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Good job. Now you can start working on the AA program.
Dude there's nothing wrong with you. Stop tryna fix things that ain't broke. Just because you haven't ever gotten laid doesn't mean you aren't capable of it. Just like when you first walked into the gym I bet you were able to bench press at least the bar, even though you had never done it before. I would've been a virgin at 30 if I hadn't found GLL. I was 25 almost 26 when I got laid the first time and it wasn't after too many online dates. As soon as you get rid of your virginity you'll realize that it was just a demon inside your head instead of a real thing.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
You really shouldn't worry that much. When I read that list in your first post, I basically thought that I'd have a problem with 80% of the things there, and I thus wasn't even capable of starting with the AA drill.
I did start though, and while I'm just a week in, I'm already WAY better (not only with approaching girls, but also socializing in general). Also, it's really incredibly addictive. The adrenaline rush doesn't disappear, it simply becomes pleasant! I can only recommend you to start with the program.
Of course, I don't really know much about Thailand. But from what I've read hear, I'd bet a lot of money that you'd do fine in any western country.
So, I'm waiting for your AA Journal! And keep dem gainz coming!
You keep thinking there's something wrong with you when in reality there's not. Here, I'll paste you a direct quote from my log of when I lost my virginity:
Sexual frustration is the name of the game it seems. The girl I met last weekend came to visit me this weekend and she's sleeping right now as I'm writing this, lol. I was attracted to her when we saw each other again and enjoyed kissing her. When we tried to have sex, however, I lost the feeling again. I was able to achieve a boner pretty easily this time, but when we "did it", it didn't really feel like anything. It felt as though I was doing some sort of workout rather than enjoying myself She didn't fare much better. We fucked for like 5 mins and then just stopped cos it was boring. Neither of us came. How depressing.
I'm starting to wonder if there's something wrong with my emotions.
See? Everyone goes through this. Compare this to now when I'm a regular fuck machine
The pain you felt is because she wasn't wet enough / you put it in too quick, or in this case it was her fault. You gotta finger her to make her wet and/or use lube, spit on your cock and take it real slow at first, only move it a little bit and when you feel more comfortable increase the range of thrust.
You're lost as to what to do? Do the AA program.. I cannot re-iterate this strongly enough. You will totally change your life and you will become a different, better person.
Oh, and no-fap has a world of benefits. You can't believe how frustrated I am since I haven't gotten laid in a few days and I'm not fapping. Makes me wanna take action so hard to get laid. But it makes me feel so much more confident because it's a test of self-discipline, much like cold showers.
25 y/o virgin before GLL
Deltsbrah wrote: As for the AA program it was my intention to run it after the doing the check list but after finding out that im not even attracted to girl I do not have any motivation to do it.. its kinda like catch 22 since I need to get rid of PIED to have any desire to run the AA program but need a valid reason to stop porn/fapping to get rid of PIED (since without any chance of having real sex I don't see the point of stopping fapping)
Sometimes we gotta force ourselves to do stuff we have no desire to, just because we know that it will benefit us in the end..
25 y/o virgin before GLL
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