how cute they are has taught me anything, it's that girls who are attractive ARE interested in me. Sometimes, guys like us go through life thinking that we are fundamentally broken in some hidden way and that hot girls cannot like us.
Also, if it's not very clear by now, my flake rate from online has PLUMMETED recently since I started screening really hard / not caring at all any more.knock on wood.
Most people in this world don't have much control over their lives, do they?
jesus dude. run away from the "i may be pregnant" girl, LOL. far, far away.
" I was thinking it would make it awkward" Yeah I've used this excuse a million times to pussy out on girls. Thing is, even when you see the girl again, it's NEVER awkward. EVER.
The last 2 months I've only hit on girls right outside my apartment/in my small local grocery store, which means I'm now at the point where almost every single day when I go out, I see a girl I've already hit on. Literally has never once been awkward. You just gotta force yourself to talk to girls and not worry about if it'll be awkward later.
Most people in this world are animals running purely on instinct, who feel like "victims of circumstance" (as in, "I can't control what happens to me, life is random"). You know what
is? It describes 99% of people.
jesus dude. run away from the "i may be pregnant" girl, LOL. far, far away.
Yeah, the longer I think about it, the more likely I think I'm not gonna see her again. Not to mention I was confronted with girls who were much hotter and interested in me like half an hour later, at nighttime on a sunday in a frickin subway.
Now my imagination is running wild with the minuscule chance that I could have gotten something from her through the cut on my dick. I know I'm just being paranoid, plus that would totally undercut what I'm tryin to say to healthyadda.
Also how the heck do you remember all the girls you've hit on? I forget the faces of the girls I do drills on like, minutes later.
Jeez it's quiet around here... I've missed a few days and I'm not even off the first page.
Anyway, I experienced some setbacks this week. I masturbated to porn, and broke the longest clean streak I've ever had: 4 months. I was deeply disappointed. And worried about my life. I can only go on being successful like this if I don't get stuck endlessly watching porn like I used to.
But I've developed some pretty positive habits after the past 4 months, and my urges are lesser now. After talking to some internet people, there's nothing left to do but get back on and start again.
Beating it to porn like 6 times drained my will to do drills the other day, and I also had some errands to do early this week. But today, I did 4 more reps of day 46.
It's getting easier guys: i think I can do this. God it is so liberating to know that for the rest of my life, even If i get no farther in this program, I will at least be able to hit on girls when I want to. I have NEVER had that.
And I'm obviously not stopping, I'm going down to my old college this weekend and I'm gonna start week 7 while I'm down there. Next few days are for the rest of day 46 and some real approaches!
I did 2 reps of day 46 on the weekend and 3 today.
I was busy, and am still sick.
This shit took me down way longer than expected, my tonsils have nasty little spots all over em. I got out tonight because I am worried I will get rusty and start to lose progress. I think rogerroger is right, It will be till mid-week 7 that I actually get comfortable doing reps and approaches on this level.
I should do the rest of this day all in one go, so I can get some social momentum and really feel comfortable. I think I hit on two underage girls today, got my worst reaction yet from the mom I just remember, that shit is something most guys are too afraid to do, before and after.
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