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Hey man, read through some of your logs and I gotta say you definitely have the right attitude with redoing the drills you find scary. Seriously good job. Also can relate to family hating on your doing the AA program. No one I know in real life knows that I'm doing this creepy program, but if they did know, they would probably give me a lot of shit.
I'm on day 25 and had a little rough start. Gonna redo the drill tomorrow mid day, so its not as weird as asking whats for lunch at 7PM.
I find focusing on the right mindset while doing these drills (focus on restructuring my brain chemistry/creating new synapses), rather than focusing on reactions from girls is paramount to seeing success in this program. Its tough, but I commonly find myself caring about how girls react, when that isn't the point at all.
Maybe we should stop posting how girls respond in our logs and only write about our own performance to stress that focus... just an idea.
And good job on the tinder dates. I've only been on dates with one girl since starting the AA program and I haven't had any success on tinder. My pictures are probably shit. Can't seem to get any really hot girls on tinder, but I feel like really hot girls are into me in real life, which tells me again that my pics are dogshit.
Anyway I wish you best of luck, and I hope we can both beat this obstacle to getting the lifestyle we want.
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Hey man, thanks for the feedback, and sorry for the late reply! I would try sharing with some of your more trustworthy friends that you’re doing this. I’ve shared with a lot of my friends, and most of them have been very supportive, even if they think some of the drills are bad ideas. It can actually help your attitude about it. Doing the drills is probably harder when you feel like no one can find out you’re doing them. Just tell people you’re shy so you’re doing something to force yourself to get out and talk to strangers. The family member who accused me of trying to be a "Maxim Bro" (guilty as charged) is not in a good place, hasn't been for more than a decade and has severe emotional issues (I wish so much I could help him, but I can't) and obsession over mild childhood trauma. Honestly, it's immature for me to react to him. It's him who's in a bad place, not me.
Try sharing it with guys. If they’re not so emotionally screwed up they can’t admit they’re probably afraid to approach the hottest girl in the bar, they’ll totally relate to what you’re doing.
“What’s for Lunch” was pretty hard for me at first. I felt so weird. Make yourself do it for an hour, on 20 or so girls, and then you won’t care.
I think the fact we care about the reactions we get is *precisely* what we’re here to beat. So I wouldn’t get too worried about noticing you actually care. If you didn’t, then you’ve basically already beaten AA. After all, isn’t approach anxiety really just “bad reaction” anxiety? It’s not like we’re anxious about getting a yes (that would be sexual anxiety)! I definitely care, but I’m making an effort not to (and I legitimately care less than I would have at the start, 3 months ago that experience at the bar would have ruined my night, instead of bothering me for 10 minutes). I think the most important point is, getting to a point you don’t care requires you to experience it over and over when you do care. That’s what exposure therapy is all about. I wouldn't be making any progress if I was only getting good reactions. For that reason, I think it’s a good idea to share the bad reactions. When you write them down, you get them out of your head, and on paper they look mundane. It’s when they’re floating around in your mind that they become a really big deal.
I used Tinder several times starting back in Feb this year, and got absolutely nowhere. In fact, for the first several months I used it intermittently, I did not get a single conversation started with a girl on it, except for one time where I got a phone number and it immediately went cold. Then when I started the AA program I showed my pictures to the forum members here. They helped me see what I was doing wrong and it was after that everything changed, and since then I’ve been on 11 dates with 9 girls, and got laid from one of them. If you haven’t already, share your pictures in the Member’s Only section. The more experienced guys will help you out. You have the right attitude though, which I didn’t at first (lack of success there made me start thinking I’m ugly). It’s not you that’s not succeeding on Tinder, it’s your profile. Change it up until you get it to work.
Good luck to you to man, I’ll keep an eye on your AA log!
So this last week was going pretty well but then it pretty much unravelled, and I’ll explain why. I did drills on Monday and Tuesday, the first two days of Week 5, and both went smoothly. On Wednesday I took the day off to meet up with a girl from Tinder. It was a good date (and she was pretty hot), but the girl is super busy and is going out of town so I’m not sure if logistically I can meet up with her again. I’ll see what I can do there.
Thursday, I spent a while on the phone catching up with a friend, and then since I needed to go to the gym, I basically decided I don’t have time to do drills and I’ll just do double time on Friday.
