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Forgot to say in the video how the girl reacted to me telling her what I was doing: she thought it was interesting/fascinating, and said she remembered a TED talk about something similar. Completely positive.
Also realized I answered my own question, "if they go to 3 will they stop before 6" by doing the "as many times as possible" drill today. The answer is yes, several of the girls went to between 3 and 6. So the rejection rate for 6 will be higher than for 3, and tomorrow is going to take a good amount of work. This obviously doesn't account for the added aggression from me trying to get 6 spins tomorrow.
I did it guys. I conquered this program and I genuinely beat my approach anxiety.
One thing I want to correct in the video. I said “the hard work is done”, but you can tell watching me I immediately retracted that. In a sense THE HARD WORK HAS JUST BEGUN. This wasn’t all for me to hang a plaque up in my house. Now it’s time to start approaching, every God damned day, and start getting laid.
Went out last night and got a number, got another one today at the grocery store.
Gonna try to finish the remaining 9 approaches for Day 64 (I didn't count the nighttime one, only daytime approaches) tomorrow after work at the nearby campus, then officially end this thread with a "debriefing" video and start another thread for my approach VLOG.
It's all wrapped up now. I blasted through the remaining 9 approaches of Day 64 in 45 minutes today, which was crazy. I got in there immediately, literally first attractive girl I saw (before I even entered the campus), and just went rapid-fire. The first 4 I got 4 numbers, that was quite an ego boost.
I talk in the video about how I now have "meta-anxiety": anxiety about still having approach anxiety. That will probably go away in a few days to a couple weeks. Even if it never does, it's obviously irrelevant (if anything it's making me more determined to get in there just to prove it wrong). I can cold approach. I'm a man now.
Will post the final "recap" video later tonight and that will be it for this thread and I'll move over to my Approach VLOG. Thank you to everyone who watched my progress, supported me along the way, and everything else.
I'm squinting through my binoculars... and I see pussy over the horizon...
0:00 - Intro
0:47 - How I discovered GLL and started the AA Program
9:21 - Recap/history of completing the program
16:09 - Why did it take so long? (spoiler alert: I wasn't serious, didn't make it my #1 goal, life was too comfortable without pussy)
21:57 - When did the program get challenging?
25:12 - The most valuable moments of the program
26:36 - What contributed to my success?
28:45 - How/when do you know it's working?
29:38 - How/when do you know you've beaten approach anxiety?
32:20 - Should guys do Week 8?
33:57 - Would I recommend the AA Program to others?
35:26 - Final Remarks
Chris, if you ever come across this, I want you to watch from 33:57. I really hope you get to see and hear what I say in that part, and pick up just how meaningful this all was to me. You're the cool player big brother I never had.
Thanks to everyone who helped me along the way, and newer members currently in the program, best of luck to you and I'll see you on the other side (believe the rumors: it's so nice and sunny on this side ). And that's it from me. Follow me to the next chapter on my
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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