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I know this probably isn't a question anyone here can answer because where I live is a little different, but...
"For the people who live in insanely busy cities where girls work 8am to evening most days and sometimes have irregular schedules or extra jobs, how do you go about scoring dates with these women?"
I'm aware that my current level of body fat and amount of muscle plus limitations on style right now and some language issues are at fault here, but I'm also looking for some perspective. The average girl here...
Works 8am to 8pm.
Rides the train 1-2 hours a day.
Has weekends off - maybe.
Might have irregular work days where they have no set day.
Has lots of social and school club commitments.
Probably has a date 1-2 times a month.
Often has a part time gig on the side.
Probably guys from LA and NY and London might be able to relate. That or exam times at universities.
I live in Singapore and everyone is fucking crazy busy here (if you know anything about this city, it's fast-paced as shit. in fact they did a worldwide study and people here are the fastest walkers in the world lol)
but you just got to play with the cards that you're dealt with and maximise your circumstances. best of luck.
(This is going to sound a little depressed. Sorry! It's only a little that way.)
"If a girl likes you, she will make time for you, no matter how busy she may be."
^The General Consensus^
I guess I need to be honest with myself. I'm probably mentally avoiding the fact that girls probably don't like me in that way. The sample size is too small at the moment, but when it comes down to it that's the truth.
I'm at about 20 numbers from the last two months. I'll build to 100 and see if any make time. Meanwhile, I'll keep plugging along with my diet, training and be patient as I wait for enough slimness to upgrade to local guy sized clothing. At the end of the day the problem is probably with me, how I look, maybe my age, and other appearance issues as well as some language weakness.
If/When I get to the point where girls make time for me then I know I'm finally where I need to be.
Thanks to all and especially Shark for the detailed answer. I'm gonna need to accept this bitter pill and stop avoiding reality a bit.
The number one thing that "cock blocks" you during the day is a girls schedule. If she is busy as fuck its going to be hard to get her to sleep with you.
Remember, sexual availability?
Busy as fuck = stressed = low sex drive (more than likely)
Also, unless you are making an hell of an impression, she probably has a bunch of other chumps lined up to "date her". So unless your coming across as a true stallion, your pretty much fucked (100% serious)
You compensate for this in two ways.
A: Be a Stallion (100% serious) - sexually charged will fuck her better than ever in her life.
B: VOLUME. Your in a busy city, hit on tons of girls. I slept with 3 girls in a week - instant pulls off the streets of NYC, this was while doing an immersive training program... its possible but volume is key.
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