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Lol Mike when you gonna start a youtube channel? Call it "Mike Reacts to ______"
The "oneitis" thought is a really good question, I'm glad you said it. I definitely feel like "Fuck, I really want to see her again" WAY more than usual simply because she was my first hot chick.
But I get that feeling anyway with every girl - I don't like one night stands. I've tried it lots in the past and I just can't force myself to enjoy it. One night stand sex can be awesome, but I personally prefer to keep a girl around for a while to have sex with. I've been banging my favourite fuckbuddy for 6 months now.
So I get minor "oneitis" feelings with every girl I bang, especially if I've been banging her for a while. I genuinely give a shit about my 6-month fuckbuddy. But as long as you're aware of it, you can "keep a lid on it" and manage your emotions. I'd never, ever tell my 6-month fuckbuddy any of the stuff I just wrote. It's easier to keep her chasing me and seeking my approval - she gets genuinely excited and GRATEFUL when I tell her I'm free to chill out.
And the best way to minimise "oneitis" is to have a few girls you're sleeping with + actively be working on getting more. If I couldn't see my favourite fuckbuddy anymore I'd be genuinely sad (really sad), but there's (at least) 2 other girls I could have sex with + go out and find some more.
Have you thought about what kind of sex/relationship/etc "format" is your type?
Re: the crazy chick:
Man I wish she was just joking. At first I thought she was messing with me but she kept laughing while talking about how she busted this chick, and saying she got away with it. She also said she could murder someone and get away with it because she'd tell them she was bi polar.
And after I left, she texted me a bunch of times, shit like "I should have told you I was weird" "Lol sorry I'm not what you are looking for" "Hey I know I'm not like other girls" "Sorry I was a little too quirky for you lol" -> I ignored every one of these texts but she just kept texting.
"And about the hot one, I wish that you start getting used to that." I still feel like it was a fluke, like it was just luck. I still don't believe I "deserve" hot chicks yet, I really don't. Last night was scary because I honestly felt like she was too hot and I was scared to kiss her. I have this feeling like I won't see her again, she'll regret the sex or something and not talk to me again. I honestly think it would hurt my confidence if I didn't see her again, I'd really take the rejection personally. As dumb as that is.
I'm super confident with less attractive girls, but I'm really insecure with hotties still.
I guess that's something we're all working on, right?
At the end everything ends up being black or white
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That is the exact same feeling I get with Am.
Just that I haven´t even kiss her.
Dude you deserve hot girls. You have come very far on this program and have worked your ass out to make your best. Even doing multiple drills on one day. You have been using the bathmate and working on for a muscular body. That is HUGE.
If someone deserves to have a 10 of a fuckbuddy is you.
Between BiB, Mikeexplotions, you and me; you are the one who is taking this more seriosly.
Lol dude I disagree with that - Dan (BiB) is the most hardcore dude I've ever seen. Absolutely killing this program and he no longer has much AA. Insane. He's my hero.
Yeah it's the same thing with you and Am. I mean we both know we could get girls like that. In theory, we know it's possible. But when it comes to doing it, there's still those thoughts of "I don't deserve her".
Which is why I keep saying to you, practice on other girls like Em (and others). We've got to keep practising, gaining confidence, getting better with women, having more and more sex and work our way up to banging 9's. And one day we'll wake up and we'll realise "Wow, I've had sex with quite a few 9's now. You know what? I really DO deserve to be banging hot chicks. They're lucky to have me."
Im seriously excited. Andy could be becoming a playa??? This chick definitely seems to think so, she said it a billion bloody times last night. When she comes over ill see if i can talk her into letting me take a good photo of her (with my good camera). Will post it on here.
Lol, after sex last night when we were in bed, i said "sweet. Now i can ring my mum and tell her i lost my virginity"
She cracked up then said "how many girls have you used that on?"
This bitch is savvy.
No drills today, i got 3hrs sleep thanks to the 9, and have been zombie all day. Yeah that's an excuse, but who cares.
I broke things off with one of my fuckbuddies, the 27yo. I wasnt hugely into her, and she's definitely seeking a proper relationship. And I dont feel like having to keep up a lie by saying "sure lets date and be monogamous". I let her down easy ("its me, not you") and she took it well.
So now my 3 girls are:
1) the hot 18yo asian ive been seeing for 6 months
2) the hot 9 from last night who ill bang again on Monday
3) the 23yo cute Colombian, she's coming over again in a few hours
I can't believe i have 3 fuckbuddies, all of whom genuinely make my dick rock hard. And all 3 of them are fairly cool and fun to talk to, i never feel like i have to "tolerate" them in order to get sex. I like their company.
Also in the last 9 weeks ive lost 6kg (thats like 11 pounds i think?) My strength has gone up a TINY bit in the gym - im just glad it hasnt gone down since ive been cutting pretty hard
Another day without doing drills. Colombian came over really late, banged until 4am. Only got few hours sleep, 2 nights in a row. Zombie all day.
Putting a pause on online dating. Cancelled a couple of dates. I know the benefits, but I clearly can't do online dating + AA program. I get caught up in the fun of dates + fucking new girls, and forget AA is my priority.
So no more until I finish the program. I won't even log in until I finish week 8. I don't need it anyway - I have 3 fuckbuddies. Only 3.5 weeks from the end of the program, I need to finish this.
Gonna go out after work and do the drill on just one girl, to keep momentum up.
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