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Funny ass video dude! Im one of the guys for sure haha but your totally right keeping the ball rolling seems to be the only way. I have been meaning to ask you how many obligations do you have in your life, Im thinking I might need to subtract a few in order to keep going consistently.... because daaaaam you have been blowing these day away.
I've got a few things going on: I work 7 days a week (including about 12-16 hours on sat + 12-16hrs on sun), lift weights 3 times a week, I'm cutting (losing weight) so I don't have much energy most of the time, online dating+sex (which I've cut back on because it was getting in the way of the AA program), couple of sports commitments 2 nights per week.
So I'm definitely busy. But it's about "making it your number 1 priority" as Chris says. For example, a couple of weeks ago I had 2 days without doing drills, I got so annoyed at myself I actually took a day off work and spent most of it at a University and did 5 days worth of drills. One day I had absolutely NO energy because of my diet, so I cheated on my diet and ate a bunch of carbs so I'd have energy for drills. Actually, I've done that twice now. I've skipped 2 workouts (I normally NEVER skip workouts) so I'd have enough time for drills. Some days I really have had no time for drills, so I'll just ask one or two women for the time, just so I feel like I'm still doing something. I've been having success with online dating/sex, but it was getting in the way of the AA program so I've completely stopped the online dating (which was hard to do - it's hard to say no to sex). I've said no to quite a few social gatherings so I could do drills instead.
So that's what I mean by #1 priority - being willing to sacrifice all the other stuff you care about in order to have time for the AA program. I'm not saying it's easy (it's an incredibly hard program). That's why the only way you're going to get through it is by making it your top priority (Chris even says this when you sign the petition on day 1). If not, I'd honestly consider waiting until a time when you can make it your #1.
@Dag: Lol I was SO NERVOUS to say "I'm not a rapist". I was so excited because it's such a crazy drill, I even texted my friend and said "I'm about to tell 30 girls I'm not a rapist, wish me luck." The first 3 girls I did it on was so hard but you just gotta force yourself to say it. After about the 5th girl it's REALLY easy, you'll be surprised. I said it in front of lots of girls with boyfriends and groups of girls so in total probably about 60 people heard me say it.
"U mad bro" maybe just say "Are you angry?" The whole point of week 5 is to be SERIOUS, you're not supposed to joke or be funny or laugh. So "Are you angry?" will work.
For the phone, just sing "ring ring ring ring!" then say "Hey, is that your phone ringing? I think your phone is ringing." Like I said, week 5 is supposed to be serious week, so just try and convince the girl her phone is ringing, don't worry about "banana phone".
Yeah I laugh a lot throughout the day. This morning I was laughing loudly about the super angry woman from yesterday.
The last 15 seconds of your video was the most Australian thing I've ever seen - A pale ginger man doing poses whilst asking about the beach. Not that I watched it to the end or owt..
Faith in cultural norms restored.
On a different tack, you big slut, I found that today I was anxious before my drills (nervous).. I think this is because like you i've had 4 days off the 'talking' drills (trying to nail the touching one).
Spot on talking to the gf of the macho mohawk guy.. Nice to hear about his reaction too. Today I said 'hey' as the initial rep of the drill to a couple of girls with bf's (they were proper checking me out).. Left a funny look on their face LOL.
Re. posting a vid each day, I suggested it as it keeps you accountable. It's harder to spew out excuses if you're on tape to an audience that won't let you off the hook. I'm sure you've had a few days off in a row before and come to the same conclusion you have today! (Might be wrong though). But whatever works.. You're doing just fine as it is.
Lol a pale ginger man is like the most un-Australian thing ever. Fuck this Irish blood.
It makes sense that you'd be nervous to get back into the talking ones. I actually find the talking ones make me more nervous than the physical ones (high-fives, squeezing arms, etc), and more nervous than the silly ones (where's the beach, ABCs, etc). I feel more "vulnerable" when doing the talking ones because you're being serious and putting yourself on the line a bit more. I'm more nervous saying "Do you know where ____ is? Have you been there?" than saying "MY MUM SAYS I LOOK GOOD IN SUSPENDERS"
You have some pretty crazy demands on your time, guess I cant use that as an excuse... FUCK! It is encouraging to see someone with a full scheduled knocking this shit out that's been my biggest obstacle but at the end of the day you have gotten farther and sleep harder. Ive been thinking about it lately and that is true without this being at the top of the list no way are you going to maintain it.
