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Did all 15 in about 75 min. Great day. Beautiful day out. I really focused.
No 37 tomorrow. Waiting a couple weeks until the BU/NU girls are back in town in force. Right now the bars I know are older couples and sports fan sausage. In a couple weeks I gotta do day 30 and day 37, bar drills. For now I'm on day 38.
Day 38, you're cute little girl. I went in with high expectations, as I virtually always do. I did pretty well with compliments last week. But this one was a goose egg after a couple of hours of fruitless strolling around Newbury St and BU campus. It hurt to be so humbled. But I'll get through this drill and this week of drills just like all the others.
Day 38 second try, this one is way harder than I thought. I don't even like to post when I don't get all the way through a set, but I'm staying accountable, logging the good with the shitty. Today was less than good, not totally shitty. Got 7 "you're cutes" in and they all felt good. This is not hard to do, I was being too choosy about girls I actually thought were cute. Need to forget that, just pick the borderlines too, tell them they are all cute.
Day 38, You're cute, had time to get 10/40 in today, then had to leave. I'll go for getting the other 30 done tomorrow to finish up. I loved doing this today. I definitely wasn't smooth. Often it was like talking to myself, saying it to girls as they walked by. I loved it, it didn't matter what the girl did. The more and more I divorce myself from any need for the girl to do something, obviously the more free I'm going to feel.
Also used an old trick of mine to get this one going today. Got pissed, felt it in my body, got angry. For me it cuts through some of the AA and nice guy shit if I'm having a hard time with a drill.
Day 38, you're cute, got up to 28/40 approaches. I expect to be done tomorrow. It works better for me I figured out if I used the Scotty idea of treating the girl like my best friend, or someone I've known for years.
Had fun finishing.
Realized lately got back into being picky, about the girls, my state, all kinds of bullshit. Just cancelled it all and did the work. There is no good time or bad time to do a drill approach, no good girl or bad girl to do it on (IMO as long as she is young, not obese and over a 4), no good reaction or bad reaction to get, other people around/not around doesn't matter, no smoothness quota. Worked quickly on the edges of BU campus.
Honestly don't have the time or energy to do these 40 approach drills all at once, as great as they are. Have to break them up. Got another 10 reps done on day 39 today. I'm at 21 out of 40.
Loving the challenges of these last couple of drills. I just have never given chicks I didn't know sexual compliments. So it's been a ride. I'm watching myself open up to this new way. Or, I'm becoming more like I am with chicks I've already banged- with chicks I don't know. Removing the barriers between those two versions of me.
Day 39 done, I'm getting more and more comfortable with not being smooth in delivery. Letting my looks and style stand on their own while I up social freedom increment by increment.
Heard something Chris said on a recording about smooth today. He said if he looks smooth in a video at a certain moment or in control, in command, it's because he's done that thousands of times. Before AA I had so little cold approach experience. Experience brings confidence. Repetition leads to more confidence. 2 weeks ago I had hardly ever told a stranger she was cute. Now I've done it over 70 times.
plantar fasciitis for the last 5 weeks, man, hard to do drills when your feet are crapped out
FINISHED day 40, didn't love this one, rebelled hard. I don't like being a dork. I hate it. I intellectually see value in all the drills, but certain drills, day 27 muscle guy, day 40 second part- hey you're cute I'm ...high five, it's like anti-swag.
It's not "who I am" - haha
But onward, actually looking forward to day 41.
When I get to 46 I start approaching, I may or may not continue on with more drills after 46.
Not here to do drills, here to get laid to cold app pussy. I just want to approach now, I'm ready.
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