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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG)

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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 26 Nov 2015 06:24 #230060

Actually, we have another saying too. "I'd go through her like lightning through a wet dog"
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 26 Nov 2015 09:39 #230068

It's really good to see your VLog again. I always enjoy watching them.

Don't feel like day 46 marks the day you have to start cold approaching. I wasn't ready on day 46. I didn't pressure myself to try on day 46. Basically a few days later I had the 'fuck it' moment, but it happened organically. I didn't set a schedule for it or anything. I would bet dollars-to-donuts (yankee expression) that the reason you've been procrastinating is because in the back of your mind you feel like you are obligated to do cold approaches after you finish day 46. Decouple those ideas, because day 46 is just a drill. Start cold approaching whenever the fuck you feel like it.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 26 Nov 2015 09:42 #230069

Yeah you hit the nail on the head with "in the back of your mind you feel like you are obligated to do cold approaches after you finish day 46."

I feel like cold approaching NOW. Just that AA is in the way.

Gonna kill this day 46 even if it takes me the next 10 days lol. Then cold approach time.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 26 Nov 2015 21:43 #230132

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I was just about to buy an airplane ticket to Australia, find you and kill you for procastinationg too much lol

I didn´t think you quit at all, but fuck it man, get back up and hit the drills harder as you used to.

I know I am not the best person to say that because I have been procastinating a lot too, and haven´t done videos because my cellphone is broken, but someone had to say it lol

It´s good to see you back.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 26 Nov 2015 21:44 #230134

Dag I love you (no homo)

I woke up this morning 45min ago feeling excited about the drills and about life. I've been feeling down/depressed the last month (my own fault) so it's good to be back.

Just sipping a cup of coffee and eating some breakfast, then I'm off to a university to do more of day 46.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 27 Nov 2015 04:21 #230172

Day 46(b):


I am absolutely exhausted. Mentally and physically drained. I feel broken, like I have nothing left. I am struggling, more than I ever have in my life.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 27 Nov 2015 08:30 #230208

Just like you say, if you keep trying this hard, success is inevitable.

Sleep on it and let your brain analyse it and process it. Tomorrow will go better, it almost always does.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 29 Nov 2015 09:48 #230455

No drills sat or sun, I ended up working my usual 16 hour weekend days to make $$$$. All good, I'm taking monday and tuesday off to hit it hard.

Tonight I just got laid, new chick from Craigslist. Man craigslist is really the shit, surprises me how many normal (not fucked up) chicks there are there. Yeah there's a lot of absolute filthy sluts, and some true freaks (never stick your dick in crazy). But there's a huge bunch of just normal women on there.

So this chick I banged tonight is about a 5. Way lower than I'm happy with (I want to have standards, but I'm not 100% there yet), but I figured what the hell. She drove all the way over to my place and we banged within like 10 seconds of being in my place lol. I might see her again once or twice but don't think I'll keep her longterm. This was definitely one of those bangs that you DON'T brag about lol.

I hope in future I can look back and see an improvement. I want to look back and be able to say "I definitely attract much more attractive women now".

Nice girl, super passionate and the sex was good. Just not super hot.

EDIT: it's probably a backwards step, if I'm honest. This is the first time in many many many months I've banged a chick I wasn't super into. Ah well, 10 steps forward, 1 step back. She was really sweet though, I liked her.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 29 Nov 2015 16:28 #230474

Hey, a win is a win, even if you have to lower your standards to make it happen. One of my favorite sayings is - "If you want to be shit, first you have to eat shit." Most (normal) people aren't willing to do the hard things necessary in order to be successful. Too much pride.

Keep fighting the good fight Andy.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 30 Nov 2015 11:51 #230602

Yeah, don't be hard on yourself. At the end of the day it's all an experiment, next time you might not bother (or you might) - But at least now you have the experience to allow you to decide.. You had fun, as long as you don't get infected it's all gravy (right).

In my eyes you'd be 'regressing' if you took her out on 3 dates first. Check your premises (Ayn Rand)

One thing that would be good, especially as you're getting laid so much, is to create a seperate Lay Log, will help you in future as well I assume.
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 30 Nov 2015 14:18 #230613

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She's not so bad. She just seems a little bit old.

For me it's a 6.

If the sex is good, I keep this kind of chick around until I find an 8+ that wants to be my gf.
Only trust your own experience.

Every beginner's question has a simple answer : go date 100 girls and you will have your answer. Stop asking stupid questions ; that's what girls do.


Lays : more than you
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG) 01 Dec 2015 06:06 #230715

Uber, Mike and Leopard - appreciate it guys. Uber, you're right - nobody starts this shit by banging 9's and 10's. Takes time and effort to get to that point.

As for drills, yesterday and today I went out for a bit but kept pussying out. Frustrating, but I know it's only a matter of time before I break through Day 46 and start cold approaching.
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