Friday came around, and I fucked it all up again the same way I always do… by smoking weed all day. Not only did I not do any drills, I didn’t go out with my roommates like I planned and just stayed in, lounging around in the stoney haze that has become the theme of the last decade of my life. I was so distraught by this, I actually sent myself a text message on Saturday morning when I woke up, saying, “It’s ruining your life” (I see it in my phone whenever I open up Messages). The “it” is weed. I decided gradually tapering off until I’m just having a smoke once a month or so just plain isn’t working. I keep relapsing into smoking all day every day. So I’m done. For at least 1 whole year, starting yesterday, October 18 (smoked a small amount before bed on Saturday, didn’t smoke at all yesterday), I’m not smoking one single fucking bit of weed. I announced this to my roommates, one of which was pretty supportive. My doctor’s rec expires in December and I’m not going to renew it. I don’t need it, I don’t want it, and I have to convince my stubborn brain it’s just plain not necessary for me. Going a year without smoking at all will prove to me that life is much better without it. It’s so obvious now that I’m sabotaging myself. I’m usually irritable, antisocial and/or a-motivated, even when my life is going well (I’ve missed most of the wild nights my roommates had going out, even though I was free to go out with them), and it's because I'm fucking up my dopamine levels. I figure after a year, when I allow myself to consider smoking occasionally (never more than once a month), I won’t even want to. It will be the proof that life is much, much better without it.
You often have to hit rock bottom to finally make positive changes. I was so upset this whole weekend about this experience it has given me the strength to firmly make the decision to myself that I am done, completely. I’ve quit cold turkey before, it’s not hard, and I believe 100% that I’ll stick with it this time, especially since I’m sharing it here. I have good diet, exercise, supplementation and concrete life goals to carry me through the brief, mild withdrawal (3-5 days) and cravings I’ll deal with for several months moving forward. I will never give in to them. Not fucking once.
I ordered some THC test strips to keep myself focused. It will be a short-term victory when I start pissing clean and the THC is totally out of my system (though I've smoked so much it will probably take 6-8 weeks).
Anyways, enough about that. I’m restarting Week 5 from the beginning and this time I’m doing it right. Also, I had a really great date last night with another Tinder girl, this very sexy Mexican girl (ohh how I love those Latinas). We talked for almost 3 hours, until we literally got kicked out of where we were, and she said she should be free to meet again tomorrow (Tuesday). Even if that doesn’t go anywhere, that was a really positive experience for me to have. I should not be wasting my life getting stoned and looking at shit I want to buy on Amazon while watching the same fucking TV show I’ve seen a hundred times (I’m strongly considering unplugging the TV too). I should be spending my life in the company of women, and people in general, doing cool, active stuff, not staring at screens in a cloud of weed smoke.
Also, I lost another .6% body fat this week (now I’m at 14.4%), all from my stomach (the caliper measurement went down by 2 units, I think millimeters). That’s super encouraging. I can’t wait until my six pack is showing and, especially, my facial features come out. I should be able to kill it on Tinder once I get some good photos of me at 8% body fat. Sticking to it I should be there in 8-12 weeks.
So, back to Day 32 this evening. 1 hour of drills every day, and going out by myself 2 times a week (leaving 1 night open to go out with roommates). Sweatervest’s era of Nerdy Self-Righteous Stoner are officially over. Let the era of Outgoing Active Down-to-Earth Player (with a little bit of nerdy juxtaposition) begin.
Thank you GLL community for catalyzing my effort to close the most boring chapter of my life.
On Monday I redid Day 32. I was entirely bored the whole time, the drill is very easy for me, so I was okay with doing the “bare minimum” (18 girls total) for about 45 minutes (mall wasn’t crowded, I went pretty late). The no weed policy is going smoothly, I haven’t smoked a bit since Saturday night.
Tuesday, I skipped doing drills to go on a second date with the sexy Mexican I met on Sunday. Details
. No sex, but we did fool around, and I got in good practice at escalating on a girl who I think is super hot.
Yesterday evening I repeated Day 33. Again I just did the "bare minimum" for about 45 minutes, since that's drill's already pretty easy. There were a couple of girls who were either in a hurry or just didn't want to talk to me, but I "hung in there" for the full 4 sentences, which was good practice.
