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Day 4 Drills
Taking it slow. Need to set up the vlog.
Asked 1 girl for the time.
Worried that someone will realize I'm walking the mall by myself and asking weird questions.
-A little each day (instead of oh I'll do 8 straight hours one day or take a few rest days and then get to it)
-Go into it slowly instead of waking up and saying I must go to the mall at 10 and start the drills like it's a job
- Also the 4-6 seconds thing helped alot- Start walking as soon as you see someone to approach and then start it feels easier
Must do the drills in order (instead of trying to do 5 of each thing)
Some weird reactions on the Have You Been There? I added Have you been there is it ok? just to sound more making sense
Fun towards the end
Still only asking safe targets (mall kiosk worker people)
Was it a holiday? Lots of kids for a weekday. They need to be in class.
Back on the wagon. I started keeping written diary of the days been forgetting to do the forum thing.
Finished day 8 today (did you like it)
Started day 9 before going home to eat.
Lots of akward/confusing exchanges on the day 8 for some reason still suprised on how many mall workers are foreign/english not so good
Still mostly doing drills on workers...can ask most anyone for the time
Haha a few of the first girls i saw (get in there) went into dressing/changing rooms whatever the hell they called. I wasn't dedicated enough to gll to follow them haha.
One funny(?) interaction for the do you eat at the nearby food drill...day 9....girl asked why i was asking her.... i was almost revealed!! said some bull aboutthis being my first time at the mall
anyway..main problem is that my feet get tired from walking so much and looking for safe people to approach guess just have to get in there faster in the future for all reps not just the first one
feeling good...when you are in state don't leave the site...you got social momentum keeping doing drills until you collapse
finished day 9
started day 10 alittle
1st set done
day 9 pretty easy ... these damn girls cant speak english! all of the girls had been to the food court (the restaurant i said) so no chance for that akward interaction
day 10 was the first one i really struggled with (struggle before was just making myself do it and pushing myself)
don't know if ive ever flirted with a girl or hit on a girl unless it was really safe...maybe first girlfriend when it was really safe
the last one was a bit of a struggle (have you seen any good movies) feels like you are kinda hitting on te girl indirectly/creeping
state was a big thing.. got tired after finishing day 9 and didnt want to do anymore asked a few the time movie theater nearby and started to feel alittle better...like head fog was lifted
definitely didnt feel as euphoric as yesterday more of a grind anxiety has noticeably gone down though
ive done it before (have asked if they have seen any good movies lately)
oh i asked that question (have you seen any good movies lately) girl started talking about action movies, horror movies blah blah haha
had to scatch and grind through this one
last question still sounds alittle weird but now sounds more like just asking a question for information to a stranger instead of creepily indiretly trying to ask a girl to go to a movie with you
debating whether to put everything on the shelf (dog,personal trainer) and devote everything to aa drills
still stuff to improve; ask more strangers instead of workers
more moving people
saying the stuff EXACTLY how it is instead of trying to alter it alittle to make it less akward
but still really feeling the progress euphoric good feeling of doing drill i didnt think i could do making progress
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