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(I "skipped" day 44 because it was taking too long. I will definitely go back and do it after I've done day 46. I want to get better at maintaining eye contact, I can see how it's a useful skill. And its fun and flirty.)
As for day 45...it took SO FUCKING LONG. 2.5 hours. It's Saturday here and I did it in a shopping mall. You'd think there would be heaps of pairs/groups of girls.... But no. Mostly families, and girls with their mothers, and shitloads of teen girls (i dont wanna do drills on under-age girls). Lots of girls by themselves. But barely any girls in pairs/groups.
It was fucking painful. 3.5hours of walking (if you include the few reps of day 44). It was so frustrating and I did not enjoy it. At one point I got really demanding when two girls wouldn't shake my hand, I basically forced them to in a really creepy way after they'd already said "thanks, we're not interested" because I didn't want to repeat the rep.
It wasn't all bad tho. This one guy was talking with his coworker, the coworker said "Here, you hold the keys". I happened to be walking next to the guy so i put my hand out and said "I'll hold the keys, bro". He holds them out and says I can have them. I looked at him for the longest time, thinking he was fucking with me. Then I took them. He started walking off, so I followed him. I said "Why did you give your keys to a random stranger? What if i throw them away? Or rob your store?"
He was like "I dont mind"
Me: "What are these keys for anyway? What do they open?"
Him: "A door"
We walked for a bit and I'm just looking at him, thinking "this dude is a fucking champ..."
I eventually hand the keys back to him and he laughed. Gave him a friendly slap on the shoulder and said" I like you man. You're fucking funny. "
He told me to enjoy my day and he left.
Seriously what a fucking cool dude.
I now do almost all my highfives without saying a word. I just point at the girls, stand in their way and put my hand up. Works well. Only time i ever say" Yo, highfive" is if they're looking at their phone or not looking at me.
I have 2 hours left before I have to work. I really want to start day 46. But I am fucking EXHAUSTED. 3.5hrs of walking around without having eaten much. I'm grabbing food now, but I feel like I'm about to pass out. I'll just do one or two girls and see how I feel.
Loool had 3 spare hours between work shifts today, was going to do drills. Ended up getting laid instead. All good, will do day 46 tomorrow (monday).
So I ticked a few things off my bucketlist today, without even meaning to. Met this 18yo chick online, again on Craigslist (what is it about craigslist and 18yo chicks...) We flirted and texted for 2 days, got her to come over (straight to my apartment). Really feminine, cute, giggly, has a really soft/demure voice. She smiles so much in that cute way some girls do. I'd say she's maybe a 7, but once we had sex holy cow she's an 8+.
I greeted her downstairs then as soon as we were alone in the elevator I pulled her to me. She said "Oh, wait, so soon?" then I kissed her and she was REALLY into it, kissed me back passionately. Kissing girls in the elevator on the way up to my apartment is now my go-to move.
Things she ticked off my bucketlist:
- African chick. Holy shit she has the hugest, juiciest lips, perfect for kissing
- HUGE pussy lips/clit (has always been a turnon, have never found a chick this "well-endowed" though lol)
- cums REALLY fucking easily. she came like 6 times, and can easily come from her clit, being fingered, or being fucked. Also got wet REALLY fucking easily, she was constantly wet and when we had a break I could make her wet again in like 30 seconds.
- she wants to be my slave. we were talking and she told me she's hugely turned on by 50 shades of grey and wants to submit to me. The sex we had was pretty fucking rough; pulled her hair, choked, made her gag on my dick, slapped her ass, slapped her pussy, pinched her nipples as hard as I could, bit her neck, pinned her down, etc. She loved all of it and wants more than that but she's nervous as hell about it
- relatively inexperienced. She's obviously had sex, she knows how to give a good blowjob. But she was really fucking nervous. When we were cuddling af ter sex (which is an awesome time to get honest answers out of girls by the way, thankyou oxytocin) she said she's never gone to someone's house and had sex. Also told me she's never cum during sex (which sounds insane, given she came 6 times without me putting in much effort). She was also really fucking cuddly/affectionate and "clingy" in that cute way young girls often are. When she left she kept wanting to kiss me and hug me and then said "Please text me, whenever you get a chance, if you want to". Cute as fuck.