On Thursday I did the Banana Phone drill (Day 34), which was the first drill of Week 5 that gave me a good challenge. Once I started it got pretty easy, and while most girls didn't seem to get, a few did and were amused. I did the "bare minimum" again, but at the end I didn't feel totally bored/comfortable so I decided it was worth repeating.
On Friday, I put myself into a bad mood getting sucked into a stupid political debate on Facebook, and in response I unfollowed every political page I "like" so that they don't show up in my news feed anymore. I used to be obsessed with politics (in the sense I hated politics and was trying to fight for its nonexistence), but after reading Chris' article on negativity and some other stuff I realized it's just a big waste of time. I'll nerd out on economics and political philosophy when I'm an old man with a wife and kids. This is my '20s, which is not the time for all that intellectual stuff (I think it's good I have some of it under my belt, it will create a good juxtaposition with my currently edgy style, but that's it). Anyways, I skipped drills Friday but now that stuff's all gone so it won't distract me anymore.
Today, I spent hours and hours at the mall to catch up and prepare for the bar drill. I started by repeating the Banana Phone drill, again doing the bare minimum but after that I was bored/comfortable with it. The very first girl I talked to was flirty with me, so that helped me get my momentum going.
Then I did the Bro talk drill (Day 35), which I've actually been looking forward to. It was a little weird at first to bro talk with girls, but I eventually started having fun with it. The first few girls, when they responded to, "U Mad Bro" with, "huh?", I didn't repeat myself, but eventually I did to make sure they understood. Most of them thought it was pretty funny. This one girl, who was insanely attractive (at least I though so), she was my last rep so I did the full sequence on her, and when I started to leave she said, "why do you think I'm mad!?" and I said, "it's cool, bro, no worries bro" haha. Then I ran into her later and said, "hey bro", and she responded, "don't be mad, bro!" The hotties are always the most fun to talk to.
Then I did the Super Nice Guy drill (Day 36). That definitely felt a little weird at first to give all those compliments, but I got comfortable with it pretty quick. It was all positive reactions of course, I put a smile on a lot of girls' faces! I only did the bare minimum, and felt pretty comfortable, but that one is worth repeating, which I'll do tomorrow.
Utterly exhausted I finally went home, set my alarm for 10:00PM and took a nap. I woke up at 10:45, realizing my fucking phone was on silent! So I scrambled to get dressed and just ran out the door to do the Hit & Run drill (Day 37). The bar drills still give me a lot of apprehension. I was stressing about it at the mall and then on the way there. But once I got there I really just "got in there", like I immediately did the first rep on one of the first girls I saw. I grabbed a beer (yeah, I'm drinking again, I'm still cutting but I'm done with the ketogenic diet, gonna change it up some so I can actually have some fun), though I ended up doing like 7-8 reps before it kicked in (and it was only one beer). I didn't want to wait in line again so I did the entire drill at one bar, which forced me to almost do the challenge (I ended up talking to most of the girls there). All positive/neutral reactions! Now that I'm actually interacting with these girls some I can see they smile and like the attention. The very first girl I did it to must have kept her eye on me because she later said to me, "what are you looking for, you're just walking around over and over!" (I told her I'm just talking to people, then touched her shoulder and asked her how her night was going). A few girls might not have heard me, but most of them did, and a few times I had to repeat myself. A girl would say, "what?" and I would lean in to tell her I like her style. They all liked the attention. I ended up getting in 22 (or 23, can't remember exactly) reps pretty quickly (probably in about 30 minutes or so). I was really stoked how easy it became! I'm pretty close to being just utterly comfortable at bars by myself, actually talking to and touching girls instead of just standing around.
I can't believe I only have 3 weeks left of the AA program. Progress has been huge, and it will be really interesting to see where I am when I finish the last day of drills.
Hopefully I'll be seeing the Mexican girl tomorrow, and if I do, it will be a new record since she'll be the first girl I've met on Tinder that I've seen 3 times.
Hey guys, giving an update here. I started Week 6 on Monday, which is super exciting, because now I’m getting in the area of actually approaching girls. I am still kind of in disbelief that I am able to walk up to random chicks and tell them they’re cute. The would have seemed completely impossible 3 months ago.
I did half of Day 38 on Monday, just saying, “you’re cute” to 20 girls as I walked by (I misread the drill and thought I was supposed to do 20 of that, then 20 of stopping girls, instead of 10 of each x2). Due to the small crowd that took me about 50 minutes. It took me a few minutes to get started, I was pretty nervous about it. By the end it was easy.
