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It's really good to see your VLog again. I always enjoy watching them.
Don't feel like day 46 marks the day you have to start cold approaching. I wasn't ready on day 46. I didn't pressure myself to try on day 46. Basically a few days later I had the 'fuck it' moment, but it happened organically. I didn't set a schedule for it or anything. I would bet dollars-to-donuts (yankee expression) that the reason you've been procrastinating is because in the back of your mind you feel like you are obligated to do cold approaches after you finish day 46. Decouple those ideas, because day 46 is just a drill. Start cold approaching whenever the fuck you feel like it.
Count: 113 (30 from cold approach since finding GLL)
1. Switch business from contractors to employees
2. Quit nicotine (DONE)
No drills sat or sun, I ended up working my usual 16 hour weekend days to make $$$$. All good, I'm taking monday and tuesday off to hit it hard.
Tonight I just got laid, new chick from Craigslist. Man craigslist is really the shit, surprises me how many normal (not fucked up) chicks there are there. Yeah there's a lot of absolute filthy sluts, and some true freaks (never stick your dick in crazy). But there's a huge bunch of just normal women on there.
So this chick I banged tonight is about a 5. Way lower than I'm happy with (I want to have standards, but I'm not 100% there yet), but I figured what the hell. She drove all the way over to my place and we banged within like 10 seconds of being in my place lol. I might see her again once or twice but don't think I'll keep her longterm. This was definitely one of those bangs that you DON'T brag about lol.
I hope in future I can look back and see an improvement. I want to look back and be able to say "I definitely attract much more attractive women now".
Nice girl, super passionate and the sex was good. Just not super hot.
EDIT: it's probably a backwards step, if I'm honest. This is the first time in many many many months I've banged a chick I wasn't super into. Ah well, 10 steps forward, 1 step back. She was really sweet though, I liked her.
Hey, a win is a win, even if you have to lower your standards to make it happen. One of my favorite sayings is - "If you want to be shit, first you have to eat shit." Most (normal) people aren't willing to do the hard things necessary in order to be successful. Too much pride.
Yeah, don't be hard on yourself. At the end of the day it's all an experiment, next time you might not bother (or you might) - But at least now you have the experience to allow you to decide.. You had fun, as long as you don't get infected it's all gravy (right).
In my eyes you'd be 'regressing' if you took her out on 3 dates first. Check your premises (Ayn Rand)
One thing that would be good, especially as you're getting laid so much, is to create a seperate Lay Log, will help you in future as well I assume.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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