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Watching this video was really fun. I'm gonna go out and do at least one approach right now because of it.
You gotta give yourself credit for how much you've accomplished. The more you remind yourself of how far you've come, the more it will sink in. This stuff gets super easy on a 1 week delay. Meaning when you've finished week 7, all of a sudden week 6 will seem super easy. The stuff that gets your heart racing now will be a cakewalk in a few weeks. Week 6 is pretty real, man. You definitely put yourself on the line in a way that you haven't before. I felt like such a creep on day 42. Every week has it's own very unique challenges. Week 6 may turn out to be the hardest week for you, just like weeks 4 and 8 are turning out to be the hardest for me.
It's really impressive that you managed to stick in there for 4 hours. On the few days I had like that, I bailed pretty quickly. You have a rock solid resolve to finish the program, and you WILL finish it. Stop and think about how close you are now. You're 2 weeks away from 90% social freedom. You can't stop now.
Count: 113 (30 from cold approach since finding GLL)
1. Switch business from contractors to employees
2. Quit nicotine (DONE)
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG)
05 Nov 2015 00:36 #227650
Yeah it's funny how we have our own challenges. I found week 4 the EASIEST by far. Like, easier than asking for the time. I absolutely killed it, especially that day I did 5 drills on one day. I did all the challenges, told 30 girls "I'm not a rapist", flexed for 30 seconds in front of crowds, etc. Absolutely zero anxiety.
Yet week 6 is beating my ass (but I'm going to eventually beat it).
What's easy for one, is hard for another.
"You're 2 weeks away from 90% social freedom." My milestone/goal is day 46, when you're allowed to cold approach. I'm gonna do that for a couple of weeks before moving on to week 7. The first time I get a number from cold approach, even if it doesn't go anywhere, is going to be the biggest moment of my life. Something I never, ever, ever thought would happen.
Don't even get me started on how I'll feel when I get my first LAY from cold approach. Jesus...
No drills today because.... I was fulfilling something I've had on my "sexual bucketlist" for ages now.
In one of the recent audios Chris talks about fetishes/fantasies/sexual bucketlist stuff. And it got me thinking, so I wrote down a list of fantasies/stuff I want to try. Having sex with a virgin is something I've never done. So last week I put an ad on Craigslist. Few chicks replied, got chatting to one 18yo. She was nervous as FUCK because she's never done anything more than kissing, but she's sick of being a virgin and wants to lose it with an older guy who knows what he's doing (all her friends lost their virginity to young boys while drunk and all of them regretted it).
We've been texting/emailing for a week, she came round today and we hung out for a couple hours. Got on pretty well, she's mature/intelligent for an 18yo. She's not hot - probably a 5 - but she's skinny and I'm willing to bed a 5 if it means exploring something I've never tried before.
So we go back to mine. Jesus she was nervous. Her whole body was shaking when I started kissing her. Then she just grabbed me and hugged me tightly and didn't want to let go for like 5 minutes, we just sat there hugging. She had no idea how to kiss (but by the time she left a few hours later she was pretty good). The tiniest things just drove her crazy, like kissing her neck I swear she almost had an orgasm lol.
She was fucking adorable when giving me a blowjob. She kept constantly asking "Am I doing it ok? Is this ok? Am I going ok?" She was clumsy at first (teeth, owww) but with some guidance she actually became fucking good. Made me cum by jerking me off (again, constantly asking "how about this? faster or slower? Is this ok?")
Ended up banging twice + she also made me cum with the handjob. Holy fucking christ I was not expecting her to be THAT tight. I mean obviously virgin = tight, duh. But like... I struggled to get a finger in at first. And it took almost 2 hours before I could even get the TIP of my dick in. And that was using a shitload of lube and fingering her for an hour. Had to go INCREDIBLY slow, but it was worth it because I was terrified of hurting her, and managed to avoid that. Second time we banged I got about half my dick in, lol. There was lots of blood but she said she wasn't in pain, just mild discomfort.
She got REALLY clingy, which I thought might happen. Like, wanting to hold hands when I walked her home, then saying "I'm being so clingy aren't I, oh god". Asked me like 5 or 6 times, "So are we doing this again? I know I already asked you that." Kept asking me "Did you like doing that with me?" And during the sex she said "I'm high on love right now! haha just kidding!"
I think I'll see her again. She wasn't hot but the sex was definitely good, and obviously it will be a million times better as she gets less tight. I don't know if I'd feel great about myself if I deflowered a virgin and then just booted her to the curb. And I gotta admit, there's something fun about teaching a virgin. They truly have NO idea how to do anything, and they're so fucking eager to please. And she seemed to really enjoy every single little thing. She also surprised me with a few things - eg after she jerked me off, my dick and her hand were covered in cum. She said "What am I supposed to do now?" I laughed and said "Uh.. there is no 'supposed to'. Do whatever you want." So she timidly licked some of the cum off my dick.
Definitely recommend banging a virgin. Just bare in mind you will 100% have to lead EVERYTHING and be the teacher, and the chick is going to get majorly attached. Also takes an insane amount of patience if you don't want to hurt her. And it's a strange experience because there you are, just having sex, which is something you've done many times before. But the person you're doing it with is having her mind blown because this is a totally new experience for her.
Haha virgins are hilarious. What other funny stuff did your girl do?
Girl I was with kept asking me in the most deadpan voice, "How would you rate this experience so far?" Like she was doing a survey. Fucking made me crack the fuck up every time.
Twice I teased her about something for being a girl, and she said in the most SERIOUS voice, "I do not conform to gender stereotypes". And then proceeded to conform to every female stereotype you could ever think of.
When we were about to have round 2, she said "I don't want to." I said "You alright? Still nervous?"
"I just don't want to."
*Then she starts kissing me*
I stopped her and said "Fair enough, you don't have to. But we can't keep making out - it turns me on and makes me want to fuck you. So stop kissing."
She gets this serious look on her face and says "Do you only want me for sex??"
"No, I want you for your riveting conversations"
*We had sex again*
We have literally met up FOR SEX, we were under no illusions it was anything but a "let's fuck" meetup. She was literally meeting me to lose her virginity. We met on fucking CRAIGSLIST lol. And she says the classic female nonsense "Do you only want me for sex??????" Lol bitches are fucking hilarious
Been in a funk the last week. I'll spare the details because they don't really matter. What matters is pulling myself out of it.
Today on the way to tennis I walked past lots of chicks. Got some eye contact from a few but usually 1-2secs.
One chick gave about 3 secs, and I smiled and she smiled back. Then I said "cute." Felt fucking awesome. Masculine. Doing this shit is so radically different from what society says is "normal" or "acceptable".
Tomorrow I'll get back on the horse properly. I wanna get to day 46 so I can cold approach.
Ok, did a couple more after tennis. I seem to be getting a lot more eye contact (maybe because I'm in a good mood?) Got a few to smile back at me which is fucking awesome. One girl giggled when I called her cute.
Did other stuff too like telling people I liked their shirt, etc. I enjoy being social. Makes me feel alive.
Tomorrow will be a good day. I already feel like I'm in a better mood.
I'm (slowly) learning to take action even when I don't feel like it. Take action and your mood improves. It's NOT "improve your mood and then take action".
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