I did the second half of Day 38 on Tuesday, where I stopped 20 girls with, “hey, wait a second”, and then said, “you’re cute”. That also took a minute or two to get started, but also got completely easy by the end.
I got myself into a funk yesterday with arguing on social media again and ended up skipping drills. I cleared out some unnecessary “friends” I met back when I was super into politics, and I’m making a point to avoid wasting time on Facebook. Also the internet in general. Whenever I get "sucked into" something on the internet it puts me in a weird mood and I don't want to do anything productive.
I haven’t seen the Mexican girl again yet, she said she had to work late on Sunday, and she seems to be keeping a distance. She didn’t answer my text about hanging out early this week, so then I called her on Tuesday night, she didn’t answer, and I left a voicemail saying, “you call me and I’ll wait to hear from you”. She texted me back late that night. She usually takes a while but eventually responds to my texts, but she hasn’t agreed to another meet up. I’m not sure what the deal is, but I do know I’m putting too much emphasis on her and need to pull in some other girls.
The problem is I’m not getting enough matches anymore on Tinder. I posted some of the new pics I’ve taken lately
, which I thought would work really well, but they don’t seem to be giving the results I was hoping for. Any help from experienced/successful members would be greatly appreciated there. Even though I ended my dry spell, it wasn’t good sex so I’m still really pent up about having a good lay, and I’m starting to get envious of my roommates (all three of them are fucking girls regularly right now), and I hate getting into that mindset because it makes me an antisocial jerk (basically a hater). Chris is definitely right: anyone who tells you getting your sex life fixed “isn’t important” is full of shit. I’m distracted at work and in my social life by lack of sex, and I’m completely obsessed with this right now. Any and all of my time is toward something related to getting laid (I’m not trying to get laid by doing drills, but obviously I’m doing drills with the eventual goal of cold approaching for real).
I’m going to a rave in San Fran this weekend so that should be a fun time.
Hey dude, thanks for reaching out! I read your log of Day 37, it sounds like you had a really good experience! I'm with you, I always get nervous going out by myself, but the social momentum really kicks in. Ironically, I think being nervous out by myself has pushed me to "Get In There" so, at all the bar night drills, I end up doing the first rep within a minute of getting inside. That's awesome you did multiple girls in the same group and they noticed you were repeating yourself. I avoided doing that so that will be a challenge for me later. Haha that girl who said, "you can't just say I'm good looking" was probably into you.
Have you started Week 6 yet? It's a lot of fun. I’m still doing drills, but I did have a big relapse and wasted a lot of time this last couple of weeks. I’m doubling down this week and getting back into the groove.
The last two weeks I started smoking weed at night again, which started right before I went to San Francisco for Halloween. That was a good time, I went to a concert then to this late night club, and took some molly. I was imagining that taking molly would make me super social and talkative and I’d be hitting on lots of girls (it’s done that before), but it didn’t do that this time. It didn’t last as long as it has before for me, and I only wanted to talk to the people I was with. During the comedown I got really depressed and self-conscious about not getting much pussy and literally spent hours repeating to myself in my head, “100% dude, you’re in this 100%”, referring to the effort I’m putting into creating a fulfilling sex life for myself. It’s good I dealt with the low that way: by committing to taking action. I also handled the comedown by smoking a shitload of weed.
But for the past two weekends I went way overboard and literally stayed in my room the whole time getting stoned and basically daydreaming (with internet assistance). It was weird, I’ve reflected on what happened and I think I was punishing myself for relapsing. Basically, I fucked up and smoked weed a couple of times, so I went into “sports coach” mode and started beating myself up for making a mistake. I interpreted that mistake as proof I can’t keep my word and then just spent a bunch of time letting “toxic shame” take me over completely, so I literally did as much as I could to sabotage myself: smoking as much weed as I could handle, no AA drills, let my room turn into a pigsty, staying up late and messed up my sleep schedule, and totally fucking up my diet by both overeating and eating shitty food. I also missed a gym session. I don’t want to sound melodramatic, I didn’t really lose much ground, I just wasted a bunch of time.
Anyways, I’ve had enough and I’m focusing again on regaining my self-discipline and not having any more “zero days”. Over the last couple of weeks I only got through Day 40. No major issues, and a couple of girls seemed pretty eager to continue the interaction (I still bailed though).
