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Yeah you're right. Hence doing 2 chicks today. It's not much but it at least got me "back in the game", tomorrow I'll finish the rest of the drill.
Yeah I miss that novelty we had at the start. I know it's going to come back as soon as I hit week 6 (saying "you're cute" to chicks). I'm really looking forward to that. Just gotta jump this last hurdle.
Yeah, the consistent part is what I've been missing - even though that's my advice to others. From now on I'll give myself a rule - I have to do drills every day, but I only have to talk to a minimum of one chick per day. That's super easy to do (no excuses) and will keep the momentum up.
Saturday today, so I work all day. Went out for a minute before work & did drill on 1 chick. Great reaction to compliments & I thought "fucking hell... Why have I been lazy the last week, I forgot how fun these drills are." On lunch break I'll head out & do couple more.
Taken 3 days off from work next week. I wanna get a headstart on Week 6 & get it done ASAP. Enough fucking around. Realistically I should have week 6 finished by mid-week next week. Then I get to finally join Dan in the realm of hitting on chicks for real. Holy shit.
Asian chick from other night (I should start using names so it's easier... Ok, her name starts with "Kr")... Kr texted me a bunch last night (Friday night). Bitch is hornyyyyyyyyyyy. We're gonna bang again on monday. It's really fun banging a chick who doesn't have a lot of experience. She's obviously had lots of sex, but only with her 3 longterm boyfriends and they must have all been plain "vanilla" in the bedroom. So everything is very new and novel to her. It's fun.
"I want to get back on dating more than I want the drills, but I think that is because dating is complete new thing for me."
Yeah, I feel the same way. I want to do the dates and the sex more than the drills. Because dating/sex is pretty easy, and fun, and you get a reward (sex). Sex is fucking AWESOME. The AA drills are hard, and the reward is smaller. AA drills feel like "work", and dating/sex is "pleasure".
I sure as hell don't feel like a badass. Really pissed at myself for being slack with the AA drills.
"Ka" (the 9) she's texted a couple of times, she's been busy this week. She seems keen to meet again, but I'm not sure when it's going to happen. Who cares, I have two other chicks to bang. BESIDES, I WANNA FOCUS ON AA. Wish I could turn my sex drive off for a week, lol. Cut my dick off or something
At the end everything ends up being black or white
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killtheinnerloser wrote: Wish I could turn my sex drive off for a week, lol. Cut my dick off or something
Yeah the dates feel fucking amazing, I don´t know about sex lol
But the benefits/rewards of the program are awesome too.
Without it I would feel a lot more anxiety before speeches and would suck with every girl.
I have found myself having female friends for the first time in my life.
I think one of them (really hot, but dresses slutty) is falling for me.
We (a friend, she and I) where on a lake and there was a baby duck following his mother. She was in love with the duck.
I said "Ha it´s cute". She looked at me for a few seconds.
Today she gave me some food (haha sounds bad). Also said that she only invites a guy when she is into him (I don´t know if it counts as invite).
She told me that I have to hit on a girl from the class (she is on the same class as I). She said "you should hit on XXXX... oh, but she has a boyfriend"
There was this idiot from class who tried to humiliate me and ended up making a fool of himself because I could managed his indirect "insults" better.
Try to see the other rewards of the program, not only the sex-related.
(You're right about Dag by the way. I'm glad I don't have any daughters).
This is a FUCKED UP programme to do. As a person you can do therapy, counselling etc but it's all very private and hush hush (overcoming problems in secret etc).
This stuff isn't like that at all. By everyone else's standards we were already 'normal', no matter how fucked up we were. We fitted in, we behaved, we were only occasionally wild and fun (free). Then we took a look at ourselves and said 'FUCK THAT, I'M GOING TO BUILD MYSELF INTO A BETTER MAN'. So we started changing who we were. And here we are. We aren't doing isolated comfortable chats. We're standing up in front of crowds of people in malls and streets and just fucking throwing it down for everyone to see. And the most fucked up bit is that the change is OVERT. We can actually see results. Actual measurable changes in confidence, personality, sex partners, etc.
Dag had his first kiss but that's not the key thing for me, the key thing is that he put himself there (that's a bigger deal than the result). You've met a girl (30yo) in a bar and then taken her home and fucked her. Dan has got laid from cold approach already. I've been on a couple of dates and I've got a POF booty call lay.
Funny how you say you never really considered getting to this point (in terms of what it'd feel like).. Three months sounds like a long time but it's not really, is it?
It's 5 minutes away from 9pm, just about to head out and do the squeeze 20 bitches on their slutty little arms and say "Yo cunt, nice style, I dig it you whore". Slightly nervous but not that much. Actually truth be told I'm so fucking pumped I might accidentally punch one in the face. SERIOUSLY PUMPED BRO
For me the most impressive stuff about Dag is the shit you didn't see. He spammed me a lot lol, asking for advice because he genuinely has never fucking done anything like this. He was completely 100% at a loss for what to do.
But every thing I told him to do, he just fucking did it. No arguments, no "are you sure I have to do that?", no bullshit like "that seems hard man... I don't know if I can do that." He'd just say "Thanks for the advice" and then the next day I'd get another email "OK SO I DID THAT AND IT WORKED! What do I do now? Quick, reply quickly!"
Just put his head down and did the work, every single day. Even though he had absolutely no evidence, no past experience, no idea if it would work or not. Completely vulnerable. Top shit.
You too. I had no idea if you'd stick at it or give up. You just came out of nowhere, this mild-mannered British gentleman (you're now a certified Sick Cunt) and you've barely stopped to have a breather. You motivate the shit outta me. Doubly so because you got out of a super long marriage and it's been a decade since you've done anything like this. That's insane.
Don't even get me started on Dan. That bitch has been my inspiration from Day 1. To think I'll soon be cold approaching like he is doing... Fuck that's insane. It's like saying "I'll soon be shooting hoops with Michael Jordan."
Re: 3 months, where'd that come from? Did I say it? I've only been doing this program 1month2weeks (started on 4th September).
Heh, agree with everything you've said. Have a great night mate. I don't say a lot but I read between the lines and have a good idea of how everyone interacts on here, and how they are doing with the program. I'm really impressed by everyone.
I said three months as that's how long I thought the program was.. I've not really considered it tbh LOL
Totally agree, can see exactly where you're at, and I'm excited for you (and for me, and for Dag too).
Regarding feeling out of the water at night (relative to daytime anyway).. Just consider this and mull it over for a moment.
(I feel the same by the way).
Seriously - feeling more comfortable walking up to girls you've never met, and chatting them up IN THE DAY is more natural than in a bar at night.
Huge props to Chris and everyone that contributed to this program. Because THAT is fucked up.
Most guys have to drink 5 pints and have their mates goad them on to even walk up to a fit girl in a bar, and even then they are usually approaching from a perspective of 'I'll probably get turned down but I need to show the boys I'm not a pussy'.
A good guy can chat up a couple of girls in each bar over the course of an hour or so by making small talk and being a novelty dancer (and being super trendy and good looking whilst he does it, the ugly guys don't even think of it).
This is the only occasion most guys actually try to chat up girls. The ONLY occasion.
And you're more comfortable in the DAY.. Which nobody does. That makes you fucking WEIRD. By most peoples standards that borders on insanity.
There's a phrase 'laughing your way to the bank' that comes to mind. Well done. This is all hard earned but I think we'll all admit it's not THAT hard earnt for the benefits we are reaping.
And again, huge props to Chris for creating this fucked up, weird, creepy program that changes people so effectively for the better.
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