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I signed the petition today, and I already have an okcupid. I'd love it if everyone judged my account and gave me reasonable parts to change. I realize my pictures need to be douched up, so just let me know. If anyone could look at my pics and see how I could change my look (clothes, earrings, build, etc) let me know. Pussy be with you.
The profile as it already is (I will change but I want some feedback as well):
Thank you. So would you suggest just straight up lying on the profile? Like, saying I'm 5'7" and putting on the shoes for dates and all that?
I've definitely considered that before, the only reason I've held back is because I wanted my confidence to not rely on a pair of shoes, and I also felt like it'd be weird if I suddenly shrank when I'm around a girl naked or like at the beach.
Is the idea like, fuck it, it won't be insecure, it's like "makeup" all most?
Hey man awesome, I'll be following your journal. You gonna VLOG?
I don't 100% "trust" youtube pickup guys (as Chris has said, we have no evidence they actually get laid) but watching them can help you get over the AA by giving you evidence that at least some girls will react well to you. This guy is short as fuck and uses that in a lot of his conversations with chicks:
He's a fucking midget. He's shorter than every single girl he hits on. But he's confident as fuck.
Dude, those videos fucking SAVED me, when I had just broken up. I remember I was a hitting on a girl at a bar, and I (admittedly I was drinking so this may be off) got told, "were you an elf for halloween? Cause you're pretty short...". Then I saw Cupid's vids where he literally dressed up as an elf and hit on chicks lol. I realized if I can't maximize my height, I'll have to embrace it early on and show it doesn't matter.
Fuck yeah ahhahahaha. You can change your height a little (grab those special shoes) but yeah, you're just gonna have to embrace it. You're gonna get laid more than any other shortie in the country
You ever watch Limitless, EpicFiveTV, Vitaly, or any of the other "prank"/pickup channels? They're the entire reason I signed up for the AA program. I watched hundreds of them (maybe thousands) over the last 2 months. I got addicted. At some point I started to realise "If they can do this without feeling stupid... Then in theory I should be able to do it too..."
After the AA program I have plans to do some of their pranks/pickup lines for my own entertainment.
Yeah dude, I watch them all the time. Simple Pickup is good too. I like them for infield, I watched a lot of RSD stuff for just general philosophical thoughts. Gonna mix my reply with:
Day 4 - Went to the mall and talked to 5 girls asking for the time. I wanted to try this anxiety trick from Wrestling where you do something RIGHT away to shake off the cobwebs. So I saw some one working at the movies in the mall and asked her what time the mall closes, then I asked what time it was. Second girl was on her phone, I actually flexed for a second like, "Shit, is it rude to stop her?" But I did anyway, felt way better after! Then I asked a group of girls. Then I asked a random older woman. Last I asked a girl who worked at a kiosk (huge boobs!) and talked with her for a second. It felt good!
I can see what people mean when they say this is "exposure therapy". Slowly but surely
I used this guide to REALLY fuckin' cheat the match percentage on Okcupid. I didn't list this in the video, but I went on a date with an Okcupid chick who had just an 88%. We got sloppy at the bar, made out a shit ton, but then I drove her home drunk (not the best idea) and almost crashed lol. She overreacted, cried, went home etc. BUT, it went really well before that and we were making out pretty hardcore so I think the match % can filter out pruder chicks and leave the sluttier ones.
Basically it revolves around answering ONLY safe questions you know they'd respond likewise to, AND sexual questions. You also make sure to reject conservative answers. So for instance -- "How many dates would it take you to have sex?" You say (so you can have a better percentage) 3-5 dates, but you accept the answer of 1-2, 3-5, 6-8 and just reject the conservative answer of "I wait until marriage". Then you just weight it strongly. That way you get all the open minded chicks, and less prude.
One thing that helps is to figure out what your "sticking points" are. By that I mean figure out which girls you're avoiding subconsciously or consciously. So for me I tended to avoid:
- Girls who are with a guy (what if it's her boyfriend?)
- Really really hot girls (she's above my level)
- Girls on the phone (it's rude to interrupt her)
- Groups of girls (they're talking, it's rude to interrupt)
- Girls who are CLEARLY in a rush (it's so rude to stop her when she's in a rush!)
- Women who are walking ahead of me (it's weird to come up behind them, what if I scare her?)
- Asian/Muslim/foreign women (what if they don't speak English very well and it's awkward?)
- Girls with earphones (it's rude to interrupt when they're listening to music)
- Girls looking at their phones (rude to interrupt her)
Funny thing is, by the time you add all those together, that's MOST girls lol. I was literally avoiding almost every girl in public.
I'm only on Day 9 and I've already talked to a bunch of girls in all those categories. And most of them have been really nice, or at least just answered my questions without any trouble. So I'm building up evidence that all my excuses were really just bullshit.
Your "sticking points" will be different from mine, this program will help you tackle them
Thanks man. I feel the same way. Not everyday, but so many times it's like, "Jesus Christ, every girl is demonized in my head". Then when you talk to them, a lot of times (especially if they're working and bored as hell) you really make their day. I feel a lot of gratitude for finding this site and this program. I have to start posting in the morning though I psyched myself up today and waited until 8 lol.
-I put a time constraint on the drill and it REALLY put a fire under me to get it done fast.
-Forgot to mention this in the video, when I approached girls quickly and indiscriminately I really started to feel my anxiety float away. I asked the thickest girl for the time. I mean thickest in the best possible way. It didn't even register how hot she was..
-The approaches went well in general. One was hot mom, one assumed I was going to hit on her I think but then was pleasantly surprised I just stopped her for the time. I thought that was funny. ALSO, I'm pretty sure a girl was near me for the first 5 and must have known I asked people over and over for the time...lol whatever
NOTE: I'm still contemplating elevator shoes:
WHAT, if anything, are the health concerns to your feet?
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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Kratom is next!
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