Today, I went to do Day 41. I got through one “set” just fine, but the crowd was so thin it took me almost an hour to find 5 girls (I did let a couple slip by), so I’m gonna finish that tomorrow. I’m gonna try going to the mall during my lunch break to see if it’s more crowded. Otherwise, I’ll keep doing the drills in the evening and just stick with it as long as it takes. Tonight, I’m totally cleaning my room and car, doing my laundry, and getting some groceries so I can start cooking my dinners again. Total 180 from the weekend.
It’s all about taking action, and facing fears. That was an unfortunate delay, but ironically I think it was caused by being too melodramatic. So rather than get upset about it, I’ll just accept that it happened and move forward.
Checking in here, to give an update on my progress. First of all, I am slowly turning around my big loss of integrity over the month (constantly breaking my word and not doing what I need to be doing, in a lot of areas). I have a good morning routine going that involves taking a bike ride, doing full hygiene that I should be doing every day regardless, and taking cold showers. Cold showers are amazing: they are really intense and not too great while I’m taking it, but once I step out I feel fucking awesome. I’m still not fully completing all of my daily tasks and I’m still smoking, but I’ve realized one of my biggest problems is perfectionism, and I’m really aware now of how much it’s held me back. I get so obsessed with doing things flawlessly I get paralysis by analysis (as well as a lot of stress) and end up not taking action. With trying to cut back on smoking, it often backfires because I stress myself out over it, and smoking is my go-to stress relief. I still want to cut back, but a year of flawless abstinence put too much pressure on me. I’m coming up with a different strategy: one where I don't declare it (and my self) a complete and total failure if it isn't perfect.
Last week I finished Day 41 on Wednesday Nov. 18, and Day 42 on Thursday, Nov. 19. I was pretty lazy that weekend. I did go out with my roommates on Saturday, Nov. 21, but I didn’t really talk to any girls (except this one group we already knew) and was kind of depressed afterword (though there really wasn’t any reason to be). I did Day 43 on Monday, Nov. 23. No major trouble there, and this is the first time I actually high fived girls at the mall, instead of at the beach boardwalks where I usually did the high five drills. By this point it is easy. It’s really empowering to know that it was basically impossible for me to do that a couple of months ago, and now I can do it fine.
I went to do Day 44 on Tuesday, Nov. 24, but after walking around for an hour I didn’t get any eye contact for 3 seconds. That’s happened to me before at the mall (girls staring at me), but not very often. I read some other AA logs, like Rousseau’s, and saw that a lot of people were either skipping that day or modifying it (i.e. only requiring that they give eye contact, not that the girl return it for 3-5 seconds). I decided I want to do that drill properly, but I can’t let it hold up my progress on the next days, so I will do what some people described and try to knock it out while moving forward with other drills.
Wednesday and Thursday, the 25th and 26th, I took off for Thanksgiving, and on Black Friday, I went to the mall to hit the big milestone, taking advantage of the gigantic crowd that was there. First, I completed Day 45, which was a bit of a challenge but not too bad. I approached plenty of groups throughout the program so I was fairly used to that, though I never really interacted with all of the girls. Most of them just looked bewildered haha.
Then, after a taking a little break and getting some food, I hit Day 46: the Big Day. It took me a little bit to get started, but as usual once I got my social momentum it was fairly easy. The interesting thing about it was that this drill was “real” enough that I started getting “real” rejections. A few girls said they have boyfriends, and one straight up said, “sorry, I don’t want to meet you”. Good exposure. It’s no big deal and whatever reaction to it you have is totally in your head. I can now do a real approach with a manageable level of anxiety. Some other girls went along with it too.
