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@NumberOneStag: Cheers man. Definitely recommend the AA program. It's so much fun and I'd even recommend it to guys who don't have AA. It's just an awesome, awesome life-changing program.
@Mike: Dude that was the best thing you've posted. You blew my mind.
Funny, I didn't really think about it like that. Talking to strangers during the day is so damn normal now. It's as normal as tying my shoelaces.
You're right, most guys have to be drunk to even talk to girls. Last night in the clubs EVERYONE was hammered and sloppy (and it was only 11pm), and I bet I was the only sober person there. And I noticed nobody was talking to anybody else. What I mean is, people had their own "groups". And none of those groups intermingled. And I was like the ONLY single guy there by myself - I went to like 3 clubs, 3 bars, and I was the only person who wasn't there with other people. I did a fair bit of clubbing when I was younger and my experience was the same - nobody was there by themselves. Nobody was sober. And almost nobody actually talked to anyone else.
Man, you really put it into perspective. Yeah it's weird that we're comfortable during the day. And this week (week 6) is when things really get real, since you're being so direct with girls. I dreaded doing the night time stuff, I'm looking forward to doing this daytime stuff. I'm nervous and excited as hell. Whereas I'd rather stick my dick in a blender than do night time stuff.
And think about it: Daytime is WAY better. The chicks aren't wearing 10 tonnes of makeup. It's bright outside, so you can actually see what they look like (it's hard to tell in a club). They're by themselves, so they don't have the bitch shield up, and their friends aren't there to cockblock you. They're nicer during the day. You're both sober, so it's a real interaction, instead of this weird sloppy drunk shit. You can hit on them while you're just going about your normal day, instead of having to spend time and money actively going to a club to get laid. Plus you REALLY set yourself apart since nobody ever does this shit. Guaranteed that 100+ girls have already told their friends "holy shit, this guy came up to me and sung ABCs at me today! WTF!" or "This guy just walked up to me, said "YO. You're cute." It was so random!!!!!"
"By most peoples standards that borders on insanity."
Yep. I'll take crazy and creepy over "normal" any day though.
Good points. Have been thinking the same stuff. For me, goals are:
- Get ripped. Been skinny-fat all my life, I want a good body and good strength that will see me through to old age. And it'll MASSIVELY help with picking up chicks (especially on tinder lol).
- Photography career. I have the potential, I'm extremely talented with the camera/photoshop. Have been in a few magazines. I started to find success last year but put it on hold for all of this sex stuff
Interesting you want to do the GOA program. I'm tempted, and maybe I'll do parts of it at some point (because as you've said in the past, if something generates fear in us, it's worth tackling). But at the same time, I don't think I'll really ever go out at night - I'm usually busy most nights with social stuff/sports, and I like it that way. You'll absolutely kill the GOA program after doing the AA prog.
What's the social anxiety program? Do you have a link?
Lol I'm up because it's 11am in the morning here in aussie land.
May have it confused with the GOA program .. Makes sense as they are essentially one and the same. Not to mention that if you beat AA then it's not too likely you have much Social Anxiety.
Have you considered photoshoots for glamour models.. ?
My rough 1 year plan is:
<3 months, beat AA, get fuckbuddies, relocate to Birmingham to facilitate said lifestyle. Go into a shared flat to get into a friendship group and have a new group of mates (isolated currently with only workmates to go out with)
<6 months, raise my wage from 19k to 25k by getting a job in Birmingham doing what I currently do. Retain said friends but move into my own apartment in the centre (shag pad).
<12 months, make the shagging women thing a lifestyle. Save money. Live well. Take care of myself physically. This year is for me to nail this aspect of my life, basically. To taste what I've been 'missing' so I can evaluate what I really want from life.
<24 months, develop a skill that will allow me to work for myself (self employed)
In short: Fucking, finances/fun, freedom (in that order. Baby steps).
I'm 26 now. When I'm 31 I want to be independent, wise and mobile. A true citizen of the world with experience and knowlege. No more hamster in a wheel shit. Or settling down into a groove shit. Just comfortableish with change.
(I forgot you live in the future. What's 11am like?)
Birmingham would be sick, man. You'd slay it in a big city with lotsa girls.
Getting your own apartment is AMAZING. When I split with my ex about 7 months ago, I got my own pad. Decked it out with nice artwork, lots of plants, nice couch, amazing silk sheets on the bed, home gym with squat rack and shit, etc. It does WONDERS for your sex life. You can invite girls over without worrying about logistics. And girls seem to stick around for much longer (as in, keep coming back and stay your fuckbuddy) when you have a really nice place and no roommates. I've noticed they all seem impressed by my place too - it's a really nice pad with amazing balcony views. Nothing screams "financially independent with his shit together" than having a really nice, decked-out apartment close to the city centre.
Also means you can be REALLY loud with sex, and you can fuck them in every room of the house which is fun
I'm kinda "lost" when it comes to future goals. But I'm not too worried, I know I'll figure it out when I get there. Right now I'm just hitting this AA/sex stuff hard and enjoying every second of it. Still blows my mind that I have the power to get laid. I have a sex life - a GOOD sex life. And it'll only get better. Holy shit.
You're really motivated, Mike. You inspire me.
EDIT: There's also some sexual goals I want to meet. A few fantasies I want to play out. The biggest one is having a 3some. I have a feeling I'll be able to make that happen pretty soon - most girls are bi or at least bi curious.
Wow, Andy - your art is mental. That is so abstract for me that I don't even have anything to compare it to! My job is to issue blueprints for houses (draughtsman). It's technically creative but in a directly opposite way to what you do. Interesting..
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