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Thanks Eric. Yeah it's about us building it into a habit, so that 9 times out of 10 when you see a cute chick, you just approach without even thinking of it.
For ages now I've been doing spontaneous high-fives. I randomly high-five people for no reason, with barely ANY thought - almost like my body is doing it without me realising it. I'm thinking one day it'll probably be the same for us with cold approach - we just do it without even thinking of it.
Yeah I think you're right about that. If you can do those high fives like that you probably already have enough social freedom to cold approach a decent amount.
Just a couple weeks ago I had been approaching quite a bit and it was going well. Then I went on a trip for 2 weeks and didn't do a single approach. The first day back I was really damn nervous the first few approaches but went back to normal after a while.
Just shows it's a matter of getting your body/brain used to doing something often (a habit)
What you sow is what you reap
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG)
20 May 2016 01:50 #250387
Congrats on the cold approach! The 1st one is by far the hardest. I felt like the world was being turned upside down (and I partially lost vision lol). Keep the momentum going! I approached like 5 girls within that week but after that I took "time off" and didn't approach another girl for months. Terribly frustrating. That's why I started the AA program. Cheers
Fuck yeah, bitchesssss. I pussied out for an hour today, then made a promise to Mike and Dan I would cold approach within the next 2 mins. Fucking did it, she was married but extremely flattered and thanked me. Did another but she ignored my approach.
I CAN FUCKING DO THIS. No, fuck that. I am actually fucking doing this. Holy shit.
The world is my oyster. It's an EXHILARATING thought to realise you're allowed to hit on ANY girl you see. I've been restricted all my life to just online dating/social circles. I feel fucking FREE, like breaking out of a prison.
At this point, I consider my AA dealt with. Obviously I still have it when cold approaching, but I now have the tools to deal with it. I know how to deal with it, and more importantly, I now know that I CAN deal with it. I'm giving myself evidence every time I do it.
I don't even know where to begin thanking Chris for the program. Fucking hell, it's changed my fucking life. Not just a little bit. EVERYTHING is different. I have confidence I never had before. I start random conversations with strangers (guys and girls). I high-five random people all the time. I'm confident on dates. I used to be TERRIFIED of talking to girls, now it's almost easier than talking to guys.
If anyone is thinking of doing the AA program, even if you think there's no way you could succeed - just give it a try. I went into it not sure how it was going to go, I wasn't sure if I'd ever get to a point where I could cold approach. But the program fucking works, as long as you WANT to succeed.
A lot of people helped me succeed - Dag, Eric, and others. But there's 2 who pushed me more than anyone else. Dan (Bad Idea Bear) and Mike (Mikesplosions). We talk on Skype all the fucking time, these two bitches have pushed me pretty much daily. I owe much of my success to them. Cheers, lads.
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