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Dude I'm cutting on a BIG caloric deficit right now and it's so brutal. But if you're anything like me, you've never been lean in your life.
Think about how awesome that is, though. We've both had a lot of success with women before finding GLL, and we've both been skinnyfat (pretty much the worst bodytype) the entire time. Dude we will DESTROY once we get that bf% down.
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I came to the same conclusion as you have about a year ago at least Andy, and resolved to get fit but only sort of did.
I know it's harsh but keep your eyes on the prize - As Dan says if you're having success now as you are (and lets be honest, you are, in the bedroom), then you are going to just ruin girls after 6 months in the gym.
I'm in Dag's camp - Prioritise beating AA and then it's gym time. It's the deicision i've personally taken and it's agonising because I really WANT to sort my body out in order to get laid. When I was 19 I was pretty buff and it gives you such superiority.
But we need to apply occam's razor - If it's gym or beat AA then invest in the AA and leave the gym until after the program's over. The quicker you 'finish' the AA program, the quicker you can get in shape and just annihilate life (we all know this is a lifestyle we've chosen, and it's holistic).
(Obviously if you can do both then fucking kill it, smash it out).
All 3 of you are right. One thing at a time. Mike you summed up my feelings perfectly "...it's agonising because I really WANT to sort my body out in order to get laid."
@Dan: Yeah man you're right. It's just hard to see the forest from the trees sometimes. You and Mike are right, I AM having success in the bedroom. I have 3 chicks I can text right now to fuck, my favourite is coming over tonight. I have 3 dates with new chicks already set this week (and a few other girls numbers). I've been so focused on "I can do better" that I've forgotten to stop and smell the roses once in a while.
We both kinda still have "chubby faces". If we can get laid by average/semi-cute girls now, imagine what we'll be able to do after some hard time in the gym...
@Dag: Yeah she is. Quite a few girls that hot are now talking to me (they just ignored me before), but it never goes anywhere. Twice I've gotten a number from girls who are almost as hot as her, but they flaked. I can get average girls pretty easily, cute girls with lots of effort, but I also want to be able to get the HOT girls like Chris/Scotty/etc does.
(and now also you have the image of me giggling in your head. Yes)
ETA, on a more serious note, consider one thing re. weight loss and fitness.
For me personally, it takes around 45mins to complete a drill. I do on average 1 drill a day. I walk for at least 15 minutes to the place in which I do the drill. This means i'm walking for an hour.
So, if you're anything like me, you've been walking for 1 hour every single day for as many days as you've done drills (more or less).
Sooo.. You see where I'm going with this.. That's an hour of exercise a day, which is good for your posture, your heart, your immune system, your brain and all the other wonderful stuff.
It's not lifting weights and it's not really high tempo, but seriously there will be an effect, in terms of metabolism and in terms of POSTURE.. Personally for me exercise was primarily about posture and secondarily about looking buff. Learn to walk before you can fly, etc.
So essentially, the drills also provide a great foundation for the gym once they are finished (done with and no longer done). We'll all be healthier for it and in a great place to start.
Mike, Dag, Dan: Any of you using the Bathmate? If not, FUCKING BUY ONE RIGHT NOW. I'm dead fucking serious. Drop everything you're doing and buy one RIGHT FUCKING NOW. Towards the end of the vid I talk about why.
Last night it made my dick so big I got scared. Honest to god I was scared of my own dick.
Dude, honestly it's fucked up. I'm not comfortable taking pics of my dick but I wish you could see the difference, it's insane. You know how you know your dick really well? I mean like we jerk off, and fuck with it, and hold it when we take a piss. So you have a pretty fucking good idea what your dick is like. Well after a 20min, 100% erection bathmate session you don't recognise your own dick. It's like someone attached somebody else's dick to my groin area. It's surreal. That's what I mean by "scary". It felt like something was "wrong" with my dick. I was continually checking it to make sure it wasn't broken or gonna pop or something.
I couldn't fucking fit the condom on. LARGE condoms I normally have no trouble with.
(I should throw in a disclaimer: you don't see much difference in the first month or two. At all. Since you're only starting with short sessions and you use it while flaccid, so your dick gets used to it. But when you eventually work up to 20min sessions with a 100% erection, that's when your dick turns into a missile of pain and destruction.)
You could always grab the bathmate now. It only takes a few minutes in the shower (you start with like 5min sessions I think), a few times a week, and you have your hands free to wash yourself/brush teeth/whatever else. It's like a "set and forget" type thing.
A GIRL AS HOT AS IN THE POF PROFILE I POSTED ABOVE
AND SHE THOUGHT I WAS A PLAYA.
You have to watch this vid. Holy cow guys. Hottest girl I've ever banged. The whole time I kept thinking "You are too hot for me. What the fuck are you doing in my apartment." Jesus. And at the end of the night she said something that blew my fucking mind. You gotta watch the vid.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
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