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I'm honestly pretty fucking proud of something so simple. I was fighting hard not wanting to do it. Took two trips to the bathroom thought I was going to have my heart jump out my chest.
Even more funnier was finding out an ex works in the mall I was doing this at. So I am going to rotate places, don't need her to kill my vibe or ruin it by talking to other chicks.
Most girls were helpful even if they were in a bit of rush and had to be somewhere, which was surprising. I definitely got easier as I went. Felt like the monkey was slowly coming of my back. I am curious to see how this goes.
If something to tell new people who do this is that, wherever you are going to do your drills, remind yourself on the way there "I AM HERE TO DO THE DRILL AND LEAVE. I WILL DO THE DRILL AS BEST AS I CAN." Make all the focus on you doing the drill. Say that shit to yourself a ton before you go anywhere. It reminds you what you are there for especially when you see some fine piece of ass, you have to remind yourself.
I hope everyone else had some success today. Peace.
FUCKING BOMBED IT. Meaning I did not do jack shit today. Not in anything regards to the drills, nor even work. I have no clue as to what the fuck happened today but it did.
Gotta do this tomorrow. Other important things I realized is that I've come up with the best ideas in regards to rotating places to make sure I don't run into the same girls. Living out in the burbs makes you have to get creative.
Its cool man just don't give up. This isnt a race, this is a journey that will take however long you need it to, because you'll get there eventually. Victory (swimming in pussy) is gonna taste so damn sweet and I believe we'll both get there. Im feelin like this grind might even be more satisfying in the end.
Hey that's cool, I do that too. I have 3 college campuses, a university, 3 shopping malls, and then I have my go to every department/grocery store day. About 8 places give or take, I try not to go too often to the same place. I'm sure that at least the workers will start to recognize you. lol. This program so far, for me, is unbelievably hard. I remember when I read the drills for the first time, I was like 'wtf, I'm never going to be able to do that", But up until now, I have been able to do the days drills even if it takes me three days, albeit with some level of anxiety. Week two is when you'll start to question whether you can finish it or not, at least that happened to me. Week three drills look more fun, I have to see and find out.
Lets start out with the grade. C+ (mainly for effort)
The first five approaches took me about an hour and change to do. That has to do with not many people being out but also because I just pussed out.
Took a break where I did a survey for some random shit, got paid, and told myself I am here to do the drill. The next five took me about 25 minutes to do, with two of them being quite hot. I let plenty of those go away with my first five approaches but I did it this time, even if I did it in a way that was minimal risk (not even exagerating)
But overall, after I was pretty fucking amped to have done it. It's like going to wherever I am going to go, I'm dreading it. When I get there, its a process. When I finish, I feel so fucking good.
Ready2mingle, I thought about that, the workers will start to notice you. But something I noticed is how rare this kind of behavior is. I mean that. When I did one of the approaches today, to ask for the time, several people broke their necks to see what was going to happen between me and the girl. So with that being said, yes rotate places but know that eyes will be on you. What all of us here are trying to do is against all the norms. It's like Chris said in the audio "3 out of 100 guys actually go up to girls to try to bag and fuck." Its part of the anxiety.
With that being said, I hope both of you guys have been killing it. It is some comfort to know there are more than one of us trying to beat this bitch.
I am so proud of my performance today. I will give it a B+ without a doubt. All the women I went up to were attractive ranging from cute, to gorgeous, to girl next door.
The first five approaches took ten minutes. Some hotties in that mix.
The next five time and directions too about thirty minutes. Funny part, I scared one girl saying HEY really loud. Oops lol
Some cuties here. I caught myself during this time start to care about the reactions I was getting. I notice this because it wasn't in smiles, or quick to do it and get away. One straight up ignored me. I see what Chris means by emotionally unhealthy.
So I called a time out went to take a piss, layed down somewhere on a bench, told myself I am here to do the drill. My performance is the only thing that matters.
The last five took another half an hour. I had about a minute or more of convo with each girl. Big note! All of them were really friendly, had no problems telling me what they thought. only one girl ran off fast after I asked directions. But I remembered my performance was the end all be all, so it didn;t do much to me.
PS: I hate the chris rule of not focusing on getting laid right now. The last girl I spoke to was definitely into me. I mean she didn't want to leave, we just stayed looking at each other in silence after the conversation ended. Spanish, fine hourglass, with the most sexiest accent I've heard in a long time, I mean getting a chub listening to her talk. Regret not getting her number at least and asking her out. But I'm going to trust the process.
If anything I will come back to this post and read it to remind myself this is what I am working towards.
I hope everyone else killed it today. If not, don't worry I got faith, we all do!
Bro Tip! Dress up nice when you do your drills. It makes it easier for you. Think of it as a performance enhancer for your drills.
Yes!! Yes!! I agree. I dress nice, shower and put on some cologne, and put some gel on my hair before heading off for the drills.
Also, here's a tip for the 'Time. Do you know... ...? What do...? Do you like...?' type drills. If you're at the mall and trying to do drills on moving girls, it's easier to get the entire series of questions if you ask girls that do not have their phone already in their hands(and not actively using it).
The girls that have the phones in their hand matches up with what I saw today.
GIVING MYSELF A C+
Man, I got pretty annoyed while I was out because I forgot to be focusing on the drill, instead I was focusing on how much I want to fuck some of these girls I saw, which BTW does not help you do the drill.
Eventually I recentered and got MYSELF IN THERE.
If there is any tip I can offer is, when you see a girl you want to approach, focus on moving your ankles in her general direction. You have a gameplan to follow. I say this because there was a girl I really wanted to approach and I didn't. I saw her again later on and I moved my ass and got in there! I just remember my focusing on moving my feet over there. So yea, weird tip try it out, it might work.
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