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Deltsbrah wrote: Big thanks to lycanthrope for that huge post!
I had a strange once in a lifetime experience in the subway (well the tram lol) here. I was taking out my ticket/travel card and dropped it. A fairly attractive (maybe a 6/10) AZN girl went out of her way to pick it up for me. She wasnt old either, probably in her mid 20s.. I feel they get less arrogant and ego driven as they get older. Really old women have been nice to me... Anyways she picked it up and handed it to me and even smiled at me. That is probably a once in a life time occurrence since all attractive women are extremely self centered and arrogant.
Again, Deltsbrah, you're making wide generalizations that aren't true. You live in a fairly diverse country/city - though not as diverse as my world, I'm sure. Living where I live has helped me understand the complexities of life and while cultural and physical attributes lend themselves to stereotypes, all they really show is how much we all are alike.
Those pretty girls are people just like you and me...well women, but they have the same hearts and the same feelings - insecurities abound in them. I live in a super diverse place. I see the most unlikely couples all the time. I also happen to have several very beautiful women in my family and I know them deeply and they are very nice, good-hearted people. Yes, good looking people tend to judge those they think are less attractive just as less attractive people tend to assume good-looking people are less intelligent. This is a mental reflex we have to make things seem fair in life. However, once you get to know someone (and this goes for both groups), those prejudices dissipate and they no longer mean anything.
Humans will always mistrust and even despise other people we don't know. That's why we have wars. You seem like an intelligent guy and you know war is stupid. Same for believing you know about people you don't know.
My advice is to give people the benefit of the doubt and open your mind up to meeting new people who you might not think will like or be attracted to you.
Also - btw - I know a lot of beautiful women who are with guys who are not so attractive. Women tend to look past the face much more easily than men. We can do this too, but I think it takes a certain type of guy whereas most women seem to be willing to overlook looks. (My girl, for example, is gorgeous and she has had some of the ugliest boyfriends available out there. I'm not that great and I'm the best looking guy she's ever been with...we both agree.)
The reason you are feeling hatred for women is clearly because you fear them - just like ISIS fears the US and vice versa. It will become a war no one can win if you keep thinking this way.
Deltsbrah wrote: I'm seeing my therapist again tomorrow. I don't know if you can change therapists. here in Australia its free mental healthcare so u can't go picking therapists like in the US I think. I am moving next week so I might have to switch regardless..
At least in Finland you can switch therapists even with its free healthcare. This is because therapy is ineffective if you don't match with the therapist.
The reason you hate women is because you haven't been successful with them yet. Fix that and you will start to love them.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Deltsbrah wrote: honestly i don't know how you guys can take being social and being around other people all the time.. My friend is a cool guy even though he is as "blue pill" as it comes (i brought up the topic of pickup once and he said he has heard of it and it's pathetic/sad as hell.. lololol) and very social but i find myself wanting a massive amount of alone time.. basically im used to locking myself in my room or going out roaming the city by myself or training alone in the gym with my headphones on..
Being around other people for me is frankly mentally exhausting:(
It is exhausting before you get used to it. When I stopped smoking weed a couple of months ago and started being social again, every meet-up with a friend used to feel like an ordeal. I had to psyche myself up in order to accomplish it, and I had to take goals such as "I'll stay here for one hour and then I'm allowed to go home" Thankfully now I'm at a point again where I'll actually rather spend time with others than be alone. But I sometimes still can't take it either so I just stay home.
Deltsbrah wrote: Been playing a lot of Pokemon Go lately lol
I heard the app tinder u guys talk about is similar to pokemon go so I installed it and played for 30mins or so to try it out.. As expected I did not get any matches
It can take days to get matches bro, plus your pics probably sucked goat balls
25 y/o virgin before GLL
More serious topic, why do you not like being around people? For me, it just always felt like a waste of time. I don't think I actually have social anxiety but I have gone summers with minimal/no human interaction before.
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