All in all I spent about 5 hours at the mall, so even though I was planning on doing Day 47 that night, I was exhausted and decided to go to bed early. The next night, last Saturday, I wanted to do Day 47, but my roommate wanted to go out with me, and when we got to the bars the crowd was somewhat small so I decided I’ll just hang out with him and do Day 47 later. We chilled at this one bar and, after flirting with a couple of girls (and squeezing a few more girls’ arms, I kind of just do that now), I hit on this one girl and then just started dancing with her (didn’t ask permission or wait for an opening), and after a minute or two of dancing with her I just started making out with her. She was really into it and we ended up dancing and making out (the dancing actually kind of stopped eventually haha) in the middle of the dance floor, and according to my roommate a bunch of people took SnapChats of it. I got her number (though it took a couple of tries, she kept putting in the wrong number of digits), and then she left with her friend (who was cock-blocking the shit out of me). Obviously I was in a great mood after that! I’ve only made out with a girl in a bar/club like that one other time and, well… she wasn’t hot, plus someone else had to basically push me to do it. This girl was fuckin’ bangin’, definitely one of the hottest girls in the whole place, and I did that all myself. My balls have grown substantially since I started all of this. I texted her the next day but she didn’t respond. A couple days later I called and got no answer. So that isn’t going anywhere, but damn, what a fun night! The point is I escalated and went for what I wanted. That’s really good because, in complete contrast to going out the previous weekend, this really helped to associate going out to bars with having an awesome time in my head.
Between that and completing Day 46, I was pretty happy for the next couple of days and took a little vacation for myself (I still went to work but I goofed off a lot and didn’t do any drills). Now it’s time to get serious again, so I’m planning on completing Day 47 (and therefore Week 6) tonight. Then onward with Week 7! I’ve been neglecting the online dating for more than a month now so it’s time to get back into that.
Good shit keep it up! I too hooked up with a really hot girl this weekend. Idk if I can chalk the success up to the program as I was pretty scared to initially approach her, but fuck it, results are all that matter when doing this shit for real.
I recently had some shitty setbacks, but need to finish day 39 (STILL)
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Hey Chomp. Setbacks happen, but it sounds like you made it through! You're getting close. I think doing drills definitely helped you there. It's about getting experience doing things even though you're scared to, and seeing first-hand that fear doesn't have to stop you.
I’ve been a little lazy about drills lately, so I haven’t been doing them every day, but last Friday I knocked out Day 47 and completed Week 6! As usual with the bar drills, I had a lot of apprehension leading up to it, but really no issues executing once I was out. I talked to all 20 girls in the same bar, no bad reactions, all neutral to positive, one girl introduced me to her friend. Once I finished I met up with my roommates at a bar next door, and there was a girl we knew there with some of her friends. Later on one of my roommates told me I was creeping out one of the girls (he said she told him that), and he started trying to tell me what I did “wrong”. A testament to how much my mindset has changed is that I immediately reacted by saying, “well that’s melodramatic” (my interactions with the girl consisted of 2-3 times of touching her shoulder for 3-5 seconds before she moved away, and talking to her for about 20 seconds), instead of feeling guilty like the old me would have. I’m not out there “trying to please girls” (in fact the only thing I did “wrong” was not be quick and aggressive enough, which is only “wrong” because I wanted to be more aggressive). It’s not my job. I just do my thang and if someone else is bothered by it, that’s their problem. Since those girls invited us to meet up with them at another bar later (I was ready to go home by that point so I didn't), they obviously didn’t think it was a big deal, so I won’t either.
My approach anxiety is mostly gone now, especially during the day. By this point, my reluctance to do drills or approach women for real has been reduced to mere laziness, the same feeling of reluctance I have about doing anything other than goofing off (gym, cleaning, etc.). I only occasionally (and usually only when I’m getting started) actually get a fight/flight reaction. My main source of apprehension is that there won’t be enough girls and I won’t have time to get a drill done or hit the numbers. A testament to how low my AA is (even at night) is that I walked up right to a really hot girl and 3 minutes later was making out with her in a bar two weekends ago.
At the beginning of all of this, my thought process was, “kissing a hot girl right after you meet her is too scary to you, you need to get over that fear”. Well, here I am. There’s more work to do for sure, but for the first time in my life, getting laid a lot is a feasible challenge, not an unattainable fantasy.
Now it’s time for Week 7! I went to do Day 48 last night, but the crowd was really thin (weeknight plus holidays probably aren’t helping) and I didn’t want to walk around for 1+ hours (i.e. I’m being lazy), so I tapped out. I’m going to take another shot on Friday early afternoon, when I’ll have more time and there should be more people. The way the drills have been going lately is I tend to get only a couple done during the week, but then blast through 3-4 per day on the weekend. I’ll be snowboarding this weekend, but next weekend I’ll be able to finish up Week 7 if I haven’t by that point already. I should complete the AA program around or a little after New Years. I still need to do Day 44 (eye contact) at some point.
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