TOPIC: George gets kicked out of ANOTHER frickin place, but soldiers on

I re-did drills many many times.

Do it.

Ok. There is a lot of info coming here, so buckle up.

First, my responses to you guys...


@jazzyjab-- First of all dude, I guess it's flattering to hear someone say that I don't look like I'm suffering from acne, so thanks I guess. But I super am. I am actually on a slew of meds for it right now and have been dealing with it for years. My face is finally clear ish most days, but I still have body acne that makes me self conscious about going shirtless. I've been dealing with it for a long-ass time, time to end it.

And I actually posted in Jstone's approach thread about that very article. Couple of the guys here said they experienced no sexual side effects. My guess is that it's a women only issue, the fact that accutaine shuts down oil glands might have to do with girls not being able to get as wet.



@ajax-- thanks. Your compliment means a lot especially since you were super hard to impress with online dating pics.

Mokele and dc7, thanks. Its good to have the vets weigh in, it makes me feel more important. lol.

I'm probably gonna get some of my shit tailored, sounds like a good idea.


and Rousseau... damn it. You've consigned me to my fate. fuck.

I'd better be fucking drowning in pussy after this I don't wanna actually do it over again

BUT HANG ONTO YOUR BUTTS, CAUSE WE DOING IT AGAIN

days 4, 5 and 6.

Did them easily in a day with time left over. I have a date tonight that I'm pretty sure won't end in a flake (please god), so that's why I'm not still out there right now.

So, these are basically so trivial at this point that no individual approach makes me nervous. Hot honey bunny or random old lady, I have the same amount of AA. completely none.

But if I said I had no anxiety, I would by lying.

It's been replaced with a fear of being caught. No approach makes me nervous, but the idea of going out to do this fills me with a general sort of dread. I don't wanna get caught again.

the only girls I puss out on talking to these days... are the ones who might have been in earshot of the last girl I talked to. Hotness does not matter for anxiety. I felt this way doing week 5 drills too, but going back to something so easy really helped me see.

I think my situation is best exemplified by something that happened today during my repeat--I went through a grocery store talking to every girl I wanted to. Did more reps in one location than I ever have before, in no time at all. Then I approached a lady and asked her for the time, and she said "are you serious? you already asked me this in the parking lot. You're kinda freaking me out." At this, I got so scared I left immediately and went home, and did my last two reps on girls walking around my building.


Does anyone have a way to become less afraid of this? I guess I've got the good kid syndrome, and I'm scared of repercussions from law enforcement. I can see this preventing me from following chris's rule of do what you want.




Its not just with girls either. For instance, I slept in my car a few days ago because of that alarm, and I was irrationally scared that a cop would come up and talk to me about it. Normally I wouldn't care but I'm paranoid now. Also another time recently, I had some food I wanted to get rid of. I would have just left it in the parking deck somewhere (who gives a fuck right?) But I had this sinking feeling that someone would see and reprimand me for it. This is not how an anxiety-free man lives.


I am a little scared of doing the first part of the program over, because if I get caught again, it might fill me with so much fear that I will be worse off.

Lastly... I had a date yesterday that was NOT a catfish. She was a cute curvy girl with awesome tits and tasty pouty lips. She was super open to me touching her right away, and seemed to like pretty much everything I liked, so we hit it off. we went back to my place after getting drinks to watch a show we both liked, and I made out with her a bunch. But she really stuck to her guns. She would not go any farther with me and could not be convinced otherwise no matter how many times I tried getting more physical. I'm not sure if we will hang out again, she seemed a little surprised by my advances, somehow.

I think I need some help or advice with dealing with LMR. I've slept with 3 girls in my life, but over the course of my college career, I got another 3-4 into bed with me half dressed. Then they refuse to go further. Back then I didn't know about chris's persistence thing, where there is a difference between the no that says "not yet" and the no that says "you're a creep and I'm leaving." Obviously I'm more persistent now but that didn't really help. What else should I do?

case in point. it just happened again.

girl did NOT flake. she came STRAIGHT to my place (so she knew what was up).

we made out, heated up, clothes came off. MUCH farther than the last girl, I was enjoying her nipples, she was grinding on me, I was rubbing her ass, then when I took her hand and put it on my crotch (chris's move) she said "i can't do this blah blah blah, not that type of girl," clothes awkwardly went back on and she left.

I mean, how do I respond to that? I was just kinda stunned, and tried to keep making out with her but she kept blocking me and then telling me she felt bad, like she was expecting something from ME.

Didn't give her a hug on the way out.

In other news i've had two girls over to my place in two days for makeouts and funtime, but no sex, which is a pretty big deal to me but like nothing to everyone else here. Both these girls were from the internet by the way.

Getting women back to your place and them not putting out is a part of 'the game' so to speak.

For every girl that you get back to your place, you're 1 girl closer to getting laid.

Overtime, it will happen less often because you will become more upfront and honest with your intentions.