Somehow it seems funny asking people to check their banana phones should be so high on our priority list but it is, the more I think about this program and the further I watch people progress Im addicted.
Hey dude- good work with the drills =)
You seem real cool in your videos and sound like you're having fun with it.
I'm currently on day 17 and fucking stuck. I really don't know what to do... Got any tips?
What you sow is what you reap
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Andy kills his inner loser (AA VLOG)
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@eric93: I'll quote what Chris says in one of the audios (I think it's like day 21 audio or something). "How do you do this crazy shit? You just do it. You just fucking do it."
You're overthinking it. How do you sing your ABCs to girls. You just walk up to a girl, say "Yo! ABCDEFG". Then you walk away.
You just do it. Just do the first girl. It gets easier after that. Stop thinking. Start DOING.
Checkin: No drills the last 3 days, lol. I completely fucking wrecked my sleep, I get to pick my work hours and I've ended up working all night and sleeping during the day. Next week will be more regular hours. To make sure I don't lose social momentum I've been asking a few chicks for the time and making smalltalk. Will get back into drills in the next day or two.
Tonight I just had maybe the best sex of my life. Really hot asian chick, super petite, maybe an 8. (She was already "in the pipeline" before I took the break from online dating). Met in a bar near my place, chatted for a while, then took her back to mine.
She was really nervous, like really really really really nervous. She later told me she's only had sex with 3 guys, all of them were asian guys, and she's never had casual sex in her entire life. She's very "asian" - works really hard, strict family, only ever been in longterm relationships, hasn't tried any drugs, etc. She said she had the thought "What the hell am I doing???" about 20 times before meeting me.
Jesus, the sex was fucking amazing. She's REALLY petite and thin so at first I was "too big" for her. (I'm average sized). I can't tell you how much of an ego boost it is to hear "Oh god it's so big" over and over during sex. She kept complaining I was hurting her and I'd slow down and then she'd yell at me for stopping lol. I didn't use the bathmate beforehand and I don't think I will with her, she was tight enough already. She was also pretty "conservative" - she kept blushing and smiling when I said dirty things to her. Cute.
We got to my place at about 6.30, and banged until about 11.30 (with breaks in between of course). Jesus it was insane, seriously probably the best of my life. Fucking hell. She absolutely loved having her hair pulled, being spanked, hand on the neck, etc. Towards the end she really came out of her shell and said "fuck my pussy, fuck me!" which surprised me.
Will definitely see her again. She was really cool too - super feminine and giggly, loved being teased (all girls do). But also very intelligent and cool to talk to - she's got a high-level job, lots of money, smart. She's actually older than me (31) which normally I never bother with but she doesn't seem to have any of the hangups older girls normally have. Being asian she also looks about 20 lol. I actually said to her quite a few times, "No way you're 31, I seriously don't fucking believe you. You're too happy and giggly to be 31. You're supposed to be a bitter old bitch by now."
Been lazy with the AA program but I don't even give a fuck right now. Jesus this was a good night.
God damn. Seriously. Sitting here thinking this really was the best bang (well, bangs) I've had.
Yeah, Asian chicks are great. Usually have skinny bodies instead of the chunky fat average women walking around these days. Asians are way more feminine and more submissive instead of "strong independent woman" (which really means "massive bitch"). They're more appreciative of masculinity. They're (usually) not massive sluts. And heaps of them seem to have a fetish for white guys, especially because their culture encourages them to only date Asian guys. Also the "tight asian girl" thing is not just a stereotype. Super eager to please - like your example of the girl who gave you blowjobs without you asking.
Dude I literally have no idea how you manage to do the AA program when you have so much pussy in your life.
I'm also really excited for you man. You're getting real close to the best part of the AA program. Considering your preexisting rotation of 3 girls, you're going to absolutely DESTROY when you start doing it for real. Goddamn man, what a good time to be alive.
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