Fucking awesome sex, definitely gonna see her again. She's only about 30 min away by train, pretty convenient. We didn't hangout too much (we were limited on time) but she seems cool enough, and is pretty feminine and took all my jokes/teasing well.
Highly recommend Craigslist to you guys. I haven't really heard it mentioned on here or anywhere else for that matter - I think the general feeling is it's "seedy" as fuck and I used to think the same thing. And there are some REALLY fucking creepy as fuck guys on there. Which is why I do exactly what I do with online dating - just post a really normal ad, "Chill guy looking for cool girl to hangout with", don't mention sex, and you get a few normal chicks replying back. Chat to 'em just like normal, ask for a number and text just like normal, then organise a hangout.
There's a HUGE number of women who browse Craigslist and read all the ads and get turned on by fantasising about doing all the dirty things they're reading (it's like porn for them) - but they'd never actually want to meet. It's like an escape for them, a way to imagine being a dirty girl (just like 50 shades of grey - look how much of a bestseller the book is and a blockbuster the movie is). But if they see your "normal" ad, as long as you're not being too creepy, they'll sometimes meet you. Have met a few girls this way to see the pattern repeating.
The reason it's awesome is once you write a few template ads, you can just repost them every few days, takes literally 2 minutes. And just leave them there and you get a few replies every day or so. In some ways it's better than online dating because the girls are responding to YOU, whereas with online dating you have to chase them.
If anyone wants tips on writing an ad, or wants to know where to post it or when to post it, etc, hit me up
Ive been procrastinating so much lately. I've only got to do one more drill - day 46 - before I can cold approach.
Im standing so close to the edge, I'm so close to being a man who cold approaches. I'm so fucking close.
But something's holding me back. Hell, I'm holding myself back. I still haven't convinced myself I'm "allowed" to do this shit. I know logically I can do it, I just keep holding myself back.
Fucking hell. It's painful to be so close, and yet so far. Cold approaching feels like it's a lifetime away, like I'll never get there... Even though I could be there TOMORROW if I wanted.
Fuck these thoughts. Fuck these chains I've put on myself. Do I deserve to cold approach? I don't know. But can I do it? Yes, yes I can. I just have to fucking DO IT.
At least I'm still getting laid 2-3 times a week. Africann chick coming over tomorrow again. That doesn't really satisfy me though; I want to cold approach, not "cheat" through online dating.
This program really does bring out your insecurities. I'll be a much better man once I make it through. I've already improved a tonne, got more to do though.
After typing this I went out and walked around, made eye contact with quite a few chicks, smiled at a couple. Didn't do drills but I always feel better when I'm out amongst people. Better than sitting at home alone feeling sorry for myself.
@ChompTheBit: Hey man, really fucking appreciate it. Looks like you're killing the program too, I've gotta go through your log and catch up.
Been fucking around the last week. Got back into weightlifting and have started fixing my sleep (my sleep pattern has been ATROCIOUS for years, I can't remember the last time I got 8 hours sleep, and I never go to bed at a reasonable time).
But I've been avoiding the AA program. So I took the next 3 days off work. Massive hit to the wallet, but fuck it, I need to get this shit done. I only have to finish day 46 (talk to 24 girls) and then I can cold approach.
Enough fucking around. LET'S GET THIS SHIT DONE, SON
@taco_smasher: Hey cheers man. Appreciate that. I was stuck on the high fives at first, but you'll eventually smash it.
"the only difference is that you guys are powering through it."
Lol, no. I've been fucking around with week 6 for a month now. So don't feel like you're doing any worse than anyone else. We all have to fight our own battles. Stick at it man, you'll get there.
@Mike: In Australia we say "I'd like to make tender, gentle love to her".
Nah just kidding, we say "I'm gonna smash her fucking cunt"
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