These days, if a girl comes into my apartment, sbe is most definitely getting the dick.

But In 2015, I remember going on tons of dates and not getting pussy. In July of 2015, I had 22 cold approach dates in a row that didnt end in sex. Very frustrating. That brings back some intense memories lol. I was freaking the fuck out on the forum haha.


Btw. Dont forget to smile and be happy when you're doing these drills. Always look your best while doing them too.

Rousseau is right. The girls I get now are dtf. No resistance, no games. They know what I'm about from the beginning. If they're coming over, they're getting fucked by your daddy.

Rousseau wrote: Getting women back to your place and them not putting out is a part of 'the game' so to speak.

For every girl that you get back to your place, you're 1 girl closer to getting laid.

Overtime, it will happen less often because you will become more upfront and honest with your intentions.

These days, if a girl comes into my apartment, sbe is most definitely getting the dick.

But In 2015, I remember going on tons of dates and not getting pussy. In July of 2015, I had 22 cold approach dates in a row that didnt end in sex. Very frustrating. That brings back some intense memories lol. I was freaking the fuck out on the forum haha.


Btw. Dont forget to smile and be happy when you're doing these drills. Always look your best while doing them too.

Do you mind linking to the posts you're talking about? I was reading through your field report log and it actually motivated me to get my ass in gear yesterday after a long slump. But reading about your downtimes would be helpful/motivating too. This shit is a grind.

www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/approach...andom-stuff?start=96

Here's one. I bitch and complain a lot in this one. In 2015, I was seriously affected by flakes, girls not putting out, and slumps in general. I go on numerous rants and negative diatribes. July and November in particular were harsh months.

These things still bother me, but not nearly as much as before. It's all part of the game. You learn how to deal with this bullshit better as well, for example things to say and do that screen's girls out, etc.

Rousseau wrote: www.goodlookingloser.com/forums/approach...andom-stuff?start=96

Here's one. I bitch and complain a lot in this one. In 2015, I was seriously affected by flakes, girls not putting out, and slumps in general. I go on numerous rants and negative diatribes. July and November in particular were harsh months.

These things still bother me, but not nearly as much as before. It's all part of the game. You learn how to deal with this bullshit better as well, for example things to say and do that screen's girls out, etc.

Thanks brother. This is really helpful.

@MrVolcano
About the accutane...I have (maybe) had some sexual sides...around 2-3 months in (4 months in now) my dick was super dry - like I had to moisturize it twice a day. And I started have trouble getting hard. At first I thought I had went to hard with the bathmate so I quit that but it didn't get any better. Anyway, that went away after a few weeks (and my hands don't get that dry anymore either). Thought I'd mention the fair warning that sexual sides are possible. But all the sides I have had are only temporary, and I think it's definitely worth the temporary pain for being clear for good.

Hey yall. I've been dark for about 10 days, ever since I did repeats of the first few days and had those two girls over to my place.

I got a letter in the mail that week from the mall. Nothing new, it just restated the fact that I was banned for 90 days. What sucks is the mail still goes to my parents address for some stuff since I just moved out. So they chewed me out, what the fuck are you doing, blah blah blah.

Luckily they're gonna be out of town for like a month+ as of tomorrow, so that's good. I guess I was kinda waiting for that.

And I guess I'm a little spooked. I dunno. I got a bad feel after I creeped out a lady on my redo of day fucking 6.

So I thought about my journey so far. Reread my entire aa log. Now I know what drills I need to redo: most of them are from weeks 4 and 5, because that's when I stopped doing the challenges every day.

And mostly, I discovered over the past week how hilariously mandatory it is for me to keep doing this.




I couldn't muster the motivation to do fucking anything the last week. My place started to look like shit because I wasn't cleaning it, and I started to look like shit too. This is kinda what happened to me in college all the time. And I started to get porn cravings for the first time after being completely fap-free for almost 3 months.

That's when I knew something had to be wrong. I went in to see the shrink I used to go to throughout college to see if I was getting depressed. One thing I mentioned to him was that I had been "doing a program to help me get over social anxiety by talking to random people in public." You know what he said?

"That is exactly what it sounds like you should be doing."

It took a few days for me to even get up the mojo to go and do reps again, but the past few days I've been doing one rep per day of Day 38 (you're cute). Tonight I had to go grocery shopping, so I wasn't feeling afraid like I was going out just to hit on girls. So I was able to do another 4 reps in like 10 minutes.

Instantly I feel so much better and more like I have my shit together. I came back afterwards and cleaned my place. I always was kinda aware that I had my shit together more whenever I was dating someone in college, but this proves it. I need to have contact with hot girls in my life in order to stay sane and productive. I know that about myself now.


...So you guys don't need to worry about me not finishing this program. It's gonna happen... eventually.

Gearing up to have a good week of it guys. Let me know if you have any suggestions.





EDIT: Also, healthyadda, you finally caught up to me and passed me. curse you.


Also, I went to get some of my shit tailored like mokele said. It looks legit.