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Day 49 part 1 (Stockholm, Sweden): 8/20 girls. I was worried I'd have more aa since im talking to Europeans now. But thankfully that wasn't the case. Unfortunately finding cute girls was way harder, especially since I'm far from any uni. A lot of Swedish girls are kind of plain, maybe being in Korea for so long caused my standards to shoot up. Had a little aa but pushed thru it.
Went clubbing Saturday night in Stockholm. Holy shit
1. Literally the worst ratio I've ever seen
2. The guys are insanely tall, masculine, and handsome
3. Almost no girls, the ones that were there were way way less attractive than Korea. Seriously only like 4-5 genuinely attractive girls in the whole place. I think I only saw one genuinely obese girl in all of Korean nightclubs, they were like literally 20%of the girls in the place here.
Bars also had much more of an older crowd. No hot girls, all decent ones were with insanely handsome tall guys.
Tried to do night drills again but gave up after 2 girls. Going to Copenhagen after this, probably more of same. Gonma focus on meeting girls in hostel.
Day 49 (done) (Copenhagen, Denmark) : Last 12 girls literally took me 4-5 hours walking around the largest shopping street in country. finding young attractive girls alone is hard. for my last set i was so tired of it i literally just approached a group. whatever, I'm pretty sick of Scandinavia lol. still could have done better, let a lot of girls get away. got one or two really great reactions, and one or two blowoffs, same as usual.
thanks man. just wanted to get through it honestly.
went on a pub crawl tonight. had my arm around a girl after like 30 mins. was there for like 25 minutes before she decided it was weird and made me move. i eventually reunited with her at the end of the night and went for the kiss at the very end. turned down. i need to move way way faster, should have gone for it at the beginning of the night. oh well.
went to a museum, no intention to hit on girls but saw an opp with s/o there alone. opened indirectly, said smth about the chunk of slag there. not gonna open directly in a quiet museum.
we hanged out for 6 hours. first instadate i think. was all daytime so my already glacial pace of escalation turned geologic. went for the kiss toward the end, turned down: "you're too young!" (geez onlythe 10th time I've been rejected this way this summer). was a longshot, had to run to the airport right after and it was like 4pm. i had alrdy checked out of my room and she lived in a dorm w/ 8 people so no place to fuck anyway. oh well, enjoyed hanging w/ her
Day 50 (part 1) (Berlin, Germany) : (2/18 girls) had a spare hour or two. was walking around a major square in the east part of the city. dang, finding college-looking girls is hard. but i did chicken out of a few approaches, esp trying to stop them in the middle of the square, which just feels awkward. i had no idea how great i had it in Korea lol
in other news,booked a ticket to Paris soon. at that point i might just create an approach log (maybe do 1 day of drills before). plan is to hang around tourist areas for a week or 2 and hit on girls that look like they're traveling alone. no idea if it'll work, maybe there wont even be that many girls. w/e
awesome man! did you go clubbing? maybe it was pre gll but do you have an idea what some good nightlife spots might be? I still need to find an apartment on airbnb and not sure where to get it.
Day 50 (part 2) (Berlin, Germany) : 12/18 girls. 10 more today after 4-5 hours. the count was low but got some great responses, again kind of wishing i didn't just leave. one girl seemed really shocked and unhappy when i left after introducing myself.
I'm still shy about chasing down girls that are moving but honestly thruout this whole program my results from them have been the exact same spread of interested/unclear/interested/really interested as stationary girls. headphones dont affect the ratio either. i gotta stop being shy and maybe start running after the really cute ones or something.
No I didn't go clubbing I went with two friends from high school that weren't into the scene. Also, I didn't realize your previous post was in Berlin, I was also there last year! My thoughts on being in the two cities a total of like 7 days:
Berlin has better clubs but Paris has hotter girls.
I honestly dunno about airbnb; I just booked the cheapest hostel I could find (and I did it a few weeks in advance); best of luck
Everything I ever learned on GLL applied. No "game" was necessary, she liked me from the start and all I did was escalate and lead the interaction to a sex place 12 hours later (it was the bathroom of my hostel, things are already awkward with the roommates rofl). As is the same with most girls I've gone far with she opened me, making small talk at my hostel. We went to a museum and after started drinking a shitton. She flies back home to america tomorrow.
I didn't really feel much anxiety throughout the process leading up to sex. I had already done most of the escalation before on other girls this summer so I had an idea what to expect.i was worried about "what to say" to bounce her from the nightclub to the sex location, but she was DTF so she just got in the cab with me, didn't say anything.
the sex was garbage. hard bathroom floor, trying to make no noise. fucked her with a condom, fucked her without, honestly barely (hah) felt it. thought i was a bit buzzed, realized later i was actually decently intoxicated. did not finish until i awkeardly jacked myself off for 5 minutes and came on her. honestly in the club she was grinding me insanely hard and grabbing my dick so i was really blue balled and sex was honestly kind of painful. I might be the only guy where losing my virginity was painful.
Just happy to have achieved this milestone. I've known girls interested in me before but always blew it. Thr confidence I have with women now vs compared to 2 months ago is mind boggling.
ps she kept texting her friends/family to send her money to withdraw from atm and buy drinks with me. this included her ex, who she said was trying to get back with her. we had a good laugh about that. don't be beta bux guys. only thing i paid for her was one shot and the cab back
Edit: Finished day 50. still chickened out of a bunch of approaches. the 6 final girls took like 4ish hours. granted it was a rainy Sunday, but still. plenty of room for improvement.
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